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 Posted: Sun Aug 13, 2006 8:32 pm
i say its unwanted sex just because i dont want it to be rape
bondage position, unwanted sex, but no, "no's" "stop's" or pushing away
let me know if you need more information
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Posted: Tue Aug 15, 2006 11:41 pm
Rape is synonymous to unwanted sex. However, if you didn't make it clear to the other person that it was unwanted, i don't know how much can be done about it...
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Posted: Thu Aug 17, 2006 7:35 am
That's the tricky thing with BDSM and S&M. You have to establish the rules beforehand. If you (or who your'e talking about?) had no real way of making it clear you did not want the sex to happen, it's hard for you to prove it, or for the other person to understand that you're serious and not just playing. This is what many teens don't understand about the lifestyle (yes, it can be a lifestyle). It's also why teens participating in BDSM or any type of harder bondage is frowned upon in the BDSM community.
Both partners need to have a real understanding of what's ok and what isn't. If it's harder, you need to have safe words, which mean 'stop' no matter what. Simply saying 'no' doesn't always work, especially after the play has gotten to a certain point.
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Posted: Fri Apr 24, 2009 3:03 pm
In my opinion if you didn't want it, but you didn't say no...i guess you can't really do anything. You HAVE to make it clear that you don't want it. If you didn't say no then maybe they thought you wanted it.
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Posted: Wed Jul 15, 2009 11:17 pm
Rape is considered any sexual act that isn't mutual and one party does not give full consent.
however if it isn't voiced you can't really do much
BDSM and S n M are fine as long as everyone says yes
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Posted: Sat Aug 01, 2009 2:09 am
I had something like that happen to me too. This guy I was dating wanted sex from me and I was still a virgin...he didnt force me to at that time so I had sex with him. The next day, he tells me that he wouldve raped me and 2 weeks later he tried to..handcuffs and all until my mom called and said she was right outside...
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Posted: Thu Aug 06, 2009 1:54 am
If for a single instant you didn't want to be involved anymore, and you let it be known that you wanted it to stop, whether you verbally expressed it or not, then it is rape. Even if you ended up enjoying it at some point.
That's why BSDM is so risky.
I'll only ever do it with guys that I trust won't take it too far.
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