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Do you have a complicated circle of friends?
Yes, very complicated...
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No, not really....
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KuraiBijin

PostPosted: Thu May 19, 2005 4:31 pm


I'm not sure about all of you, but I have an extremely twisted circle of friends. I don't mean that we're twisted as in crazy, I mean twisted as in like soap-opera-ish. It's very confusing, and somewhat amusing ((haha, that part rhymed xd )), but if you'd like to know, just say so, and I'll do my best to explain it in the least confusing way possible.

I'm interested in hearing all of your stories as well.
PostPosted: Thu May 19, 2005 4:35 pm


Sure share your story I need to hear something that will make me feel like my life isnt the most pathetic out there.

Kazlyn


Ronnerkins
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PostPosted: Thu May 19, 2005 4:39 pm


Kazlyn
Sure share your story I need to hear something that will make me feel like my life isnt the most pathetic out there.
hows it pathetic? You seem normal compared to most of the people in this guild and thats saying alot.

I have a small tight group of friends and we're all very different yet really weird and close. We spend as much time as we can together. Most of us have been in this circle since we started high school. 3nodding And I know what you mean about soap opera-ish its like drama drama drama whats going to happen next. confused neutral
PostPosted: Thu May 19, 2005 4:45 pm


Okay, the best way I can think to describe the situation is to just list all the friends involved, and tell their part in the situation. Wow, it's almost like setting up a play. whee Okay, anyway, that's all going to be in the next post. 3nodding

KuraiBijin


Kazlyn

PostPosted: Thu May 19, 2005 4:48 pm


Ronnerkins
Kazlyn
Sure share your story I need to hear something that will make me feel like my life isnt the most pathetic out there.
hows it pathetic? You seem normal compared to most of the people in this guild and thats saying alot.


Oh my life is plenty pathetic, I just dont share things, or let them out, so people dont usually know about it. Right now my schooling is going so wrong, my relationship is hangin in a neuse, as will I be if anything gets worse... okay that was over dramatic... anyways, my father and I are still in our 10 year fight, my mother and I arent being open anymore, my step father is just unexplainable, my sister has had the cops to our house a million times this past year, two of my pets just died, my boyfriends mother is pyscho...etc...
PostPosted: Thu May 19, 2005 5:04 pm


ah. Got to love drama. How come alternative lifes all seem to be over dramatic? sweatdrop MY friends are all full of drama. Putting us all together is so crazy. We can't do anything together without arguements occuring. Because my two best friends hate each other. Its ridiculous.

Ronnerkins
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Xprysia

PostPosted: Thu May 19, 2005 5:06 pm


The problem with me is that I have quite a few small groups of friends. I have one lot that are all mainstream posers (but they are my oldest friends), one lot that constantly try to be different and get very stressed in the process because that's what everyone else is trying to do, one lot that are a lot older than me and hate anyone who "isn't in the circle", one lot that are just plain crazy and enjoy going out and getting off with the first things that moves, and the other lot are just a set of boring old acedemically minded people. I don't fit in completely with any of them but on different days I enjoy all of their company. The main problem is that every one of those groups, hate's the other groups. It's mental, and I'm the one in the middle. I should write some form of soap opera around them, but I think it would be too hard to keep track of them all. Here's a simple version of what is happening at the moment:

(I'll give the group names to make things easier
Group 1 - mainstream posers
Group 2- the 'trying to be different' lot
Group 3 - the older ones
Group 4 - the crazy lot
and Group 5 - the smart ones)

Currently 1 hate 2 because one of 1 tried getting off with one of 2's boyfriend. 3 absolutly hate 4, and because 3 hate 4, 2 hate 3 because 2 actually like some of the people in 4. 5 stay away from anyone and everyone because everyone who isnt in 5 is an idiot (apparently), everyones hates 5 for that very same reason. 4 hate 1 because they're all posers, 1 think this is unfair and so they hate 4....I could go on but I'm confusing myself.

Still, I love them all to bits...and they keep me amused smile
PostPosted: Thu May 19, 2005 5:07 pm


*kicks Gaia* I had a full 9 paragraphs written, and for some reason, when I went to preview it, my whole post got deleted!!! scream stressed I think I'm going to cry ((not really)), that took me like 15+ minutes, and I wasn't done yet.... I'm sorry, but I give up. I'm NOT typing all of that again... Sorry. sweatdrop

KuraiBijin


Twyla Myn

PostPosted: Thu May 19, 2005 5:11 pm


KuraiBijin
*kicks Gaia* I had a full 9 paragraphs written, and for some reason, when I went to preview it, my whole post got deleted!!! scream stressed I think I'm going to cry ((not really)), that took me like 15+ minutes, and I wasn't done yet.... I'm sorry, but I give up. I'm NOT typing all of that again... Sorry. sweatdrop


