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Nikolita
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PostPosted: Thu May 12, 2005 12:59 am


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This will be a combined thread because I'm trying to keep the number of stickies down.

WARNING: This thread will contain graphic descriptions of sexual acts, fetishes, and sex toys. It contains VERY mature information not meant for younger children. I'm posting it for older members who might it to be of some use to them.
If you're uncomfortable with any of these things, or you just don't agree with the topics of this thread, then please leave now.
This thread will only be removed if someone complains to me (legitimately), or if a mod has a problem with it.
Otherwise, please use your own discretion. Don't enter this thread if you're not comfortable with such things.


Post One: Sex Toys.
Post Two: Types of Fetishes, and some information on BDSM.
Post Three: Sexual Positions.
Post Four: How to give a good lapdance.

Any posts after that will just be reserved posts.

Thanks for taking the time to read this! heart

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PostPosted: Thu May 12, 2005 1:10 am


This post will cover some of the more common types of sex toys, including vibrators, dildos, and light bondage toys/materials. If you have any questions regarding pricing, please try looking it up in a search engine. If you have any questions regarding what these toys look like, please look that up also, because I probably can't post such pictures due to Gaia's PG-13 rules.
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Taken from: http://www.sexinfo101.com/ut_typesofvibes1.shtml
(Link no longer works, but I'm leaving it for reference purposes)

Choosing the Right Vibrator
Due to the large variety of products, most people feel overwhelmed by the choices when shopping for a vibrator. Whether the toy is meant to pleasure a man, a woman, or both, virtually every niche has been covered!

It is no accident that there are a wide variety of shapes, sizes and materials to choose from. Certain materials are better suited for sharing with a partner meanwhile certain shapes are more appropriate for a**l play. All this translates into different characteristics, and different care requirements.

The first thing to figure out your preferences and what you are going to use it for:

- Will you be using it yourself or sharing it?
- Is it going to be for vaginal, penile, a**l, or all?
- Do you care about cleaning difficulty?
- The properties of the materials used (soft/hard)?
- The flexibility of the vibrator (bendable/rigid)?
- Does a realistic looking vibrator turn you on or off?
- How big do you want it?
- What's your price range?
- What kind of power supply do you want?


Although answering these questions will help narrow down the selection, choosing the right toy usually requires some experience, so starting with a cheaper product is usually a good way to go.

Power Options
The first decision you want to make is what kind of a power supply you want. If you would prefer something without power, you may want to refer to the Types of Dildos page. Making this decision should be based on your preferences. If you would like something convenient and that you can take anywhere, then you should consider going with batteries. If on the other hand you want something that?s more reliable and has more flexibility, and you don?t mind having a power chord, then you should consider going with an electrical model.

Types of Vibrators
Once you get a rough idea of what you are looking for, its time to figure out what kind of vibrator to get. Due to the overwhelming varieties of products and uses, we will outline the most common types.

Traditional Vibrators
Traditional vibrators are typically shaped like a p***s and range from 5 to 8 inches in length. Although available in virtually any color or material, they are typically hard plastic and offer control of the intensity of a steady vibration. They are a good choice for beginners as they can be some of the most affordable toys.

G-Spot Vibrators
Close cousins to traditional vibrators, g-spot vibrators are shaped and sized similarly. The main difference between the two is that g-spot vibrators have a curve at the end to make hitting the g-spot that much easier. They are available in all shapes, sizes, and colors.

Clitoral Vibrators
Clitoral vibrators make up a large genre in the vibrator world. Having direct clitoral stimulation in mind, these toys have been known to put the O back into orgasm. Products within this class range from mini non-insertable vibrators to attachments to traditional vibrators. The mini vibes are great because they can be taken anywhere and often lack the appearance of insertable toys. The combo toys on the other hand are useful in the way that they offer the full experience.

Egg Vibrators:
Although small and relatively simple, eggs not only hold a strong punch, but usually have a variety of vibration modes on top of the intensity dial. Despite being attached to a power chord, the eggs are incredibly versatile and definitely get the job done.

