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 Posted: Wed Jul 26, 2006 3:17 pm
ok. so, last year i met this guy. Justin. I was 13 he was just about to turn 17. well, seeing that we met at a campground, we went camping one more time that year. we exchanged phone numbers and e-mail. ect. well, we'd talk a few times a month, and he was helping me to quit burning myself. he's a really sweet adorable guy. I still burn myself {occasionally} i havent left a "mark" for about a month. THANK YOU JUSTIN. well, we've been talking A LOT the past 2 months, he came to visit me last week, he claims to love me, i love his as my best friend in the whole world, he's really been there for me, but he lives 2 hours away. i dont have a license, he's moving away next year, he got his license taken away, and since my parents are Jehovah's Witnesses and dont believe in dating before you're ready for marriage they dont let me have "older friends". well, he wants me to be his girlfriend, but HE LIVES TWO HOURS AWAY, and if he could come up, i'd have to hide it from my ma. plus, i'm scared that he'd try and pressure me into se, and since im only 14, i want to wait like a year AT LEAST maybe two. and even though he says he wouldnt make me do anything i wouldnt want to, let's face it GUYS ARE ******** HORNY. and yeah, he REALLY wants me, but yeah, i'd have to hide him from my parents. they would like him and all because his personality is great, but the fact is that even if we are just going to be friends my parents wouldnt like that he's going to be 18 in october and i'm 14. well, that's about it, and i still have NO IDEA what the hell i should do. should i just tell him i want to be friends {even though i want more but it's utterly impossible and he just doesnt understand} or should i stop talking to him, should i move on, or should i go out with him and risk getting in the most amount of trouble that my parents would inflict? I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO! HELP ME GAIA!
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Posted: Wed Jul 26, 2006 3:23 pm
forgot to add, am is too lazy to edit other one. well, justin says that he wants me to live with him when i'm outta hight school, but i'm just gonna be a freshman and he's gonna be a senior. I JUST WANNA GET DRUNK AND STONED, NOT PLAN MY FUTURE. damn, i'm scarred, and i HATE hurting people, but yeah, i like him tons, but let's face it, he'll be able to drink {legally} before i can {legally} buy a pack of cigarettes
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Posted: Wed Jul 26, 2006 5:11 pm
I'm sure that there are other people out there who'll be able to answer this better but...
I think the most important thing that you can do is ask yourself what will be the best choice for you to make in the long run? Do you honestly believe that you could consider spending the rest of your life with him? It's possible that you could eventually decide that the two of you just weren't meant to be, and that you could end up having made huge sacrifices for a relationship that didn't even last. What, in the end, will make you happiest? Make sure that you consider all of this before making a decision.
Good luck! heart
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Posted: Wed Jul 26, 2006 5:13 pm
Seeing as I am also too lazy to edit my previous post...
I think there should be another option to the poll: "I do not thing that you are stupid."
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Posted: Wed Jul 26, 2006 5:41 pm
goodJinxie Seeing as I am also too lazy to edit my previous post... I think there should be another option to the poll: "I do not thing that you are stupid." ok, i guess that since it was ASKED, i'll add one stressed
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Posted: Wed Jul 26, 2006 7:31 pm
you like him as a friend/older brother. Tell him that. In my experiance guys are evil, but hey, you never know. I also agree with goodJinxie, you need to think about yourself and what you want. Who you are now can and will most likely change in the years to come. High school is about figuring out who you are, somewhat.
Example of how things change:
When I was 14...
-I didn't know I was bi.
-no idea of who I was
-no idea of who I wanted to be
-was a mess emotionaly
-didnt have a car nor lisence
Now, at 17...
-I know I'm bi and I speak out for it.
-I have a good idea of who I am
-The professen that I chose is that of being a high school socail woker. that lives up in boston.
-I'm still a mess emotionaly, but its more under control..in certain areas.
-Have a car, will have lisence next month.
See? Alot can happen in four years time. Which is why you need to think about wheather or not this choice will be good for you, and only you. He might get hurt, but if he loves you like he claims: he will back off and let you be.
PM me if you need anything. because I really dont want what happened to me, happen to you.
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Posted: Thu Jul 27, 2006 1:27 pm
ToeboysGurl you like him as a friend/older brother. Tell him that. : ohh but i like him more than a brother
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