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First post - thanks. and he said that someone MY age asked him to go out with her ..

Second post - I know I am. Cause he's talked to me for about two hours about it. XD

I don't mind anyway.
We talked for a while about it ..

Yes, I would be hurt too. I have been in simular situations where I was told one thing, then the person turns around and does or finds that thing in another.

Anyway, it is okay to feel hurt from it. Eventually, you need to move on though. You said you have a bf that you love. Sometimes we get hurt by things so suddenly we wonder why we are hurt by them in the first place. That doesn't really matter. What matters is that it happened and you can't take that feeling back. All you can do is come to terms with it and move on some how.

I don't think he intentioanlly went with a younger girl. Maybe he grew to like her and then learned her age. Maybe he already knew, but grew to like her anyways. It was nice of him to come and ask you. It shows that he knew you might be upset about it and wanted to make sure it was okay first. He cared about your feelings in the situation. On top of that, he may have been looking for some kind of appectance of the situation. Maybe he just wanted to know there were people who were close to him that thought it was okay for him to date someone younger.

it always happens. We think one thing and establish 'rules' and ways of life on it, then it changes. People and feelings change. When he told you what he did, he may have whole heartidly meant it. Since then, and becuase of his feelings for this other girl and maybe even becuase you moved on from him with a new bf, he was ready to move on as well and changed his prespective on age limits.