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 Posted: Sun Aug 13, 2006 4:57 am
When you have friends that care about you since you were a kid.. but then when you reach High School..
EVERYTHING changes!!
they meet new friends who interdouces them to girls.. then they gte together.. and forget about there friends or don't hang out with you like they used to because of the girl..
What do you call that?
What kind of friends do that?
Any advice on what i should do?!
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Posted: Sun Aug 13, 2006 4:08 pm
hhmmm....have u talked to your friend(s) about this? they might not know how u feel. the thing bout life is that the only thing constant is change...so even if u don't like it u gotta accept it. and if your friend is in a relationship, u gotta understand that couples need their time together. i know it can be annoying sometimes but u gotta give them some space. but once the friendship is true and u guys are there for eachother then it shouldn't really be a problem.
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Samurai_Warrior_FoX Vice Captain
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Posted: Sun Aug 13, 2006 6:08 pm
squinty1989 When you have friends that care about you since you were a kid.. but then when you reach High School.. EVERYTHING changes!! they meet new friends who interdouces them to girls.. then they gte together.. and forget about there friends or don't hang out with you like they used to because of the girl.. What do you call that? What kind of friends do that? Any advice on what i should do?! yea i know what you mean man....but you shjould get more, dont put 2 much into your friends it doesnt work out most of the time, when u find good frien you'll know.
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Posted: Sun Aug 13, 2006 11:51 pm
those really aren't friend....well they are sorta but ummm they aren't your true friends.
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Posted: Mon Aug 14, 2006 12:28 am
Agika hhmmm....have u talked to your friend(s) about this? they might not know how u feel. the thing bout life is that the only thing constant is change...so even if u don't like it u gotta accept it. and if your friend is in a relationship, u gotta understand that couples need their time together. i know it can be annoying sometimes but u gotta give them some space. but once the friendship is true and u guys are there for eachother then it shouldn't really be a problem. i gave my friends there space.. but when i did.. it's like i'm not there!! If not getting a gf means losing your friend then that's stupid!! P.S: i don't have a gf and i don't want 1.. sweatdrop
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Posted: Mon Aug 14, 2006 12:31 am
Samurai_Warrior_FoX squinty1989 When you have friends that care about you since you were a kid.. but then when you reach High School.. EVERYTHING changes!! they meet new friends who interdouces them to girls.. then they gte together.. and forget about there friends or don't hang out with you like they used to because of the girl.. What do you call that? What kind of friends do that? Any advice on what i should do?! yea i know what you mean man....but you shjould get more, dont put 2 much into your friends it doesnt work out most of the time, when u find good frien you'll know. Here comes the problem.. i met a lot of good friends this year.. but most of them are girls.. i'm ok with having a million girl as a friend and 1 boy.. but i can't go out with girls in my country because everyone TALKS and my parents won't believe me.. but i talk to trhem all.. i try to keep in touch with them.. they are great to talk to.. 3nodding
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Posted: Mon Aug 14, 2006 12:34 am
XDarkerSydeX those really aren't friend....well they are sorta but ummm they aren't your true friends. well.. they are the friends that i like hanging out with.. when we were young.. EVERY week... we had to go out and do something.. but now.. cry
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Posted: Mon Aug 14, 2006 4:36 am
squinty1989 Samurai_Warrior_FoX squinty1989 When you have friends that care about you since you were a kid.. but then when you reach High School.. EVERYTHING changes!! they meet new friends who interdouces them to girls.. then they gte together.. and forget about there friends or don't hang out with you like they used to because of the girl.. What do you call that? What kind of friends do that? Any advice on what i should do?! yea i know what you mean man....but you shjould get more, dont put 2 much into your friends it doesnt work out most of the time, when u find good frien you'll know. Here comes the problem.. i met a lot of good friends this year.. but most of them are girls.. i'm ok with having a million girl as a friend and 1 boy.. but i can't go out with girls in my country because everyone TALKS and my parents won't believe me.. but i talk to trhem all.. i try to keep in touch with them.. they are great to talk to.. 3nodding my parents do that 2, it's really annoying. not talking to them will only make you feel worse. I take my risks cuz i know that the person i know that's there for me will always make me feel better and is worth any trouble.
