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 Posted: Sat Sep 09, 2006 9:33 pm
My best friend just died this past tuesday morning (9/5/06). He died in a car wreck when he was thrown from the car (and no, he wan't wearing a seatbelt). Apparently he was driving too fast (as usual), lost control, drove into a ditch, and fliped his car end over end multiple times. We had the wake on Thursday, and the funeral service on Friday. I guess I'm jsut looking for some consolation from people who have had similar experiences.
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Posted: Sun Sep 10, 2006 6:46 am
Well, no one else replied who actually had similar experiences and while I haven't, I felt that I should say something. I'm really sorry that happened. ::hugs:: That's hard to deal with I'd think and again, I'm really sorry and I hope you feel a bit better soon.
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Posted: Sun Sep 10, 2006 11:02 am
That's never happened to me. . . But I'm so sorry. I wish I could help.
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Posted: Sun Sep 10, 2006 11:39 am
I wish I could help, but all I could can is sorry.
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Posted: Sun Sep 10, 2006 11:48 am
first of all i am so sorry.....and second my brother just died on my birthday *5/19/90*....and he was in the same type of car crash but he fliped sideways 6 times and the car landed on the roof cry crying
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Posted: Sun Sep 10, 2006 4:52 pm
*hugs* I know how hard it is. 8/13/06 was the day that my friend Eric died in a car wreck not that far from my house. It never really sank in until he didnt come back to school this fall. There isn't a day that goes by that I don't think about him or miss him. In truth, he's not really gone: he'll always be in my heart. Like he would have wanted to be. I always called him the Bad Boy with a heart of Gold. And that's who he'll always be.
Just remember that he'll never really be gone as long as you honnor his memory.
heart
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Posted: Sun Sep 10, 2006 5:27 pm
I had a friend died. Wasn't from a car crash though, it was from gunshot. Someone shot him. My then best friend told me what happened. I didn't lnow what to say, he moved away and that's where it happened. Now in our home town. It sucks. I didn't know what to think, someone you know is not non existant. It's weird.
I also been through death with my Grandmother. I cry, got really depressed and thought about suicide so that I could escape this pain and be with her, I still sometimes do this.
Just remember don't live in the past, but always remember the good times, and think. If s/he were here now, they wouldn't want you to be sad.
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Posted: Sat Sep 16, 2006 12:11 am
Thanks guys. I'm coping, i guess. I don't know, Rob was always the kind of guy who would show up at your house at 2 in the mornign drunk and looking for a place to stay for the night. I keep thinking that he's going to show up in his truck an moment. Deep down inside I know that isn't true, but still. He had this kind of a quirk that we never managed to catch on camera. I think that I'm going to miss that the most. At the wake the had his cell phone on a table, I think that by the shape it was in it must have been in his pocket when he was thrown from the car. The funny thing is that it realy didn't look any worse for wear, he was always dropping/kicking/throwing and stepping on it. I even remember him running one over with his truck, not to mention he threw it at me on one occation for calling him gay after hitting on him. Oh well, I'm going to find the bottle of rum that I got in his memory, God he loved his rum. Again, thanks guys.
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Posted: Sat Sep 16, 2006 4:30 am
My pa died last year from cancer, of corse i've known him all my life so he was someone i was very close to. You could see the life slipping away from his frail body and the he was sent to hopital, we had an awaking and yet to still have finished funeral a year later. I know and so do the other the pain that you feel. for me it took well almost a year to sink in and it hurts alot. But everyone dies and i belive are reborn again, to start a new life as a new person or animal whatever you choose.
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Posted: Sun Sep 17, 2006 3:22 pm
I'm a bit late, and I'm sorry for that..
Also terribly sorry for your loss...
You know that I lost my mother.. I.. I actually don't even know what to say... If you want to talk, I'm here to listen.. You can PM or IM me.. Or email me.. Which ever you prefer.. I can offer you an ear and a shoulder, right now, I'm afraid, not more than that..
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Posted: Sun Sep 17, 2006 5:00 pm
My best friend (my dog..^^; ) died wensday 9/12/06 ... theres more details about it... bad ones but imma keep that to myself, ^^; but my grandma has a pet now ^^;
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