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 Posted: Mon Aug 07, 2006 8:47 pm
First off, i love my mother to DEATH. but, she's begining to annoy me. ever since i've told her that i think i'm gay, she's been having the eyes of a hawk on my, looking over who i talk to, what i do, and where i go. I've been following her wishes to go to a counciler every now and then for $25 a visit (once every 1 or 2 weeks), but it hasn't helped much. I think that she's trying to mold me into being straight, trying to 'redeem me from being gay'. She pisses me off, making me think i'm some kind of malleable doll that she can mold. if im gay, i want to get on with life, if im not, i don't care, i just want my pain and suffereing to end... this has been a torment of hell on me, almost making me kill myself 4 times (No offence ment to ANYONE, anyone at all). what can i do to get her off my back, and get more confidence in myself?
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Posted: Tue Aug 08, 2006 1:57 am
Aw, I'm so sorry you're having to deal with that.
I wish I could say I knew your pain, but, I haven't told my parents yet (Because if I did I would surely be kicked out of my house, if not worse..) And also because I'm really not sure what I am.
Anyway, About the confidence thing, I really can't offer any advice. Having absolutely no confidence myself. x.X;;
To get her off your back, well, there is one way, but, gah...I probably shouldn't say it, 'cause it's terrible advice. Erm, Well, you could always go back into the closet. Be all, "Oh mom. I saw the hottest girl the other day. I think it's working, I think I'm becoming straight again." Or something like that-But, like I said before, it's absolutely terrible advice, so please don't listen to me. x.X;;
Or, you could always just sit her down, plain and simple, and tell her how you feel. Now, I'm sure you've already tried that. But, eh -shrugs- It couldn't hurt.
Hope i've helped some.
~ Dream. <3
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Posted: Tue Aug 08, 2006 7:39 am
Thanks...it's helped a little just by reading it... i'll give it some thought.
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Posted: Tue Aug 15, 2006 11:30 am
Just stick to your guns, don't let her try to make you into something that you have clearly defined yourself as not. I say take Dream's advice--talk to her, set her down and explain that you're still who you always were....she just might have to wait for adoption before she gets grandchildren!
Seriously, keep your head. This is nothing to kill yourself over! *hugs*
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Posted: Wed Aug 16, 2006 5:32 am
Fadia Stalyr Just stick to your guns, don't let her try to make you into something that you have clearly defined yourself as not. I say take Dream's advice--talk to her, set her down and explain that you're still who you always were....she just might have to wait for adoption before she gets grandchildren! Seriously, keep your head. This is nothing to kill yourself over! *hugs* Thanks *hugs bacK*... IM going to tel her everything soon... right after my psych appointment today.
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Posted: Thu Aug 17, 2006 5:40 pm
JJDulin2 Fadia Stalyr Just stick to your guns, don't let her try to make you into something that you have clearly defined yourself as not. I say take Dream's advice--talk to her, set her down and explain that you're still who you always were....she just might have to wait for adoption before she gets grandchildren! Seriously, keep your head. This is nothing to kill yourself over! *hugs* Thanks *hugs bacK*... IM going to tel her everything soon... right after my psych appointment today. Have fun and good luck! heart biggrin
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