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 Posted: Fri Sep 15, 2006 4:28 pm
What I realized about them is that they are crap.. nothing is the same in the real world.. you see them everyday for one.. In mature adult relationships where both of you work (not living together) You have to manage your time with personal time , friends time, and boyfriend or girlfriend time. Also have to make sure they are happy and most of the time they are.. You also don't (most of the time) them finding someone eles they like because they are more mature and don't just like someone one week and someone new the next week (sadly this is not true for all). In High School there is DRAMA everywhere and someone always wants your boyfriend or they want you and its just so retared You just want to scream and everyone to leave you the F*** alone! Also the whole dating someone just because your lonely is boohockie.. Only thing that happen is someone gets hurt either you or your partner or both.
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These are my thoughts for now I might have to rant some more later... lol
(p.s. I'm in High school and I work and my boyfriend has graduated and works full time.. but I started dating him after he graduated.. His days off are on Sunday Wednesday and thrusday... I see him atleast twice a week.. and we talk every day)
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Posted: Sat Sep 16, 2006 7:39 am
You are entitled to your oppinion. I married my high school sweetheart. Been married almost two years now.
Although...I am not sure exactly how this is any form of a life issue...
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Posted: Sat Sep 16, 2006 12:03 pm
High school relationships have their place in life, though most don't end up being successful. They're mainly just experiences to learn from so that when we do enter the real world, we're more in touch with not only what we want and who we are, but what other people want and what type of person we need.
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Posted: Sat Sep 16, 2006 1:37 pm
theyre not necessarily crap,just depends if you found a good person or not, of course no one expects that you'll marry someone you meet in highschool and if you do, good for you, if you dont, so what?
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Posted: Sat Sep 16, 2006 6:52 pm
Its just through my years of dating people that are in high school.. its not really worth it.. High School is so dramatic if you don't have someone then you die.. so they think but when they are with someone then they are just as mirsuable.. also in my school 99% of the kids do drugs.. not dissing on you druggies but I'm a very selfish person and if he has money and spends it all on drug then I'll kick his a**.. I am the only addiction he will ever need.. ( I am a very nice person just been burned by quite a few druggies) My boyfriend used to be a drug dealer but after he got caught twice at school and then his house burning down he got a revolation and realized that its stupid.. hes been drug free since teh day we started dating... that was over 3 months ago.. he has a stable job and hes going great.. for the first 1 1/2 months of our relationship we saw each other every day.. it was great we need to time to bond and talk.. But I got a job and I couldn't see him as much and then coupel weeks later he got one doing tattoos.. then I got fired for being sick and for the next three week I was sick to my bed.. feeling very depressed.. no one knew what was wrong with me.. and then he managed his time to see me and call me all the time and such like that.. I'm ranting but it doesn't matter does it? I'm just explaining how I came up with my theory..
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Posted: Sat Sep 16, 2006 10:23 pm
Heh, well, I do agree that the doing drugs thing isn't hot. For me that is an instant "no" (same with smoking too, although alcohol is ok cause I drink).
But I disagree that high school relationships are crap. Most relationships at that age definitely don't last, but that doesn't mean they are worthless. A lot of my friends learned something from high school dating as far as the type of guy they like (or don't like), and what does and doesn't work. And I think once you hit high school it is a good age to experiment a bit. I don't mean just go and have sex or take a ton of risks, but I think in a lot of cases it takes time and possibly some mistakes to figure out the type of guy or girl you are looking for.
Just my opinion.
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Posted: Sun Sep 17, 2006 8:39 am
You are certainly entitled to your opinion.
High school relationships somewhat prepare you for things, and also help you mature.
So they are not a waste of time in my eyes.
It gives you choices to make and decisions that you have to live with for a long time, if not for the rest of your life.
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Posted: Sun Sep 17, 2006 3:34 pm
Personally, I feel that most (Not all) people are only as faithful as their options. Not excluding Adults either. The problem is that deep down, we're still animals. If we spend enough time with another person, we're going to want to have sex with them. I've seen it happen quite a few times, Highschool relationships and others. I've actually seen one couple make it out of highschool doing this, and they just broke up for about the 4th time because he found someone else who'd have sex with him.
*is bitter*
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Posted: Sun Sep 17, 2006 4:47 pm
high school relationships aren't crap its just teenagers today tend to make it crap. nowadays high school relationships tend to revolve around sex and yet there are still some who date because they like each other then fall in love. they are not crap in my opinion but that is yours i may ussume
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Posted: Fri Oct 27, 2006 10:38 am
My boyfriend and barely talk in class. He's one of those "when I'm in school, I learn" kinduh people. I am too. But when we're outside of school we do everything.
People ask me at school why me and him never talk or hug er kiss or anything.
no 1. PDA mister I'm not getting a referral for hugging.
no 2. Boyfriends aren't just for making out with and to be your sex buddy when you're lonely. I wanted a boyfriend to have someone who could care about me and I could always depend on for help.
I never wanted someone 'just for fun' I was looking for guy who could be like a husband to me. And I have that. :3
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Posted: Fri Oct 27, 2006 11:42 am
I almost never see my boyfriend. We see each other about twice a year.
And now that my mother found out about sex, it'll be never again until I graduate.
But I still love him. And he doesn't treat me like a sex kitten. And I'm in high school.
It's all about the learning experience.
My two cents.
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Posted: Fri Oct 27, 2006 11:49 am
Wendy_Chan I almost never see my boyfriend. We see each other about twice a year. And now that my mother found out about sex, it'll be never again until I graduate. But I still love him. And he doesn't treat me like a sex kitten. And I'm in high school. It's all about the learning experience. My two cents. I couldn't stand only seeing my boyfriend twice a year. I'm freaking out now and I just saw him yesterday *cuddles stuffed animal he gave me* I'm just obsessed like that. He's my little boy *^^*
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