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 Posted: Sun Sep 19, 2004 10:26 am
My boyfriend, Isaac.. his mom e-mailed my mother. I am not to speak to or have any contact with him whatsoever, until he is 18 (3 yrs. from now). I am also not to speak to his brother (my friend) at school. This is killing me so bad. I was (and still am) in love with Isaac.. he told her every secret I ever revealed to him.. I feel betrayed and lost. We lost our virginity to each other.. I still love him.. I don't know how I'm going to get over this. He was my best friend.. and now I've lost him. Please, I know this is one of those threads that should be locked because it doesn't field discussion.. but I just need some support, okay, mods? Thanks.
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Posted: Sun Sep 19, 2004 10:46 am
Skad_for_Life My boyfriend, Isaac.. his mom e-mailed my mother. I am not to speak to or have any contact with him whatsoever, until he is 18 (3 yrs. from now). I am also not to speak to his brother (my friend) at school. This is killing me so bad. I was (and still am) in love with Isaac.. he told her every secret I ever revealed to him.. I feel betrayed and lost. We lost our virginity to each other.. I still love him.. I don't know how I'm going to get over this. He was my best friend.. and now I've lost him. Please, I know this is one of those threads that should be locked because it doesn't field discussion.. but I just need some support, okay, mods? Thanks. I don't know what to say..........for whatever Iwant to say seems wrong and not helpful, but if ya want to talk about it more in an IM I will try to help..........I just hope it works out....sorry I can't help crying
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Posted: Sun Sep 19, 2004 10:58 am
Warning: My advice may sound insulting, or threatening. I appologize ahead of time if I accendentally insult you. I just have a tendency to say the wrong things at an even worse time. Please, I really only want to help.
There are a couple of things I would like to discuss:
1. If you truly love this man, and the feeling's mutual, than I am more than certain your love will last for enternity- not just three years. Think of it this way: the longer everything seems, the more in love you are, and the greater chance you two will ultimately be together,
2. Why would your parents and his do something like this? Have you told them that splitting you two up would cause you major grief? What reasons would either parent have for getting involved in your life?
3. If he told every secret to his parents, then I am sure he was forced to. I am sure he still loves you dearly.
4. Parents cannot control every aspect. What's stopping you from just talking to his brother at school?
I'm really, really sorry about this whole mess. Please, if there is anything i can do to help, or anyone here for that matter, do not hesitate to ask.
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Posted: Sun Sep 19, 2004 12:00 pm
this makes me think of romeo and juliet..
that play just made me extreemly agitated and itchy for revenge stressed
i hate sad stuff.. *comforts*
so im not real intelligent today.. so? sweatdrop
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Posted: Sun Sep 19, 2004 12:59 pm
Shogun Gari 3. If he told every secret to his parents, then I am sure he was forced to.
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Posted: Sun Sep 19, 2004 1:37 pm
wow. i wish i knew what to say. i'm so sorry skad. i wish i had some adivce to give, but i'm usually not good at dropping words of wisdom off the fly.
if you need anything, don't hesitate to PM me. i know you'll be ok. just be strong.
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Posted: Sun Sep 19, 2004 3:08 pm
Skad_for_Life Please, I know this is one of those threads that should be locked because it doesn't field discussion.. but I just need some support, okay, mods? Thanks. Thats what were here for. To love and suport you. And if one more person makes a lagit thread and ends it with this I am SERIOUSLY going to cry. Were not mean! Dosent anyone understand that?! crying Sure when we do have the "new" sns up and running this would be more suited for your journal but right now its perfectly fine. Why wouldent it be? If someone made a thread and just said "poop" and ended it with "please dont block this" then i would block it, but this is good stuff. *sighs and calms down* Ok..... About your bf. Im so so so so sorry hun for whats going on. That REALLY sucks. Still there are ways to get around parents. Im sure you could see him or get a message to him somehow. *hugs* It will be ok hun. Were here for you!
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Posted: Sun Sep 19, 2004 4:06 pm
It makes me so happy that you guys have been here for me through this whole thing. I love all of you soooo much. smile heart
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Posted: Sun Sep 19, 2004 4:14 pm
I've never been in love with anybody, so I can't offer any empathy, just sympathies. sad Quote: 2. Why would your parents and his do something like this? Have you told them that splitting you two up would cause you major grief? What reasons would either parent have for getting involved in your life? I'm also wondering why your parents want to seperate you?
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Posted: Sun Sep 19, 2004 4:17 pm
See, Fuzzy, it's only his family that wants to split us up. She never liked the 2-1/2 yr. age difference. She also found out that we had sex. But the worst thing is that she is using my past against me. She says I'm a bad influence, and that she would be a neglectful parent to allow us to speak anymore. My parents and I have no choice except to go along with it. She says if I attempt to contact him, she will seek legal action against me.
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Posted: Sun Sep 19, 2004 4:19 pm
Skad_for_Life See, Fuzzy, it's only his family that wants to split us up. She never liked the 2-1/2 yr. age difference. She also found out that we had sex. But the worst thing is that she is using my past against me. She says I'm a bad influence, and that she would be a neglectful parent to allow us to speak anymore. My parents and I have no choice except to go along with it. She says if I attempt to contact him, she will seek legal action against me. That's horrible. eek sad I don't know what to say.
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Posted: Sun Sep 19, 2004 4:20 pm
Fuzzy Necromancer Skad_for_Life See, Fuzzy, it's only his family that wants to split us up. She never liked the 2-1/2 yr. age difference. She also found out that we had sex. But the worst thing is that she is using my past against me. She says I'm a bad influence, and that she would be a neglectful parent to allow us to speak anymore. My parents and I have no choice except to go along with it. She says if I attempt to contact him, she will seek legal action against me. That's horrible. eek sad I don't know what to say. I really didn't expect anyone to know what to say... He was my first everything. He was my world. I knew this was coming, I just hoped it never would.
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Posted: Sun Sep 19, 2004 4:26 pm
I'm so sorry. You must be going through such a hard time. I know how hard it can be losing your best friend but you have lost so much more than just a best friend. It must have hurt so bad to have him betray you like that. I am so sorry that you have to go through this and I know it seems very hard right now, but I promise give it time and things will get better. I'll always be around if you want to talk. I know it is very hard for me and my boyfriend as he is 3 years older and my family is against it but we have never been forced apart. I am so sorry you are going through this.
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Posted: Sun Sep 19, 2004 5:09 pm
Skad_for_Life See, Fuzzy, it's only his family that wants to split us up. She never liked the 2-1/2 yr. age difference. She also found out that we had sex. But the worst thing is that she is using my past against me. She says I'm a bad influence, and that she would be a neglectful parent to allow us to speak anymore. My parents and I have no choice except to go along with it. She says if I attempt to contact him, she will seek legal action against me. What proof do they have that you are a bad influence? One of my friends hasn't been a virgin since she entered high school. She lusts like men were vanishing from the earth. If anything, these parents are far too protective. In time their son will rebel and you two will be together. Plus, they can't sue you unless you harmed him somehow, or commit criminal acts against them. I say let karma beat them down with a metal bat.
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Posted: Sun Sep 19, 2004 5:11 pm
Shogun Gari I say let karma beat them down with a metal bat.
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