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 Posted: Sat Sep 02, 2006 12:07 pm
ok ok, so the 28th of this month is my 6 month anniversary with my bf *(note, i dont celebrate monthly anniversaries, just yearly).
anywho, i have never had such strong feelings for anyone before him. we joke around a lot and we tell eachother we LIKE eachother. but he looks deep into my eyes when he says it. i'm wondering if or when i should ever tell him or bring up the fact that i actually LOVE him. i dont know how to do this, because i don't want to ruin anything with him.
even my mom says we make a really good couple, and both my parents and the rest of my extended family love him, theyre always talking good about him. i love him too, but i dont know what to do.
any suggestions? ninja
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Posted: Sat Sep 02, 2006 8:11 pm
Maybe ask him first about how he feels for you, before telling him you love him? Otherwise if he doesn't love you (ie - he just "likes you"), then it might be a bit awkward if you spill your guts and he feels differently about you.
Otherwise, just go for it.
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Posted: Sun Sep 03, 2006 9:47 am
Nikolita Maybe ask him first about how he feels for you, before telling him you love him? Otherwise if he doesn't love you (ie - he just "likes you"), then it might be a bit awkward if you spill your guts and he feels differently about you. Otherwise, just go for it. thats a good idea. ill ask him first. why didnt i think of that sweatdrop thanks whee
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Posted: Sun Sep 03, 2006 10:43 am
oh oh, and
would it be better to ask in person? Because it seems easier on me asking kinds of things like this online cause im weird with saying meaningful things in person, not just to him but to everyone.
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Posted: Thu Sep 07, 2006 3:29 pm
i feel lost in this matter O.o
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Posted: Thu Sep 07, 2006 7:08 pm
Ask in person, definately.
There's no time that's really "too soon" or too late."
My boyfriend and and said it, and meant it, at about a month...
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Posted: Thu Sep 07, 2006 9:55 pm
ScreamingCat oh oh, and would it be better to ask in person? Because it seems easier on me asking kinds of things like this online cause im weird with saying meaningful things in person, not just to him but to everyone. Yeah, if you can do it in person then that'd probably be better. Doing it in person shows confidence and it's more personal.
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Posted: Fri Sep 08, 2006 4:39 am
♥
It'll mean more to him if you do it in person.
♥
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Posted: Sat Sep 09, 2006 8:40 am
ok, ill try that. tomorrow. cause hes comin with my family apple picking (hahaha). i think i can figure out how to do it while everyones busy doing their apple stuff. thanks everyone heart heart
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Posted: Mon Sep 11, 2006 3:05 pm
i couldnt get myself to do it. confused i just couldnt. i really want to but im afraid he wont feel the same way or that i might scare him off stressed
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Posted: Mon Sep 11, 2006 7:41 pm
Well, you won't know until you ask. 3nodding Maybe you could ask when it's just the two of you together?
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Posted: Mon Sep 11, 2006 8:10 pm
If you haven't scared him off in 6 months, I don't think asking how he feels about you is going to scare him too much.
Just take a deep breath or two and ask.
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Posted: Wed Sep 13, 2006 3:08 pm
i couldnt tell him in person. i couldnt get the nerve. so i told him online. he thought i meant i was 'in-love' with him and so i asked if he hated me and he goes "no, buti feel the same" and mentioned "but i dont want to go ahead and think 'youre the one'...and i said something, forget what it was, but he was thinking i thought i wanted to marry him, and i dont...when all i wanted to do was love him. when he mentioned feeling the same he was brief about it and i feel like such a fool for telling him. i dont even know if he was serious. then he had to sign off right after i said "that doesnt mean im 'in-love' with you"...cause he seemed concerened about the marriage thing
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Posted: Wed Sep 13, 2006 5:10 pm
I'm confused. And since when does love = marriage?
I'd still suggest talking to him in person. It's hard to have a good and stable relationship if you don't have communication, or trust. If you did it online, as you already saw, he can sign on and off and that makes it hard to get everything out and discussed if one person can leave.
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Posted: Wed Sep 13, 2006 9:01 pm
I agree with Nikolita.
There's so much more to talk ing than just the words.
There's tone of voice, the pace of speech, body language, facial expressions...
It's so easy to misconstrue meanings online...
You need to talk to him in person, try to sort out what you both meant...
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