Hands-Free Vibrators:
Also known as Venus or Butterfly Vibrators, these toys are designed to directly stimulate the clitoris without using your hands. They are generally available with leg straps or a suction pump system. They are a great way to spice up your sex life, as they can stimulate a woman?s clitoris while leaving her v****a exposed for other stimulation.

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Taken from: http://www.sexinfo101.com/ut_typesofdildos.shtml
(Link no longer works, but I'm leaving it for reference purposes)

Most people understand the purpose of a vibrator, but fail to see the purpose of dildos since they do not actively do anything that you could not do yourself. The truth is; while the sensations that vibrators give are unique and pleasurable, they can be too intense for some people. Dildos offer a sense of fullness and allow people who enjoy penetrating others to do so without distracting vibrations, electrical cords or batteries.

Dildos, like most sex toys, are available in a wide variety of shapes, sizes and colors and are made from a wide variety of materials - each having its own unique characteristics. Some materials are better suited for a**l play and others for vaginal use.

Choosing the Right d***o
It is no accident that there are a wide variety of shapes, sizes and materials to choose from. Certain materials are better suited for sharing with a partner, while other shapes are more appropriate for a**l play. All this translates into different characteristics, and different care requirements. The first thing to figure out is what you are going to use the d***o for:

- Will you be using it yourself or sharing it?
- Is it going to be for vaginal, a**l, or both?
- Do you care about cleaning difficulty?
- The properties of the materials used (soft/hard)?
- The flexibility of the d***o (bendable/rigid)?
- Does a realistic looking d***o turn you on or off?
- How big do you want it?

Answering these questions will help you narrow down the available options, making your search easier, and increase your chances of picking out a product that suits your needs.

Types of Dildos
Once you get an idea of what you are looking for, its time to figure out what kind of d***o to get. Due to the overwhelming varieties of products and uses, we will outline the most common types.

Traditional Dildos
Traditional Dildos are the most popular variety of dildos on the market. Although they are generally shaped like a man?s p***s, the realism of each one can vary. On one end you have the ultra-realistic dildos, which are shaped and colored to look as close to a real p***s as possible. Some dildos are even molded from the real thing! Porn stars have been lending their names, and their penises, for sex toy molding in recent years. On the other hand, there are dildos that are made from brightly colored material and do not look like a p***s at all. Traditional dildos fall into a range of between 5" up to as much as 18" for some of the larger varieties.

a**l Dildos
a**l Dildos are specifically designed for a**l use. They are distinguishable from most other dildos because they usually have a larger base or a cord, so they do not get lost in the a**s ? not so amusing if it happens to you! If you plan to use a d***o anally, we would recommend getting one that is designed for that purpose, to avoid an embarrassing trip to the doctor. These include anything from somewhat normal dildos all the way to butt plugs.

a**l Beads
Beads appeal to a wide variety of people and are a popular choice for a**l play. Beads consist of a series of silicone, jelly or plastic spheres attached together by a cord. They are inserted one by one into the v****a or a**s, and then slowly removed creating pleasurable sensations. A great application is using them to stimulate a man?s prostate gland right at the peak of orgasm. This extra stimulation will take a man from cloud 9 to cloud 99, as long as he is ok with the idea.

Balls
Balls loosely fall into the category of dildos if they are not attached to a motor. Unlike vibrating balls, the non-motorized versions do not require batteries and are not attached to an electric cord. Below two of the more common brands are introduced. To see other products, please click here.

One of the choices in this category is Ben Wa Balls. A set of Ben Wa Balls consists of two large, smooth ball bearings and are intended to be used by inserting them into the v****a. They work by stimulating internal areas when they rub or knock up against each other. The sensations from Ben Wa Balls are often very subtle and some women do not find them intense enough to be pleasurable.

A more intense product is Duotone Balls. Like Ben Wa Balls, they have ball bearings that are encased inside a larger plastic sphere, which is usually made of silicone. The two spheres are connected by a cord, which is used for easy retrieval. Duotone Balls work much the same way as Ben Wa Balls, but the sensations are much more intense because the inner ball bearings of the Duotone Balls have room to move, so they knock against the outer casing, or each other, with more force.

