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 Posted: Fri Aug 25, 2006 12:21 pm
it's so pathetic. the whole ordeal happened roughly six months ago, but every night i just lay there, staring at the ceiling, wondering what the ******** is going wrong and why he isn't next to me.
yeah...his fiance is now my bestfriend. thing is, he still tells me how much he loves me and how the only reason katheryn is his and im not is because she isn't afraid to show her weaker side to him. i would show my weak side, but im scared of being vulnerable to him like i was...
So, mini-GeeDee, I ask you...
what the ******** should i do?!
Diskus:
--what's wrong with me
--cheating bastards
--times you've felt this way
--how i should deal with my problem
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Posted: Fri Aug 25, 2006 12:42 pm
Ouch, your definately stuck. Have you explained that you don't want to feel vulnerable, or why you don't want to be like that?
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Posted: Fri Aug 25, 2006 1:13 pm
I used to be like that, but then I found someone better. And she's the greatest thing in my life right now. And I'm happy again. Most definitely it'll happen to you too. Just give it time.
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Posted: Fri Aug 25, 2006 2:29 pm
I think he sounds like a b*****d you and your friend should get rid of....
Would you be happy if by some chance you show your weaker side to him and he dumps your BESTFRIEND for you? or worse cheats on your bestfriend with you.... neutral
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Posted: Fri Aug 25, 2006 2:52 pm
So he likes you but he's with someone else. I'd have to say that if this other woman gives him what he wants and you're not able to then you're stuck and he's in the relationship he wants. It's time to move on I'd say. You're gonna have to stop thinking of him and he's gonna have to stop saying things that are contrary to his situation to you. If that makes sense then great.
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Posted: Fri Aug 25, 2006 3:56 pm
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Posted: Fri Aug 25, 2006 4:20 pm
I'd probably move on and find somebody else. If he doesn't like you for the person you already are, he's most likely a waste of your time, and if he likes you and not his girlfriend, well, he's a waste of her time, too. There's got to be somebody better out there for the both of you, honestly.
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Posted: Fri Aug 25, 2006 4:50 pm
I'd try my best to move along.
Like the All American Rejects song.
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Posted: Fri Aug 25, 2006 5:00 pm
Find someone new. 3nodding
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Posted: Sat Aug 26, 2006 9:30 am
Sounds like drama. Just kill the source.
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Posted: Sat Aug 26, 2006 10:57 am
You ought to tell him to screw off. Telling you that is not only disrespectful to you, but also the current fiance. There is nothing wrong with you. There is something wrong with the fact that he can't accept you the way you are. Don't make yourself vulnerable to him. Slap him next time he says something like that. Slap him hard.
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Posted: Sat Aug 26, 2006 4:52 pm
Zephila I think he sounds like a b*****d you and your friend should get rid of.... Would you be happy if by some chance you show your weaker side to him and he dumps your BESTFRIEND for you? or worse cheats on your bestfriend with you.... neutral well, eh heh, funny you mention that... sweatdrop him and me actually had an affair once when he was dating another one of my friends (who wasnt my friend at the time but she is now)
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Posted: Sat Aug 26, 2006 6:32 pm
This is the reason I don't have relationships......... stressed
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Posted: Mon Aug 28, 2006 2:42 pm
ElizaVictoria This is the reason I don't have relationships......... stressed awwww
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Posted: Tue Aug 29, 2006 7:29 pm
That is sad, Ive had somthing like this happen to me, the best advice i can give you is to move on and hope that they live a happy life.
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