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 Posted: Sat Jul 29, 2006 4:10 am
lol, i doubt there is anyone online or willing to answer but i'll post anyway ^_^. ok so here's the thing, i've been doubting myself for about 3 years now, weather i was bi or not, recently i've been thinking on it alot and i've come to the conclusion that i most likely am. but i'm still not sure. any thoughts that might help me get things clear?
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Posted: Sat Jul 29, 2006 7:59 am
Well, I always start off not by questioning whether you are gay, bi, or not, but by questioning whether you are straight or not. That takes away the hard choice, and the rest is easy.
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Posted: Sat Jul 29, 2006 11:39 am
gogoillusionz Well, I always start off not by questioning whether you are gay, bi, or not, but by questioning whether you are straight or not. That takes away the hard choice, and the rest is easy. i know i'm straight, i have a boyfriend who i love very much but i also have a crush on a friend of mine...or maybe it isn't a crush and i just like being with her alot gonk
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Posted: Sat Jul 29, 2006 8:27 pm
Well, generally the concept of homosexuality implies that you are attracted to many individuals of your gender, not just one. If it's only feelings for one specific person, however, there could be many possible reasons for why you feel that way, many of which you may never realize.
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Posted: Thu Aug 03, 2006 3:37 am
Hi I'm straight as far as I know (altho questioning it a leeetle) and I think that if you like a friend of yours (same sex) that doesn't necessarily mean you're bi, it just means you're attracted to them. However if you were to be attracted to another person of your sex... maybe you are.
I was also wondering, for those that are bi or gay, when asking out or flirting with someone of your own sex. How do you know what's flirting or what's just talking, without the obvious tip offs like touching or kissing you lol. Like if I wanted to try a 'ship with a girl instead of a guy, how do I go about it? Coz that could be embarassing sweatdrop and I've got zero self-confidence as it is.
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Posted: Thu Aug 03, 2006 6:18 am
So have I, I haven't dated another girl yet, I don't know any sweatdrop But if you like someone of the same sex, then you could ask around to find out if anyone knows if s/he is gay and then talk to him/her, find out what you have in common and so on so fourth! Neve been too good at the whole dating thing lol
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Posted: Fri Aug 04, 2006 2:06 pm
The only tip I can give for that one is: gaydar. mrgreen
Or just make lots of gay friends. Then you'll never be lonely!
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Posted: Sun Aug 13, 2006 7:31 pm
well i wasn't sure for a while either but then i just asked myself whether i was attracted to both the same and opposite sex and i realized that i was. but i guess it might be harder for other people. i realized that it wasn't that i wasn't sure but that i was denying it and but i found that there was nothing to be ashamed of so i just give into my feelings now instead of fighting them
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Posted: Sun Aug 20, 2006 7:38 am
well i've only dated guys yet have been interested in girl every now and then. Now a girl like me and i'm happy, scared, excited all these different emotion but not grossed out or anything. I've come to the conclusion that i am bi but lkeaning more towards girls. it's a feeling...
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Posted: Mon Aug 21, 2006 1:22 pm
All i can say is take your time. You have forever to figure out who and what you are. Dont rush into anything.
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Posted: Mon Aug 21, 2006 9:02 pm
yeah don't worry so much about it the answer will come when you least expect it
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