Strap-On Dildos
Strap-On Dildos are dildos that can be attached to a harness. Harnesses usually require that the d***o have a flat or flared base to be able to stay attached. The d***o is inserted through a hole in the harness, and then the harness can be strapped onto the user. Many people enjoy the role-playing and variety potential of a strap-on. Some lesbian couples enjoy penetrating their partners with strap-ons. Some women enjoy penetrating their male partners, while some men like to penetrate their partners anally and vaginally at the same time.

Double-Ended Dildos
Double-Ended Dildos are dildos that can be inserted using either end. This is a common choice for people who want to use a d***o on themselves and with partners simultaneously. Double-ended dildos can either be two standard dildos joined at the base, or one that is molded with two working ends. These dildos, like most other dildos, are available in a wide variety of shapes, sizes and colors.

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Awesome, a thread I can have fun with! xd Well as the title says, this thread will contain some examples of some sexual positions for couples.

WARNING: This thread contains graphic descriptions of sexual acts and positions. This content is meant for older members, though of course I have no objection to younger members viewing it as long as they can be open-minded and mature about the thread topic. If you're uncomfortable with the topic, or you just don't like it, etc, then please leave this thread now.

Post One: Sexual positions.

I'll have a couple of reserved posts listed afterwards.

Thanks for taking the time to read this! heart
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Information taken from: http://www.sexualpositionsfree.com/casofchar.html (a rather amusing site, I must say)

WARNING: This website contains pictures of wooden male and female dolls (like the ones Sue Johansen uses on the Sunday Night Sex Show) with each sexual act, so be warned.

- A list of man on top positions: http://www.sexualpositionsfree.com/manontop.html

- A lit of woman on top positions: http://www.sexualpositionsfree.com/womanontop.html

- Sexual spooning: http://www.sexualpositionsfree.com/spooning.html

- Some more "acrobatic" positions: http://www.sexualpositionsfree.com/acrobatics.html

- Some positions for sex while standing: http://www.sexualpositionsfree.com/standorkneel.html

- Some oral sex positions: http://www.sexualpositionsfree.com/oralsex.html

- Some a**l sex positions: http://www.sexualpositionsfree.com/ansexpos.html

- Sex for 3somes and 4somes: http://www.sexualpositionsfree.com/threespos.html

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Taken from: http://www.howtohavegoodsex.com/sex_positions.htm


Sexual Positions: Ideal for new couples first starting to have intercourse

Missionary Position (person with a p***s or d***o on top)
In the missionary position, the person with a p***s or d***o is on top and assumes the dominant role. The other person who is on bottom assumes the passive role. (Each person is lying down, stomach-stomach, face-to-face. Most people may be able to remember using this position the first time they had sex or in their early days of sexual experimentation.) It is one of the tried and true methods for intercourse. Unfortunately, this position gets a lot of bad press. It is considered 'gendered and old-fashioned". I believe this is a great position. The person on top has a lot of control over the degree of stimulation that they get and the person on bottom can easily increase their sexual pleasure by masturbating while simultaneously having intercourse. If the partner on top is especially coordinated, she/he could also help masturbate the person on bottom. Some of the techniques used to create an intimate environment are eye-to-eye contact, guiding your partners hip movements with your hands, massaging your partner's neck/back, nibbling the other person's ears, necks or lips. And of course, whispering something that only your partner can understand.


Sexual Positions: For the creative couple who want a new sensation

A slightly more technically advanced position, than the basic missionary position . . . for the adventuresome couple only. The person on bottom and the person on top switch leg positions. The person on bottom closes their legs (in the missionary position, the legs straddle (the person on top)). The person on top straddles the legs of the person on bottom. Visually, at least in my mind, it looks as if the person on top is doing a wide-legged push up. The benefit of this position is simple: for the person on top, additional stimulation to the p***s/d***o and for the person on bottom, additional sensations on the inner thighs. Caution: the top position is (for a top that desires) a good physical workout. Expect to sweat.


