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Posted: Sun Sep 24, 2006 12:45 pm
Hurrah. First thread.
Ugh... my dad. I don't like him anymore. He takes off every weekend not telling us where he is going and what he's doing. If we call him, he doesn't answer. I love him, but he's being irresponsible. My step-mom waited 2 days straight for him to come back. He comes back pretending nothing's wrong and then the whole family gives him the cold shoulder. He then gets pissed and then takes it out on everything in sight. [except my grandma] I'm just afraid he's gonna get wasted or something. He might start smoking, drinking, who knows what. He's already become addicted to the slots. He hasn't gone to any of his choir practices and he's skipping out on family occasions. What the ******** said that he's take me to watch Wicked this weekend. Apparently, he forgot. He promised to take me to my friend's house all the way up on the other side of the state. He knows I barely get to see her. He forgets. Not only is he totally sucking at being a dad, but he's been breaking a lot of promises...
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Posted: Sun Sep 24, 2006 2:12 pm
....obviously, something's wrong...
I know I'm not one to say this but.. I think you should corner him oneday and just talk. Ya know, ask him If he ignores you, press on. ....okies, I'm about to cry now... If worst comes, we'll be thrown out together <333
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Posted: Sun Sep 24, 2006 4:19 pm
man that sucks-- i agree with Usagi, you should just talk to him. you should talk to your mom too, maybe something is bothering him. i understand that a rift is forming, but u shouldn't give up. maybe he's not telling your family things that might make you guys feel worried. i hope that the best will happen!
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Posted: Sun Sep 24, 2006 4:44 pm
Futura Galaxy Vikar man that sucks-- i agree with Usagi, you should just talk to him. you should talk to your mom too, maybe something is bothering him. i understand that a rift is forming, but u shouldn't give up. maybe he's not telling your family things that might make you guys feel worried. i hope that the best will happen! Her step mom is like my mom. They both bombed Hiroshima >>;;
I would try to avoid that.
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Posted: Sun Sep 24, 2006 4:49 pm
wow... pretty harsh... I definately agree that you should try to talk to him...but maybe start out suddle and if he doesn't want to talk, then be more serious and corner him so he can't ignore you!
I hope you work things out... Don't forget that you always have friends to talk to!!! We are here for you!!!
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Posted: Sun Sep 24, 2006 5:39 pm
...My main concern is that he is doing something that would hurt more if you found out.
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Posted: Mon Sep 25, 2006 12:23 pm
W202 ...My main concern is that he is doing something that would hurt more if you found out. I totally agree
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Posted: Mon Sep 25, 2006 2:13 pm
Yeah... thanks guys. ^ ^
W202: That's what I'm afraid of too. Like I said, I do not want to think of my dad as a bad person, but I think there's something going on that I should know about it.
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Lazuri-Hikari Vice Captain
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Posted: Mon Sep 25, 2006 6:50 pm
If anything happens, we're here for you. Wow, and i thought my life sucked. I should stop complaining. Yeah, just talk to him, but stay alive (we need you in our school, or else it'd be very very boring and... sane. -shudders-) If ya need help, you got friends to help you.
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Posted: Mon Sep 25, 2006 7:35 pm
Awww... thanks Lazi. ^ ^ heart I'll be sure to keep that in mind.
And don't worry. You still have the right to complain. Life really sucks at times, but there are always some good times that keep you smiling. :'D
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Posted: Tue Sep 26, 2006 9:04 am
Best way I can put it, life is an experience. You get what you or the others ariund you make it. ^_^
Sorry to hear about this, however. I'll help you to the best of my ability.
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Posted: Tue Sep 26, 2006 12:06 pm
Everything's okay... kinda. I talked to my dad and he just said it was between adults. I didn't want to pry any further because he looked really uncomfortbale. I'm just really scared of the answer... Anyway, thanks a lot everyone. Reading what you wrote made me smile. :'D
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Posted: Tue Sep 26, 2006 1:37 pm
(<^^<) (v^^v) (>^^>)
Cheers feh Kiwi <3
I hope the worst stays where its at
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Posted: Tue Sep 26, 2006 1:53 pm
Kiwi`sama Everything's okay... kinda. I talked to my dad and he just said it was between adults. I didn't want to pry any further because he looked really uncomfortbale. I'm just really scared of the answer... Anyway, thanks a lot everyone. Reading what you wrote made me smile. :'D I am sorry to say this but that sounds kinda...you know... like an ADULT problem which is bad but then again he could just feel bad that he has been leaving you and not want you to worry 3nodding prepare for the worst, hope for the best!!!^_^
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Posted: Wed Sep 27, 2006 1:31 pm
Thanks Kata. :3 And yes, it is an adult problem, but I should at least have the right to know where he's been going and when he'd be back. I am his daughter after all.
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