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DestinysEnemy

PostPosted: Mon Aug 21, 2006 2:06 pm


I've wrote about some of this before...And it was confusing at the time..and now its even more confusing..My best friend, the guy I love, is going away to college on Sept. 1. When he first told me he loved me he told me he wanted to be with me as well. But the last time he had a long distant relationship he got all suicidal and stuff and he said he didn't want that again. I didn't want them to him either. Well then the other day he emails me and says "Even though we aren't a thing anymore doesn't mean I didn't mean what I said that day. Because I really did, Chelsea. I really did" So I called him and he told me that he's gotten over all his physchological problems that he was having trouble getting over. But nothing has changed. And I thought I could deal with it. But I can't. And as the days tick toward him leaving I just cry more and more and I just really need help on how to cope with him leaving. I mean we're still going to talk and write and everything..But I still don't know how I'm going to cope. Probably doesn't make any sense but...It's still confusing to me.
PostPosted: Wed Aug 23, 2006 3:49 pm


Don't look at the glass as half empty, look at it as half full. One day, you might get the chance to meet each other again. But don't sweat it, it's not the end of the world. And crying wont change anything.

*hugs*

Heh, you know what's funny? I am currently in a long distance relationship and if I had to choose right now who I wanted to marry, it would be her. I've known her for a while and no matter how far apart we are, I somehow feel really close to her. Here's the funny part: her name is Chelsea. : D

JayDeth


DestinysEnemy

PostPosted: Sat Aug 26, 2006 8:37 am


Thats cool...^.^..As long as long as your name isn't Sean I'm not that freaked out lol....
PostPosted: Sat Sep 16, 2006 1:45 pm


weelll, perhaps whats bugging you is that the depth of your feelings cant be properly expressed,maybe you should just move on because it seems like youve attached yourself to him and rely on him to be happy. of course if youre able to see him more often then not and he does make you happy then maintain the relationship.

Eskatrene

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