Bah, Gaia got hungry gonk
PostPosted: Thu May 19, 2005 5:13 pm


KuraiBijin
*kicks Gaia* I had a full 9 paragraphs written, and for some reason, when I went to preview it, my whole post got deleted!!! scream stressed I think I'm going to cry ((not really)), that took me like 15+ minutes, and I wasn't done yet.... I'm sorry, but I give up. I'm NOT typing all of that again... Sorry. sweatdrop


It sucks when that happens

Xprysia


Ronnerkins
Captain

PostPosted: Thu May 19, 2005 5:15 pm


Gaia is a meanie. It does that to me all the time. Fricken pisses me off. sweatdrop
PostPosted: Thu May 19, 2005 5:28 pm


Xprysia
The problem with me is that I have quite a few small groups of friends. I have one lot that are all mainstream posers (but they are my oldest friends), one lot that constantly try to be different and get very stressed in the process because that's what everyone else is trying to do, one lot that are a lot older than me and hate anyone who "isn't in the circle", one lot that are just plain crazy and enjoy going out and getting off with the first things that moves, and the other lot are just a set of boring old acedemically minded people. I don't fit in completely with any of them but on different days I enjoy all of their company. The main problem is that every one of those groups, hate's the other groups. It's mental, and I'm the one in the middle. I should write some form of soap opera around them, but I think it would be too hard to keep track of them all. Here's a simple version of what is happening at the moment:

(I'll give the group names to make things easier
Group 1 - mainstream posers
Group 2- the 'trying to be different' lot
Group 3 - the older ones
Group 4 - the crazy lot
and Group 5 - the smart ones)

Currently 1 hate 2 because one of 1 tried getting off with one of 2's boyfriend. 3 absolutly hate 4, and because 3 hate 4, 2 hate 3 because 2 actually like some of the people in 4. 5 stay away from anyone and everyone because everyone who isnt in 5 is an idiot (apparently), everyones hates 5 for that very same reason. 4 hate 1 because they're all posers, 1 think this is unfair and so they hate 4....I could go on but I'm confusing myself.

Still, I love them all to bits...and they keep me amused smile
Sounds similar to my situation in middle school.... *sigh* I miss those days, everything was so much less complicated...

KuraiBijin


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PostPosted: Thu May 19, 2005 5:42 pm


Not so much anymore... I broke away from my dramatic circle of friends. Just grew out of the teenage highschool drama bullshit, I suppose.
PostPosted: Thu May 19, 2005 5:45 pm


meh I grew up but I didn't mature. My friends are more mature then me and the dramtic bull s**t does get tiring but I can't just say whatever go the hell away because I love 'em all and we like feed off each others personalities.

Ronnerkins
Captain


Xprysia

PostPosted: Fri May 20, 2005 10:14 am


KuraiBijin
Xprysia
The problem with me is that I have quite a few small groups of friends. I have one lot that are all mainstream posers (but they are my oldest friends), one lot that constantly try to be different and get very stressed in the process because that's what everyone else is trying to do, one lot that are a lot older than me and hate anyone who "isn't in the circle", one lot that are just plain crazy and enjoy going out and getting off with the first things that moves, and the other lot are just a set of boring old acedemically minded people. I don't fit in completely with any of them but on different days I enjoy all of their company. The main problem is that every one of those groups, hate's the other groups. It's mental, and I'm the one in the middle. I should write some form of soap opera around them, but I think it would be too hard to keep track of them all. Here's a simple version of what is happening at the moment:

(I'll give the group names to make things easier
Group 1 - mainstream posers
Group 2- the 'trying to be different' lot
Group 3 - the older ones
Group 4 - the crazy lot
and Group 5 - the smart ones)

Currently 1 hate 2 because one of 1 tried getting off with one of 2's boyfriend. 3 absolutly hate 4, and because 3 hate 4, 2 hate 3 because 2 actually like some of the people in 4. 5 stay away from anyone and everyone because everyone who isnt in 5 is an idiot (apparently), everyones hates 5 for that very same reason. 4 hate 1 because they're all posers, 1 think this is unfair and so they hate 4....I could go on but I'm confusing myself.

Still, I love them all to bits...and they keep me amused smile
Sounds similar to my situation in middle school.... *sigh* I miss those days, everything was so much less complicated...


It was a lot more simple in school, but we've all left school now (some are at college, some are working, some are just bumming around)...and still it carries on. Although, I'm less involved in the arguments now.
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