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 Posted: Thu Sep 21, 2006 2:12 pm
my friend is a really great friend, but sometimes he takes playfighting to a bad level. he'll pull me to the ground by my hair, kick me in the gut once or twice, and then laugh about it. i know why he does it, it's because i'm smaller and weaker than him. and when he runs away afterwards, i'm the one who gets in trouble 'cause i'm on the ground. i don't know what to do.
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Posted: Tue Sep 26, 2006 1:12 am
that's so mean of him T__T
ummm.. how about.. talk to him about it?
possibly get to know why he does it and well ask him not to it again?
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Posted: Tue Sep 26, 2006 9:53 am
Chase him down and kick him a**... But then agaion I have always been a big guy. Umm when he grabs you by the hair grab his hair... That way if he tosses you down, he tosses himself down.
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Posted: Tue Sep 26, 2006 6:12 pm
Caterham_Paladin Chase him down and kick him a**... But then agaion I have always been a big guy. Umm when he grabs you by the hair grab his hair... That way if he tosses you down, he tosses himself down. doesn't work that way
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Posted: Tue Sep 26, 2006 6:56 pm
Lol i figured... but I was trying to make a light hearted comment. I have never really had that problem... Damn my german heritage.
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Posted: Wed Sep 27, 2006 11:35 am
Try everything you can to avoid the fight. If that doesn't work either try to talk about it and ask him to stop, or avoid him altogther. He shouldn't be doing that kind of stuff.
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Posted: Wed Sep 27, 2006 1:04 pm
Lithanus Try everything you can to avoid the fight. If that doesn't work either try to talk about it and ask him to stop, or avoid him altogther. He shouldn't be doing that kind of stuff. i can't really avoid it. but on to something more important. there is a girl in my class, the new kid, who decided to cut herself with scissors in the middle of social studies class. apparently, she "had no friends," which is a bunch of bs b/c she hangs out with people all the time. and the way who did it just makes it worse; she took the point and dug into her arm and my friend said that she started actually cutting her skin with the scissors. just like it was a piece of paper. *shudder, cringe, and all that jazz*
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Posted: Wed Sep 27, 2006 2:31 pm
That girl needs some serious help. sad
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Posted: Thu Sep 28, 2006 12:44 pm
Lithanus That girl needs some serious help. sad amen.
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Posted: Fri Sep 29, 2006 11:48 am
ZoeeKitty Lithanus Try everything you can to avoid the fight. If that doesn't work either try to talk about it and ask him to stop, or avoid him altogther. He shouldn't be doing that kind of stuff. i can't really avoid it. but on to something more important. there is a girl in my class, the new kid, who decided to cut herself with scissors in the middle of social studies class. apparently, she "had no friends," which is a bunch of bs b/c she hangs out with people all the time. and the way who did it just makes it worse; she took the point and dug into her arm and my friend said that she started actually cutting her skin with the scissors. just like it was a piece of paper. *shudder, cringe, and all that jazz* I've seen it before. a few years back, demon possesion of a friend of mine. pray for her dude.
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Posted: Fri Sep 29, 2006 11:51 am
oh and abou thte guy who keeps beating on you. one day for no reason when he's not looking jump on his back , lock one arm around his neck and use your other arm to lever te one around his neck back until he can't breathe. once he falls down release. he'll only be passed out for a few seconds(seriously release as soon as he goes down or you run the risk of killing him) while he's down boot him a few times. see how he likes it.
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Posted: Fri Sep 29, 2006 6:52 pm
Lazarus The Resurected oh and abou thte guy who keeps beating on you. one day for no reason when he's not looking jump on his back , lock one arm around his neck and use your other arm to lever te one around his neck back until he can't breathe. once he falls down release. he'll only be passed out for a few seconds(seriously release as soon as he goes down or you run the risk of killing him) while he's down boot him a few times. see how he likes it. i'm a weak little 8th grader who can't lift over 40lbs without giving myself an anurism (sp, probably). if i do that, he'll just turn it around on me. like usual.
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Posted: Fri Sep 29, 2006 7:04 pm
Wow man... It sounds like your in a spot there... I can recomend Learning some CQC to kung Fu for a more traditional style... If you don't want to fight these will still help they teach you how to fall properly... but I guess a kick is a kick no matter how you take it. This guy isn't a friend he's a punk.
I used to have a friend like that... but he was smaller than me. He would often knee me in the side of my hip. But I got used to it and learned how to see it comin'. See if you can pick out a pettern of when it happens and learn to see ti coming... if you can.
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Posted: Fri Sep 29, 2006 7:14 pm
i can never see it coming. and if i try to talk to him, he'll think i'm weird. and of course, he'll say he's sorry and just go and do it again. and just to prove the point of my first point, the other day right in my teacher's sight, he started doing that and then the teacher just said, "if you wanna have fun, do it on your own time." and i just said "you have got to be kiddin me! you didn't just see that?" omg i don't know what to do, except pray to God and hope He will help us both. but mostly him.
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Posted: Sat Sep 30, 2006 12:31 pm
He may or may not think you are weird, but he will stop. Trust me talking your way out of those situations is possible and often the best thing to do. If he truely is your friend he will listen to you.
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