Sexual Positions: Ideal for a heavy-set couple

A variation on the missionary position: The passive person sits on the edge of a chair or bed, and the person with a p***s or d***o kneels in front of them. The person kneeling then uses his/her or hips to thrust. Neither person is putting weight onto the other person. As the person thrusting is perpendicular, his or her weight is used more efficiently. Sex is exercise and does burn calories. While this position requires a bit more co-ordination than the missionary position, it is often considered less intimate. Face-to-face contact, and whispering become less natural when not facing one another. However, this position does allow for great foreplay. The person with the p***s/d***o is in an excellent position to explore their partner's genitals with their eyes, hands or mouth.


Sexual Positions: For the advanced, bored and/or uninhibited couple

Instead of assuming the missionary position, where the couple is head-to-head and toe-to-toe, one person should reverse their position, so that the two of you will now be head-to-toe and toe-to-head. Again, the difference between this position and the missionary position is that this time, the partners face the opposite direction of each other. Each person has a view of the other person's feet. Make sure your feet smell good! The angle of entry is different and often will require verbal communication. To make this work, the person on bottom will need to arch her/his pelvic area (back flat against the ground) and communication between the two of you will need to be stellar. The angle of entry is very different than what most couples are used to. I strongly suggest that the woman help guide the p***s/d***o with her hand into the correct position. This is a great position for couples who want to try something new, and are prepared to make fools of themselves and be comfortable laughing about how hard this position makes lovemaking.

P.S. while each of you are now facing each other's clean toes, why not have a nibble? Some people love a nibble. Sucking toes and massaging the insoles adds an extra stimulation which can be very arousing.


Sexual Positions: For a woman who wants to have intercourse for the first time

Woman on top is recommended for women who are having sex for the first time because it puts them in control of the situation. The woman is in a position to engulf the p***s/d***o at her own rate of comfort. Of course the other person has some control of the situation too because they are constantly talking/sharing feelings throughout this whole experience. In this position, the person on bottom should tilt her or his hips, back flat on the ground. This allows for an angle that often many women enjoy. In this position, the person on top often lies atop with her legs stretched out or bent. Sometimes, she may sit straight up and slide up and down. Many women report that they really like this position because of the added genital stimulation (the vulva rubs up against the person on bottom's pelvic bone). In addition, men (again, if they are coordinated) can stimulate their partner's vulva (and/or breasts and/or other body parts) with their hands or women could masturbate themselves while having intercourse. Many people on bottom find this particularly pleasurable because of the added visual stimulation of seeing her breast. For a woman who appears self-conscious, I recommend telling the woman how much you are enjoying the way she moves, and how good it feels. This may help her relax. As she relaxes, she may start to enjoy herself more. Actually, this tip goes to all people. Positive reinforcement of pleasurable sensations/movements is a good way to encourage your partner to continue whatever she/he is doing.


Sexual Positions: For the couple who prefers to sit

This position is for those people who enjoy slow motion sex. The angle for intercourse is not conducive to vigorous thrusting. Position the person with the d***o/p***s sits cross-legged on the floor. The woman sits on top of him, with her legs straddled around him. They are sitting face-to-face. This creates a perfect opportunity to hug for a few minutes and be intimate. Be careful that you do not fall over! Sitting on top of each other and maintaining stability is a formidable task for most people. Some people prefer facing the same direction. This is preferable for those who feel less coordinated or embarrassed. You do not have to face the other person. But hey, if you can not laugh about sex with your partner, are you ready to be doing what you are doing with them? Sex is funny. Great chairs include rocking chairs, kitchen table chairs and, of course, the chair in the office. Sex on a chair makes for a good study-break.


Sexual Positions: For the coordinated couple in a rush

A true quickie, for the super coordinated couple-- try standing and having sex. In the ideal world, both people would be of similar heights, or one person could be strong enough to lift the other person to reach the right level. Women need to tilt their pelvic, so that the v****a is forward, and easier to access. The person with a p***s/or d***o either need to squat a bit or have the woman be on a small stool. However, if the woman is taller, then her partner may need to stand on the small stool. This type of intercourse seems to work well on staircases in an office building, down a dark alley, in the middle of a graveyard and other such forbidden places. I highly recommend at least one person wearing a skirt or some other such clothing, which will allow for easy access.


