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Chellie isForever Nirvana
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 Posted: Fri Sep 01, 2006 12:33 pm
ok,I 'm positive that I'm bi,but
1) I have only done a family-kiss{peck on the lips} to girls who are my friends,and I'm scared that it could be just a phase I'm going through,but I remember that I always felt different about girls,then I did about boys,but the thought that it could just be a phase,makes me scared,because I want to still like girls,and I want to still like looking at them.
Has any one else have/had the same thoughts?
or any answers?
~Michelle~
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Posted: Fri Sep 01, 2006 6:11 pm
my guess is if you are afriad of not being bi, then the possibilitys of you being bi are really good. Just because you haven't kissed another girl doesnt mean that there is a chance that you arent. I knew before I ever kissed another girl that I was bi.
But in the end, it all depends on you. No one can make that choice for you.
Door's open if you need anyone to talk to.
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Chellie isForever Nirvana
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Posted: Fri Sep 01, 2006 7:58 pm
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Posted: Sat Sep 02, 2006 1:52 am
It isn't a phase.
It's never a phase.
I felt the same way towards boys and eventually I stopped liking girls all together.
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Posted: Sat Sep 09, 2006 8:16 pm
Attemisc It isn't a phase. It's never a phase. I felt the same way towards boys and eventually I stopped liking girls all together. same here, well except opposite. i'm a girl, anf i felt that way for a little bit but now i've realized that i never actually liked a boy before and i have a feeling i never will. domokun
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Posted: Sun Sep 10, 2006 6:49 am
Hmm, I think I know what you mean almost exactly. A few months ago I had a while where I was afraid that it was all a phase or I was making it up in my head or something of the like. But at the same time, I know I like girls and guys, it's the way I am and I'm fine with that now. Well, most of the time, when it doesn't involve my family, but yeah, other than a New Years weird joke thing, I've never kissed a girl and only kissed a boy once, but I'm still confident that it's not a phase.
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Posted: Mon Sep 11, 2006 7:18 pm
I think the fact that you are scared you are bi defiantly makes you bi or maybe your just scared you won't be different as some people call it. Who knows.
~Michelle~
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Posted: Tue Nov 04, 2008 9:16 pm
Being scared of something changing that you have known for a long time is natural. I believe that everyone goes through what you are going through. I did have doubts at one point in time about being bisexual because i had doubts.
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Posted: Fri Apr 24, 2009 12:27 pm
I tried with boys. I really did. It just... felt cold and obligatory. If you feel any kind of attraction at all, it's not a phase. Try a little more and you'll figure out where you feel most comfortable!
Yeah, love is mostly about wanting someone else to be happy, but making them happy should NEVER make YOU miserable!
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Posted: Fri Jun 19, 2009 12:27 pm
It's perfectly normal to feel that way. Most bi people have a leaning towards one gender or the other, and it's best to just give yourself time and see which you're more comfortable with.
I always think it's kind of silly that apparently to be bi or gay, you have to have an experience with someone of the same gender, but you don't have to do anything with someone of the opposite gender to be straight. A person's feelings are what they are, and we don't always have the opportunity to act on them, but we know very clearly what we find attractive and what we don't, and there's no need to prove anything.
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