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 Posted: Sat Sep 25, 2004 10:35 pm
So, i just felt like expressing this somewhere OTHER than my livejournal.
This night I went out on a date with a girl that has really liked me for about 2 years now. It was kinda fun. I did notice, as did she that I had been checking out more guys than actually paying attention to her, and apparently, she also noticed a few guys checking me out aswell.
Now as for her, a very receptive person, to... well she does have the ability to read minds and such and well, there were these two guys that I saw at chinook station (an area of my city) that were prtty cute. I only had been checking them out as I came down the stairs, but she had said that THEY were checking me out as i walked out the door onto the platform, and i had looked back to see them both looking at me. When we got on the train, they did aswell but her being able to read minds, i asked her to inform me about theirs... well, she had said to me, many a thing wich i do not wish to repeat because it would really cross that PG-13 line. yes, they were thinking things. BUT they did nothing about it because they though i was straight. Of course, even if they had come over, she woulda killed them, because i was on a date with her after all... I guess i am not as unattractive as i though, guys just think me as straight more often than not, unless i try really hard to flirt with them, or tell them outright that i am not completely straight.
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Posted: Sun Sep 26, 2004 2:05 am
Two things:
1. If what your mind-reading date said is true, they found you attractive. If "THEY were checking [you] out," there was interest, even more so if they intended to do things that crossed the PG-13 guideline.
2. If they thought you were straight, then the only thing that keeps them from you is the percieved heterosexuality (you were on a date with a girl, it's the best their deductive powers could do), and the resulting rejection.
You were only unattractive at the level in which they didn't want to cause a scene or disrupt your date. They assumed you weren't interested, and considering the situation, would you approached someone who was on a date with someone else? It would come across as being awfully bold, if not discourteous. I any case, would you rather have hordes of random people jumping you because you were so attractive they could not control themselves? I would assume that after a while it would get dull, if not make you claustrophobic with all the people needing to be near you.
Consider yourself lucky to know that there are people who are attracted to you. And that scale that I talked about on the train? I lied, you're much higher on the totem. 3nodding
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Posted: Sun Sep 26, 2004 8:19 am
Don't you mean xenophobic, Keithing?
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Posted: Sun Sep 26, 2004 8:27 am
but just to note, it really didn't feel like we were on a date, it felt like when i was with my friends normally, and how much higher do you mean?Put it on a 10 scale and retell me where everyone is. including yourself...
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Posted: Sun Sep 26, 2004 12:18 pm
Keithing would you approached someone who was on a date with someone else? It would come across as being awfully bold, if not discourteous. But yes, this happens to me a lot too. I find myself actually have to dress a certain way if I want to get hit on at a club. Of course, sometimes I get hit on even when I'm in my security uniform, which is freaking weird.
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Posted: Sun Sep 26, 2004 12:58 pm
How nice, respectful dirty men. You should invite them to a sexclub later, or write your number down for them. You know, if they're cute.
If your mind-reading friend likes meeting people, maybe you should go on a cruizing-for-other-people date.
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Posted: Mon Sep 27, 2004 5:27 am
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Posted: Tue Sep 28, 2004 7:58 am
wow, you people have a few strange ideas... Interesting...
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Posted: Wed Sep 29, 2004 3:40 pm
[Q] Don't you mean xenophobic, Keithing? No, I meant claustrophobic. Some people get claustrophobic in crowds, not just in rooms or of people. Xenophobia is a fear of the unknown or even people that they don't know. Can't you see yourself being afraid of completely surrounded by people, or even buried in a mound of people pulling, kicking and screaming? Montigo, it was a relative scale. JoVo and Sox were the starting point near the level of my head. That time I placed you near a quarter of the way down, and I was subterreanean. It's more like you were right under the two of them, and I'm [my] waist-high. See what I meant by exaggeration? Oh well, it's all subjective anyway. ...And I'm not about to place everyone on a scale of how attractive they are. Or at least I'm not going to tell everyone where they are on it, because it doesn't matter. I might find someone physically attractive, but intellectually abysmal. In all decency, I'm not about to subject people and myself to complete disclosure of everything I think. I would be a fool to do so.
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Posted: Wed Sep 29, 2004 4:37 pm
Xenophobia is the fear of lots of people in general. =\
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Posted: Wed Sep 29, 2004 8:46 pm
Keithing I might find someone physically attractive, but intellectually abysmal. In all decency, I'm not about to subject people and myself to complete disclosure of everything I think. I would be a fool to do so. Are you saying I'm intellectually abysmal then crying
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Posted: Wed Sep 29, 2004 9:06 pm
Xenophobia is the fear of the unknown, right?
If Keithing was waist high, it'd make for easy head humping....if you're into that sort of thing.
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Posted: Wed Sep 29, 2004 9:45 pm
Montigo Dominic Are you saying I'm intellectually abysmal then crying I don't think he implied that at all. confused
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Posted: Wed Sep 29, 2004 10:02 pm
JoVo Keithing would you approached someone who was on a date with someone else? It would come across as being awfully bold, if not discourteous. But yes, this happens to me a lot too. I find myself actually have to dress a certain way if I want to get hit on at a club. Of course, sometimes I get hit on even when I'm in my security uniform, which is freaking weird. But, JoVo, your sex appeal goes up when you arein uniform. And, I would have said something, but its deffinatly not PG-13. :X
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Posted: Thu Sep 30, 2004 1:33 am
Kokoryta JoVo Keithing would you approached someone who was on a date with someone else? It would come across as being awfully bold, if not discourteous. But yes, this happens to me a lot too. I find myself actually have to dress a certain way if I want to get hit on at a club. Of course, sometimes I get hit on even when I'm in my security uniform, which is freaking weird. But, JoVo, your sex appeal goes up when you arein uniform. And, I would have said something, but its deffinatly not PG-13. :X umm...*raises her hand* i ditto that... not that JoVo isn't teh sex all the time anyways wink
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