Sexual Positions: For the uncoordinated couple in a rush

The woman puts her hands on a chair, desk, couch or wall, leans forward, butt into the air. The person with a p***s/d***o penetrates her from behind. The woman will need to tilt her pelvic region to easy the entry of the d***o/p***s into her v****a. The person from behind can controls the frequency of the thrusting. To help steady him, he/she can hold onto her butt/hips and thrust. Often couples enjoy hard thrusting. This position is much easier to achieve than the standard face-to-face position. This position is great because in addition to intercourse, it allows the person from behind to massage the woman's breasts, give big hugs and even manually stimulate her v****a with his/her hands. This position can also work well in a stairwell, in an office setting or in a graveyard. It is easy to use this position to have a 'quickie'.


Sexual Positions: For the pregnant woman

This position, side-by-side is recommended for the person who is pregnant, or the couple who is sick of fighting about whose turn it is to go on top or bottom. In this position, the couple spoons together. This position can be very intimate. Many people report that it is a natural feeling to hug the other person and feel protected. In fact, some people find this position so relaxing that after intercourse, they fall asleep in this position. Ok, but how does this position actually work? Generally, the person with a d***o/p***s is in back, but it could be done the other way around. When the woman is in front, to make her v****a easily accessible for penetration should tilt her pelvis back and stomach forward. The person from behind slides his p***s/d***o in from behind. This, position is like the doggie-styled position, except that both people are lying down.

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Now that you know some cool moves, remember the key to success is communication coupled with a bit of variation. Sex, like dancing, if always done the same way, can get boring. If you normally prefer to have sex in the morning, try having sex at night. If you normally have sex on the bottom, try standing up. If you like to have sex in bed, go hot tubbing and have sex in the hot tub. Change whatever you are doing. Catch your partner by surprise. The most boring thing in the world is if you can predict what your partner will do. If you find yourself never initiating sex, initiate it 4 times in one day. If you find yourself always instigating sex, then stop for two weeks and see how your partner reacts to changing her/his role. For that matter, if you always begin being sexually intimate by kissing first, play with her/his toes first. If you normally start touching the genital area, start by giving a backrub, which will turn into a front rub. Change is the most critical part here. Anything different is an improvement. For example:

- Blindfold and tie one person's hands together. Then ask the person without use of their hands or eyes to explore your body.
- Use foods, such as strawberries, whipped cream, chocolate or honey and spread them out over each other's body.
- Create a romantic atmosphere in the bathroom (candles, music, and bubbles) and take a long luxurious bath. Wash each other from head to toe. After both of you are thoroughly relaxed and cleansed, start touching each other with your lips. Begin by sucking on each other's right toes and work you way all the way up to the left tip of their right finger.

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I know some people probably hate this website but... I love the magazine, and the sex articles too bad, so I'm using Cosmopolitan as a reference. If you don't like the website/magazine, then just skip this section.
WARNING: If you click on each individual position on the website, there are pictures with each one (not graphic, but still), so be warned.

This information taken from: http://magazines.ivillage.com/cosmopolitan/sex/no/articles/0,,544153_547497,00.html


1) The Lusty Leapfrog.

Why It's So Hot
You and your man will quickly realize why The Lusty Leapfrog has such climax potential: Hovering in a sexy squat above your man -- rather than sitting or straddling him squarely -- gives you the perfect chance to clench him tight. "This is one of the easiest positions in which to flex your PC muscles around the glans of his p***s, which can initiate an intense orgasmic response," says Paget.

This erotic arrangement also allows for better command of pacing and depth of thrusts (it's easy to vary between deep and shallow), which helps put you in control of your climax, says Kenneth Ray Stubbs, Ph.D., author of The Kama Sutra of Sexual Positions: The Tantric Art of Love. "Squatting will help you feel the entire length of his shaft as you encircle it, and the muscle tension created by holding yourself above him will really add to the intensity of your pleasure."

