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Zoeyaneliz

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Posted: Fri Sep 15, 2006 1:20 pm

I'll try to make this as short as possible to not bore you!
A little while ago I posted in this forum about the issue I was having with my boyfriend...Basically, during sex...he couldn't get inside me.
Well, seven tries later... (Yes, seven)...we're still having the same problem.

Now, I know what you are thinking...
"You're too nervous"
or "He's too nervous"
or "You're not ready."

But I am...and we are. My boyfriend and I are excellent communicators...He's not nervous at all and I'm not either. And during it we're both fine.
So what's the deal?

My boyfriend thinks it's because I don't know my body well enough. So, because I don't masturbate, I'm having issues with sex? Or do I have some sort of freakish abnormality? sad

Posted: Fri Sep 15, 2006 5:42 pm

Take your finger and place it on your a**s then from there, trail it to the front (you won't have to travel far) until you feel a dip/hole and there's your v****a. You don't necessarily have to masturbate, but just take one finger and slowly insert it and see how that goes.

Just because you don't masturbate doesn't mean that's why he can't fit in you. You and he might simply not be away of where your v****a actually is (obviously you know the vicinity, but the exact spot is something daunting). Guys in particular need some direction since they don't have a practice v****a at home to know where to insert themselves or how. Inexperienced guys often tend to aim more for the a**s then the v****a since when the female is lying down, the a**s is a little more "accessable" when they are looking for something that feels like a hole.

If you still can't insert anything, I'd suggest seeing a gynocologist.

Yukito Yu

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Zoeyaneliz

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Posted: Sat Sep 16, 2006 12:31 pm

Yukito Yu

Take your finger and place it on your a**s then from there, trail it to the front (you won't have to travel far) until you feel a dip/hole and there's your v****a. You don't necessarily have to masturbate, but just take one finger and slowly insert it and see how that goes.

Just because you don't masturbate doesn't mean that's why he can't fit in you. You and he might simply not be away of where your v****a actually is (obviously you know the vicinity, but the exact spot is something daunting). Guys in particular need some direction since they don't have a practice v****a at home to know where to insert themselves or how. Inexperienced guys often tend to aim more for the a**s then the v****a since when the female is lying down, the a**s is a little more "accessable" when they are looking for something that feels like a hole.

If you still can't insert anything, I'd suggest seeing a gynocologist.

Thanks for the info!

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