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 Posted: Mon Sep 04, 2006 5:15 pm
Are you still a lesbian if after three years of straight up lesbianism you find one guy that you connect with?
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Posted: Mon Sep 04, 2006 11:47 pm
I really think it has more to do with how you perceive yourself overall, and how you wish to identify. There are as many sexualities as there are human beings. If you really want to keep that label, then keep it, and don't apologize for it.
So, there's one man you connect with. Maybe you're comfortable with him. Maybe you even fantasize sometimes about kissing him or having relations with him. That's really okay. A fantasy is, by its very nature, not necessarily rooted in reality. For most of us, fantasies are satisfying because we know we're safe from actually having them come true.
If you get so far as having sex with him, and then afterward your first thought ISN'T "God, what on earth was I thinking?" then maybe you need to look into accepting yourself as somewhat bisexual instead of fully homosexual. But the truth is, being straight or gay or bisexual isn't completely, or even predominantly, about who you want to have sex with. It's about whether you want to talk to them before and after, get to know them more deeply, spend time with them... or whether you just want to sleep with them, then tell them to go away.
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Eloquent Conversationalist
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Posted: Wed Sep 20, 2006 10:33 pm
I thought I was nearly straight my whole life until I discovered that I was bi (obviously gradually). I am a guy, but my opinion on sexuality is that sexuality does not deal in numbers. So, although you've been lesbian for quite some time, being attracted to a man doesn't mean that you have to be attracted to solely men for 3 years to make up for it. If you are truly attracted to this guy/ or guys in general, then I guess we can call you Bisexual, but really, you are yourself...don't get flustered over what to label you.
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Posted: Mon Oct 02, 2006 4:51 pm
i'm bi, but i lean more on the girls side then guys. smile i agree just because oyu have feelings for one guy doesn't mean your bi, iit's kinda what you want to label yourself.Or if you think your more bi then les. or more les than bi.
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Posted: Fri Jan 26, 2007 12:10 pm
that would prolly make u bi (if ur looking to label it)
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Posted: Tue Nov 27, 2007 4:50 pm
Labels on your sexuality is sooooo confusing! gonk
Maybe you like him because he makes you feel safe and you're comfortable with him
and maybe if you do have a deeper relationship, you could find that you really do fall in love with him, or you love him as a friend
but i dunno what your sexuality would be..
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