How to Do It
Straddle your man (lying on his back) and slowly lower yourself onto his pelvis, sliding his p***s inside you as you go. But rather than sitting down in a straddle position, raise yourself up off him in a squatting position. Put your hands on his thighs, stomach, rib cage or upper chest for support. Start by sliding yourself up and down his member by lifting your lower body up and down -- a totally different motion than going forward and back like regular woman-on-top. Vary your pace, starting with some fast, teasingly shallow thrusts that touch only the tip of his p***s, then move down into deep, slower thrusts that envelop him completely. The fabulous friction you'll create will give you the double bonus of amazing sensations all along the edge of your vaginal opening when you pump shallow and on your G-spot when you pump deep. And if you try leaning backward and resting your hands on his thighs and knees, the sensation will even spread to your clitoris -- and the natural arching of your back will open up your body for him to fondle.


2) The Sultry Sidewinder.

Why It's So Hot
The Sultry Sidewinder allows you the sort of languishing, leisurely pace that, in the end, packs a real punch. (Slow and steady can win the climax race!) "Orgasms that result from a long, slow buildup are frequently much stronger than those that are achieved with fast and intense stimulation," explains Stubbs. "By savoring every single sensation, you're able to achieve a higher level of pleasure in the end." (Think of it like a getting-it-on gearshift -- if you go straight from first to fifth, you get a quick drop-off, but if you go from first to second and so forth, your erotic engine will be humming by the time you get there.) Plus, this side-by-side setup is great for intimacy, which can sometimes get lost in the shuffle and storminess of sex. All the eye contact, kissing and closeness of this position will drive your slow climb to orgasm.

How to Do It
You and your man should be facing each other on your sides, superclose together, says Paget. Raise your upper leg and help him to slide inside you, then drape the leg over his and tight around it. "Try to arrange it so that your feet are braced against a wall or footboard," she advises. "That way, you can use the strength in your feet, legs and toes to give you the action you want." If you tend to get tense before climaxing, this is the perfect move to do as you peak upward. "Some women require a form of strong muscular contraction to get to that next level of stimulation that leads to orgasm," says Paget. "The side-by-side allows you to have that firm, full-body contraction while staying in motion." Adjust the coital fit of his entry by tensing or relaxing your thighs together. You'll hug his trunk, stimulating the inner walls of your entire v****a; by relaxing your legs and opening them somewhat, he'll have a bigger range of motion, which can help you get intense clitoral titillation en route to your climax.


3) The Canine Coupling.

Why It's So Hot
The orgasmic advantage of The Canine Coupling (a special version of doggie-style) is that it directs intense, firm pressure from your man's member to your G-spot; pressure so pointed, in fact, that Stubbs says it's "one of the only positions where the p***s is touching the G-spot like a bull's-eye. It's a direct hit." Says Paget, "It's primal. This is how animals do it. So when people want to connect with their raw, unbridled, passionate sexuality, they often look to this position." Then there's the erotic incognito element: The fact that neither of you are able to see the other's face can lead to lower self-consciousness and higher pleasure-consciousness. "When you're not able to use your visual sense, you rely on your senses of touch, sound and smell, which allow you to let go and pay attention to the sensations that will help lead you to climax," explains Paget.

How to Do It
Assume an all-fours crawling position and let him enter you from behind, either standing or kneeling on the bed behind you. "But instead of staying on your hands and knees, tilt your shoulders downward with your forearms flat on the bed in front of you," says Paget. The natural curve in your back from this variation will expand or contract your vaginal wall so you can monitor how deep he goes. If you arch your back into a small hump, it will shorten your v****a and shift the stimulation down a notch; bend it the other way and you'll get deeper, more intense thrusting action. Plus, he'll get strong stimulation to the head of his p***s, the most sensitive part. If you don't like him to go deep, have him use a circular motion so his pelvic bones don't push into your tush. Should your arms begin to ache from the exertion, meld with the mattress by lying flat on your stomach but arching your buttocks upward by placing a pillow under your pelvis. He'll be perfectly positioned to hit your G-spot, which is on the anterior (tummy side) vaginal wall.


4) The Magic Missionary.

