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Broorel

PostPosted: Thu Aug 03, 2006 5:09 pm


As some of you may know, I left Gaia because I was feeling quite led in different direction. I have a very prolific blog, and I am happy with that level of internet participation.

However, I feel that I have something to offer the pro-life guild that is at least somewhat unique. I am a sidewalk counselor. That's right, I go to abortion clinics and pray and try to get women to change their minds about killing their children.

I have alot of stories, alot of sorrow, and alot of hope that I feel should be shared with all of you. Ask me any question you'd like, and I will answer. This will be my last thread, but I hope it will be helpful.

Forget everything you think you know about sidewalk counseling, have an open mind, and let me tell you about life at the clinic.
PostPosted: Thu Aug 03, 2006 5:11 pm


*glomps Broorel*

May I ask: What do you believe is the ratio from women who have decided not to abort to the women who have ignored you and have gone ahead and aborted?

I mean, is there a dramatic difference between the two numbers, or is it fairly even?

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Broorel

PostPosted: Thu Aug 03, 2006 5:15 pm


More women go in than leave. I believe it's probably about a 1:5 ratio of women leaving and staying. Last year the organization I work for had 500 women leave and ask for help/services, and about 300 more who simply left.

Although a good portion of women enter quickly and do not take information on the way in, almost all women take post-abortive information on the way out. I would say that of the 4/5 of women who actually enter the clinic, 90% accept help as they leave.
PostPosted: Thu Aug 03, 2006 5:24 pm


Broorel

Although a good portion of women enter quickly and do not take information on the way in, almost all women take post-abortive information on the way out. I would say that of the 4/5 of women who actually enter the clinic, 90% accept help as they leave.


eek That's interesting...do you tell them it's just health information, or do they know it has a pro-life bent?

Do you have to put up with escorts?


*must...not...make...pro-choice slut joke about "escorts"...*

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Broorel

PostPosted: Thu Aug 03, 2006 5:29 pm


The information provided talks mostly about information on continuing a pregnancy. My group focuses on making sure pregnant women actually have the resources to raise their children. We give information about prenatal care, education, and housing. Our organization(Abby maternity services) is run by a social worker so we are very equiped to help these women. It is very obvious we are pro-life, though there are not posters or signs. There is a crisis pregnancy center next door to the clinic, and the women are told it is a pro-life center.

There is one escort, really more of a body gaurd. We don't talk to him anymore, but for quite some time he was pretty friendly with the pro-lifers. He went so far as to help one pro-life lady whose battery died. The clinic no longer allows him to intereact with us unless we come onto the clinic property. I have never seen this happen.
PostPosted: Thu Aug 03, 2006 5:30 pm


it can't be easy watching them walk in, knowing what they are going to do... i'm sorry the weight it on your shoulders. i wish i could help...

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Broorel

PostPosted: Thu Aug 03, 2006 5:31 pm


You can, divine. Pray. It really does help knowing that you have other people praying for the cause, and for the women entering the clinic. For those who aren't Christian, send your positive thoughts.
PostPosted: Thu Aug 03, 2006 5:47 pm


You're in my prayers, Broorel. You're a very brave and beautiful person. ^ ^

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Broorel

PostPosted: Thu Aug 03, 2006 5:58 pm


Thank you, but honestly, the prayer I pray daily is that it would no longer be necessary for me to go out there. I hate it, but I feel like someone has to be there...I just wish that wasn't true.
PostPosted: Thu Aug 03, 2006 7:00 pm


*hugs*

By doing little things, we're getting closer to ending a big problem.

I applaud you, Broorel.

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PostPosted: Thu Aug 03, 2006 7:10 pm


I'm conflicted as to whether I should try and join you or not. sweatdrop On one hand, that would be a good and solid help to the cause, on the other hand... That must be incredibly difficult, and I already have to take 18 credit hours each semester if I want to graduate in 3 years, and I have to get a paying job if I want to keep my car. sweatdrop

But regardless, I'm moving to Dallas. 3nodding Maybe I can at least help sometimes.
PostPosted: Fri Aug 04, 2006 7:04 am


You're moving to Dallas? That's great Iam! Well, I usually go for only 2 or 3 hours on sat. mornings. It's really not that big of a commitment other than the fact that it's spiritually taxing. Pray about it and see how you feel led, we'd love to have you smile

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PostPosted: Fri Aug 04, 2006 7:11 am


That's an amazing thing that you're doing Brooel, and I applaude you.
PostPosted: Fri Aug 04, 2006 9:03 am


i've always wanted to try something like that, but i feel that, as a man, a lot of women would resent my attempt to help them.

I just stick to donating to a local help line and advocation for pro-life whenever i can.

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King_seth

PostPosted: Fri Aug 04, 2006 9:12 am


The only organisations around me are religious, so I'd be a hypocrit if I got involved, plus I don't think i've ever actually seen an abortion clinic.
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