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 Posted: Wed Aug 23, 2006 7:07 am
Well, I had a thread in a guild, and a guy (let's call him Jack for privacy reasons) PMed me about it, and we got talking and i gave him my yahoo so we could talk better. We started talking and he's 16, Gay, and likes younger guys (and I like older guys) So we just..clicked kind've.. I liked him right from the start and i could tell he liked me, we'd flirt sometimes and stuff, we live in the same state..
And he asked me out. So of course I said yes, and I was so happy. And two days later, which i know this was early but.. I told him I think I love him (which I probably don't know what love is but..) and I even told him I thought it was early, and he said it was too early for him to say it back and i told him I understood.
And Of course ever since he asked me out I can't get Jack off of my mind... so the next day he broke up with me, he said it was because we hadn't known each other that long, which we hadn't, and that he rushed into it.. so now it's about 2 weeks later, and he's hit on me alot...and things like that, like he wants me but.. I don't know what to do.. I'm waiting for him to be ready because he's not over his ex yet, which he told me he wasnt when he asked me out.. so what should i do? wait for him or make a move? or just talk to him about everything?
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Posted: Wed Aug 30, 2006 6:34 pm
I really think you should talk to him about all of this. It seems like you were a little confused from the start, and it's just snowballing. Just talk to him, and hopefully things will be better.
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Posted: Thu Aug 31, 2006 1:17 pm
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Posted: Sat Nov 25, 2006 4:04 am
I have a friend in that exact same situation...except she is Jack. ...And well..she broke up with her ex and she wasn't really over him. But this guy Steven who is completely in love with her finally asked her out. But she told him that she still had feelings for her ex. They went out anyways....two weeks later he says to her that he loves her (not as early as yours but still)... and she was like "Okay..." and walked away. She still went out with him but it was kind of awkward at first.
...He then tells her again about a month later (they are still going out) and she's like "I really like you" ....I know...not love...but an improvement.
And...I'm sure she does think she loves him because she's mentioned things about it, it's just really hard for her to say.
So basically the point I'm getting to is...that you just got to give it sometime...which I know is really hard exspecially when he's right there in front of you...but trying to force someone into love just won't work. (In fact...I already made that mistake once myself)
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