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Samurai_Warrior_FoX Vice Captain
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Posted: Mon Aug 14, 2006 5:01 am
Samurai_Warrior_FoX squinty1989 Samurai_Warrior_FoX squinty1989 When you have friends that care about you since you were a kid.. but then when you reach High School.. EVERYTHING changes!! they meet new friends who interdouces them to girls.. then they gte together.. and forget about there friends or don't hang out with you like they used to because of the girl.. What do you call that? What kind of friends do that? Any advice on what i should do?! yea i know what you mean man....but you shjould get more, dont put 2 much into your friends it doesnt work out most of the time, when u find good frien you'll know. Here comes the problem.. i met a lot of good friends this year.. but most of them are girls.. i'm ok with having a million girl as a friend and 1 boy.. but i can't go out with girls in my country because everyone TALKS and my parents won't believe me.. but i talk to trhem all.. i try to keep in touch with them.. they are great to talk to.. 3nodding my parents do that 2, it's really annoying. not talking to them will only make you feel worse. I take my risks cuz i know that the person i know that's there for me will always make me feel better and is worth any trouble. That's true.. even if my parents are telling me not to talk.. i answer what am i doing wrong?! that way they know i'm right!!
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Posted: Tue Aug 15, 2006 5:04 am
You should talk to your friends about that, they aren't mindreaders so they may not even be aware of what they are doing ^_^;
Anyway, people change, especially when going into highschool. I went to private schools, so things were a bit different. Coming from a small elementary school into a high school was odd for me and I had a few friends going into it. However, I rarely, if ever talk to those people anymore.
We had different interests. It's not as if we fought or anything, but we just branched off and became friends with people who have the same interests as we do.
Since I was in such a small school, I was the only one who liked video games and anime in my class. I felt alone at times. In high school, I met other girls(I went to an all girls school ^^; ) who liked anime and video games, and we're very good friends. I wouldn't give them up for anything.
They're all here on Gaia actually, and I have a little guild for just my close friends to hang out in ^^
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Posted: Tue Aug 15, 2006 6:18 am
NikkiTheStampede You should talk to your friends about that, they aren't mindreaders so they may not even be aware of what they are doing ^_^; Anyway, people change, especially when going into highschool. I went to private schools, so things were a bit different. Coming from a small elementary school into a high school was odd for me and I had a few friends going into it. However, I rarely, if ever talk to those people anymore. We had different interests. It's not as if we fought or anything, but we just branched off and became friends with people who have the same interests as we do. Since I was in such a small school, I was the only one who liked video games and anime in my class. I felt alone at times. In high school, I met other girls(I went to an all girls school ^^; ) who liked anime and video games, and we're very good friends. I wouldn't give them up for anything. They're all here on Gaia actually, and I have a little guild for just my close friends to hang out in ^^ That's good you and your friends are close!! xd
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Posted: Thu Oct 19, 2006 2:28 pm
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Posted: Sun Mar 04, 2007 12:51 am
Friends will walk in and out of your life, and there isn't really anything you can do about it. If they decide they would rather be with a girlfriend/boyfriend, well I guess that is life. If they come around, make sure you are there, otherwise you might not get another chance because you are coming to the end of school and after school, alot of them will move, either to go to college, or to move somewhere else to try to get a better job. If they need you, go to them and help them, because that is what a real friend would do.
I got this e-mail that said this:
People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person. When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend and they are. They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.
Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to share, grow or learn. They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it, it is real. But only for a season.
LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons, things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant .
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Posted: Sun Mar 04, 2007 8:25 am
Silverliss Friends will walk in and out of your life, and there isn't really anything you can do about it. If they decide they would rather be with a girlfriend/boyfriend, well I guess that is life. If they come around, make sure you are there, otherwise you might not get another chance because you are coming to the end of school and after school, alot of them will move, either to go to college, or to move somewhere else to try to get a better job. If they need you, go to them and help them, because that is what a real friend would do. When this happens to you you'll know homw much it hurts... but thanks for your advice! xd and i kinda am dealing with it by myself! cool
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Posted: Sun Mar 04, 2007 9:05 am
squinty1989 Silverliss Friends will walk in and out of your life, and there isn't really anything you can do about it. If they decide they would rather be with a girlfriend/boyfriend, well I guess that is life. If they come around, make sure you are there, otherwise you might not get another chance because you are coming to the end of school and after school, alot of them will move, either to go to college, or to move somewhere else to try to get a better job. If they need you, go to them and help them, because that is what a real friend would do. When this happens to you you'll know homw much it hurts... but thanks for your advice! xd and i kinda am dealing with it by myself! cool I know how it feels, I just got into highschool too you know, alot the people who I used to eat lunch with and always talk to, don't sit there anymore, our table used to be the fullest table in the cafeteria, now, barely anyone sits there.
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