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there were strict rules before to what women sayable or not. today, male word, like ka,boku,kimi,omae,zo,ze etc, are all use by females. but always there will be more politeness and femininess in women talking.

i want to point out here:

-how the women of this guild can speak
-how the will mostly be of speaking
-what they had to speak like
-and for males, what you should be talking like.

verbusage-

used to be different, a man got to be less polite (still do) and women had be more polie (still, but it has dropped to less)


male female polite:

(only new way)

F　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　M
食べます・わ・よ　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　食べます・よ　
食べますかしら・かな　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　食べますかな　
食べませんわ　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　食べません　

~masen wa, is almost always said by female

NORMAL　LANGUAGE　

ｆ　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　ｍ　　
たべるの・か＊　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　たべるか　
たべて・ね　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　たべてよ　
たべるの・ぞ　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　たべるぞ　
たべる・わ・さ　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　たべるさ


～か　in normal language supposed to be tough, so women did not use, but ti is now wvery common, as for no, men do not say as much, which is why i did not include it.　　　　　



　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　

more on particles

面白いわよ　　　　　　　　　　　　　　おもしろいよ
面白いよ　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　おもしろいぞ　
面白いの

SPEAKING　LIKE　JAPANESE　MALE　

i must be admitting, i have laughed a few times at the feminine speech of foreign male, they just do not know how to use male language.

because the above explains better for how females to speak i will review male language here:

僕－say this almost everytime you would use watashi, when you are having to use watashi, then you must, but you usually are able to say watakushi (watak'shi) at these time

俺－you can say this with friend family, but ti is occaision usable outside of these situations. a contraction only for freind, family of ore wa, is orya.

君－anata is usable by men when they need to, but they alot are saying kimi to everyone else. and omae to all there friends

males use contractions more

ndesu and nda, are more likely than full nodesu.

when you need to say ne after adjective say da ne (da na for more)

try not to say "no" in informal for question, it is girly, just say ka, it is toough (this is why women in japan have start using alot of male speech), but this is also why tokyo-ben is called girly is because males can occaisionly say no.

use:

ze- to underscore point

zo- to put strong emphasis on something being said, to emphasize command, and to emphasize self incourage

sa- softens request, emphasize crucial reply

(THESE ARE ALL IN MODREN TIME USUABALE BY WOMEN IN NORMAL SPEECH[ZE,SA,ZO])

てほしい　

is girly,childish and cute, so children,females, and male at informal talking say it.

the polite way is:

てもらいたい　

ってばよ　is is cute, but rather male.

try this cute talk! the girl name 莉音 and the girl who talking is name 志穂

莉音しゃん、こりゃとてもおいちいでちわよ！ぽんぽん、またねー！志穂、家に行かなきゃ！

rionshan, korya totemo oichii dechi wa yo! pon pon, mata neeee! shiho, ie ikanakya!

this real japanese:

莉音さん、これはとてもおいしいですわよ！じゃ・では、またね！私、家に行かなきゃいけない！　

rionsan,kore wa totemo oishii desu wa yo! ja/dewa, mata ne! watashi, ie ni ikanakya ikenai!

(rion, this is tasty! well, by! i have to go home)

see how she use name instead of "i" and the sentence is very different!