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Posted: Thu Sep 07, 2006 2:18 pm
Can someone please explain to me why it is that If a guy reads a anything about two girls having sex he's straight if a little perverted but if I a girl read about two guys having sex I'm asked if I'm a lesbian. (Nothing against lesbians it's just been pissing me off)
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Posted: Thu Sep 07, 2006 2:27 pm
It's just dumb. Either ignore them or point out that a lesbian wouldn't really want to watch two guys get it on.
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Posted: Thu Sep 07, 2006 2:37 pm
y would u b watching 2 GUYS if ur a lesbian n into GIRLS?? they're idiots, tell them 2 P*** off!!
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Posted: Thu Sep 07, 2006 2:49 pm
Someone asked me that too. He looked on my favorites on youtube and found my yaoi folder, looked at it, and asked me if I was a lesbian. wtf? If I were a lesbian I would be crazy over yuri, not looking at yaoi.
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Posted: Thu Sep 07, 2006 2:50 pm
They're just stupid and don't know what they're talking about.
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Posted: Thu Sep 07, 2006 3:01 pm
I have no idea. No matter how much one tries to wrap thier head around it it JUST. MAKES. NO. SENSE. XD
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Posted: Thu Sep 07, 2006 3:51 pm
klausolas Can someone please explain to me why it is that If a guy reads a anything about two girls having sex he's straight if a little perverted but if I a girl read about two guys having sex I'm asked if I'm a lesbian. (Nothing against lesbians it's just been pissing me off) Because people are dicks! (and not the good kind gonk )
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Posted: Thu Sep 07, 2006 6:38 pm
Lesbians can like yaoi, but someone asking if you're one because you like yaoi doesn't make sense. People confuse me.
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Posted: Thu Sep 07, 2006 6:43 pm
I was asked that several times and I can just say that I've lost friends (if I didn't lose them because I like yaoi) due to me snapping at them telling them that I'm not a lesbian...I've been asked that over 5 times just this year. Makes me so mad.
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Posted: Thu Sep 07, 2006 6:46 pm
lol, yupyup ^^ I've been asked a couple times as well. Some people are stupid. It also bothers me when guys talk about or they have a guy in a movie who sleeps with two lesbians. Honestly, if they're lesbians why would they sleep with some guy.
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Posted: Thu Sep 07, 2006 8:34 pm
いでもいつまでも 私を照らしてい て 大きな愛でずっと WOW. xDD Tat like... Makes no sense. So just ignore them. ^ω^
You are my shining star ☆忘れないから☆
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Posted: Fri Sep 08, 2006 7:28 am
When I came out about yaoi shounen ai . Mommy looked at me like I was a maniac . Then she asked "Are you lesbian?" And "If you want we can go to a lesbian/gay nightclub?" It's just plain wierd .. I ignore it heart 3nodding
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Posted: Fri Sep 08, 2006 8:17 am
Yeah, my parents thought I was gay when they found out about my BL webcomic and all the doujinshi I have on there. Doesn't make much sense to me.
Although I have encountered alot of bi people(I am bi myself) in the fandom...though whether or not they're doing it as a 'fad' is debatable. After all, I see alot of homophobic yaoi fangirls too.
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Posted: Fri Sep 08, 2006 10:22 am
I really don't get it either. I'll read anything so I get all kinds of weird accusations on what I'm into. You don't even want to know about some of it. It would make you cry. So don't worry about idiots.
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Posted: Fri Sep 08, 2006 1:51 pm
princessMeep It's just dumb. Either ignore them or point out that a lesbian wouldn't really want to watch two guys get it on. I beg to differ. xD
Though Yaoi/BL is intended for the heterosexual female-only, it has been known to influence a great deal of women in Japan to question their own sexuality, and hence, end up defining theirselves as "lesbians".
But, I can see where such an ordeal can hit a nerve. I'm personally a lesbian Yaoi/BL-fan, and people ask me the exact opposite. xD
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