Why It's So Hot
The Magic Missionary is a twist on the regular missionary position that simultaneously stimulates both your and his hot buttons (he gets extremely firm and strong glans stimulation; you get close clitoral stimulation). "Both the man and woman's groin areas stay in constant contact in this position, which can be amazing for orgasms," says Paget. "The heat and sensation are never ending."

Most important, the position is fabulous for inducing the sort of muscular contractions that can move mountains. Mattress-wise, it's not an energetic action, explains Paget, but it puts your bod in more pleasure-enhancing motions than the spread-eagle style because it lets you move and squeeze more to build arousal. Plus, your man will be using some of his strongest muscles -- his thighs and glutes -- so he'll endure like the Energizer Bunny.

How to Do It
Have him enter you while you are lying on your back with your legs apart. Once he's inside, bring your legs close together and have him hook his ankles around your calves and raise himself up slightly on his hands with a small arch in his back. "He'll look a bit like a frog," says Paget, "but he'll feel more like a prince." By closing your legs, you will create a more snug entry for him and more sustained clitoral stimulation for you -- his groin will be doing a rumba on your hot spot. "Also, because it's a short stroke and the angle of his p***s in this position will be arching up, he can control his movements better (it's the natural direction of his thrusting) and really reach the front vaginal wall." If too much depth in missionary position causes you discomfort, have him use shallow strokes so he doesn't come in contact with your cervix. As for your movements, Paget suggests that you tighten your lower muscles (your hips, glutes and thighs) to create rhythmic clenching in your pelvic area for heightened sensation.


5) The Titillating Trapeze.

Why It's So Hot
"With this sex pose, a woman is really able to watch her man in action and one hundred percent surrender to the sensations," says Paget. The power of this position is that he gets to take complete control and show off like a stud while you lie back, relax and let yourself have some very intense G-spot pressure, says Paget, because your lower body is lifted up at a perfect angle for his p***s to give you maximum penetration. Plus, it will double your pleasure: Besides putting your bod in a prime position for your guy to hit your most sizzling spot, you'll also be more open than ever to manually (and directly) stimulate yourself. This will heat up your hottest genital nerve systems (those around the clitoris and the G-spot) and hold them in harmony, so much so that you can have what Paget calls a blended orgasm.

How to Do It
Start by lying on your back on a bed with your legs spread apart slightly and your honey kneeling in front of you. He should then place the backs of your knees in the crooks of his elbows and pull upward so that your lower back and butt are raised off the bed at a 20- to 30-degree angle and the backs of your thighs are pressed against his stomach and chest. Try using one or more pillows beneath your tush and back (the more pillows, the less you have to do) to hike yourself up a bit so he has a prime pleasure-you angle.

He should be able to enter you easily this way, as your buttocks will be cupped between his quads with your genitals pressing right up against his. Although you'll have to expend a bit of effort to keep your thighs together, it will be well worth it! "This position allows the man to maintain his balance and push his hips forward when he pulls your body toward and away from him, attaining a very easily maintained rhythmic motion," says Paget. And the better the rhythm, the better your chances of a mind-blowing orgasm.

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Some quick info on the Kama Sutra: http://www.kamasutrafree.com/

WARNING: This website contains pictures some people might find disturbing or offensive, so view the website at your own discretion. You've been warned fairly.

A list of positions: http://www.kamasutrafree.com/kamsutpos.html

Click each position to view the wooden dolls in the various positions. Again, they're the same wooden dolls Sue Johanson (sp?) uses on the Sunday Night Sex Show.

Nikolita
Captain


Nikolita
Captain

PostPosted: Thu May 12, 2005 1:16 am


Information on Lapdances

Thank you to Nozomi for reminding me about this topic! Can't believe I didn't think of it sooner... sweatdrop
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How to Give a Good Lapdance

Taken from: http://weird-websites.com/ColtnessChessClub/LapDancingTips.htm

How to give a lap dance

Willingness
Only perform when you are in the mood and are comfortable with whom you are going to performing for. You will never look sexy if you are feeling shy, embarrassed or pressurised.

Music
Select the music carefully - slow and sensual is best. Practice to the same music so that you can learn to move to the beat.

Atmosphere
Plan the set up of the room and seating for your partner. Set the lights low. If you are performing your first lap dance or feeling in anyway shy or unattractive keep the lighting very dim. This will help to provide a cover up for you until your confidence grows. Try lighting the room with just two or three fragrant candles. Make sure the room is warm - if you feel cold it will ruin your performance.

Costume
Choose an outfit that your partner particularly likes - school girl skirt and blouse, nurses outfit etc. Underneath have on your sexiest red bra and g-string. Wear stockings and long boots or stilettos. Be colorful and sensual. Splash out on something special for your big performance.

Set the Limits
Before you start make sure your partners knows what he can and cannot do. Absolutely forbid him from touching you. This will give you a sexy, powerful feeling, and seeing your naked body but not being able to put his hands on it will make him crazy with desire.

Audience
If you are new to lap dancing and decide to dance at a party or anywhere there are strangers: do not strip off completely! If you do you could discover your photos all over the internet. Save nudity for a private dance for a partner or for clubs where rules stop prying photography.

Stripping
Start several feet in front of him, swaying your hips sensually in a swirl motion. Dance toward him and when right in front of him, place one foot on the floor between his feet and the other on the arm of the chair.

Rub yourself over the top of your clothing – running your hands up your legs to your thighs. Slowly remove your clothes in this order: blouse, skirt, bra, panties, stockings. Occasionally caress yourself-especially your breasts. From time to time make eye contact with your partner and remember – SMILE.

If you have long hair, run it up and down his chest and between his legs. Put your hands on the arms of the chair and lean your breasts into him, rubbing them over his face and down his body, but always pulling back to tease him. Turn around, straddle his legs, and wiggle your bottom.

Throughout the performance: move away from your partner and dance for a few moments, allowing him to see your front and back then move back close again.

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Note: As someone pointed out in Nozomi's thread, it's best to talk to your partner before giving them a lapdance, to see what they like and don't like. Some people don't like certain colors, some people don't like certain types of lingerie, etc. And it would suck to accidently turn them off your lapdance, no? So just be careful and consider talking to your partner beforehand, unless you're going to surprise them with the lapdance and you're 100% sure of what they like.
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I'll add this and more info in the sticky another time, soon. heart
PostPosted: Thu Jul 14, 2005 8:55 pm


very informative, thank you

playa a 717


Lilah-Clover

PostPosted: Wed Jul 20, 2005 7:27 pm


whats a reserved post??
PostPosted: Wed Jul 20, 2005 8:51 pm


wow, so many questions i've had have been answered!..thnks smile

eroticerica


Nikolita
Captain

PostPosted: Wed Jul 20, 2005 11:46 pm


Lilah-Clover
whats a reserved post??

It's just a post I have set aside in case I ever need to add more information. It says "reserved", so people can't post in that spot. Then later on I can go back and edit the post to include the information I want. 3nodding
PostPosted: Thu Jul 21, 2005 1:56 pm


very nice and informative

SweetJenny


Nikolita
Captain

PostPosted: Mon Jul 25, 2005 8:30 am


heart
PostPosted: Mon Jul 25, 2005 3:23 pm


OOOOhhhhh....

So many dirty thoughts going through my little mind now...

Can't wait till my bf gets back here... twisted

Thank you!

Chaylee


Lilah-Clover

PostPosted: Tue Jul 26, 2005 3:47 am


Nikolita
Lilah-Clover
whats a reserved post??

It's just a post I have set aside in case I ever need to add more information. It says "reserved", so people can't post in that spot. Then later on I can go back and edit the post to include the information I want. 3nodding


thanks.. I thought it had hidden content or somthing.....



anyway thanks for the lapdance update.... Love it very much
PostPosted: Tue Jul 26, 2005 4:48 am


Any info on male vibrators or sex toys?

The head of the CIA


Nikolita
Captain

PostPosted: Tue Jul 26, 2005 8:01 am


The head of the CIA
Any info on male vibrators or sex toys?

*Makes a note in the to-do thread*
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