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Posted: Wed Jul 05, 2006 3:39 pm
Have you ever took your young child, say younger than two, to the movies just because you can't get a sitter? How did they act?
When Aydin was a baby we could go to the theaters with no problem, he breast feed through the whole movie, usally falling asleep.
Back in May we were down at the beach and went to go see Silent Hill; and well Aydin was horrible. He didn't want to say still....at all! Well at least it was a bad movie anyways...I didn't miss much.
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Posted: Wed Jul 05, 2006 6:43 pm
Well, as my baby hasn't been born yet, I can only answer this hypothetically.
As much as I hate to say it, I'm one of those horrible people that gets pissed as all hell when people bring their extremely young children to movies simply because they couldn't find a sitter. I go to a movie to enjoy it, not to watch little heads bouncy up and down the lighted stairway screaming and crying and not listening to their parents. It bugs me even more when a parent takes their kid to a movie that is way to old for them. Ex: taking a 4 year old to an R rated movie because they couldn't find a sitter.
But then again, this is just me. Its just one of my pet peeves.
But because its one of my pet peeves, I'm not going to force it on other people. I'm bot so incredibly needing to see any movie that if absolutely necessary I can't wait for it to come out on video/dvd.
I'm one of those people that thinks going to the movies is a perk, and if you can get a sitter (family or friend) to watch your kid(s) than by all means enjoy the perk. But if not then that's one of those things ya just gotta wait out, because you have kids.
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Posted: Thu Jul 06, 2006 1:37 am
Last week we took the girls to see superman. Sascha was all hyped about it. I spent all 2 1/2 hours of the movie chasing Sienna around the lobby. gonk Needless to say we won't be taking them to a movie for a long time. I forget that kids are differant. At 18 months Sascha sat through all of "Harry Potter and the Prisoner os Askaban", she was so in to it. I am and always will be one of those annoying people that brings their kid to the movies. As long as it's a kid/family movie. If you are at a kids movie, you can't really expect that there won't be kids.
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Posted: Thu Jul 06, 2006 11:58 am
I used to be very opinionated about it, then I had my son, lol.
Honestly, now a baby crying or a kid getting excited over the movie is nothing to me. What bothers me more is ADULTS who know better--talking on their cell, kicking the seats, talking through the movie. I have a ton more patience.
Now given, I didn't take Logan to any movies as a baby. We tried to take him to see SW:ROTS (rated PG-13 lol), but he was about 2 1/2ish and I don't think he was ready. I didn't stay in there, however, and I spent at least an hour and a half in the lobby. Now, when he was a baby, he was very easy go lucky and I wish I HAD taken him to the movies because the first year after he was born I dealt with some depression issues because I never got out of the house. I was not lucky enough to have any family or any friends to babysit my son nor was I going to leave him with a complete stranger.
I definitely have a lot more patience and understanding for it now. I don't get so judgemental and pissy over it like I did when I was younger. I understand that as parents, we NEED to feel like we haven't completely sacrificed everything about ourselves, we have identity. For the most part, I've noticed people be pretty sensible about the whole thing.
Now that he's 3, he's really good about sitting through movies. I have a friend who's young baby is very quiet and sits through the movies no problem, yet people still say nasty and mean things to her even though the adults are LOUDER than her infant. I am blessed enough now to have a babysitter here and there, it's just the money constraints unfortunately.
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Posted: Thu Jul 06, 2006 3:40 pm
I love my town, we have something called "stars and strollers" they put two movies a week aside just for parents with babies or young children who wouldnt nessisarily sit through and might want to move. This week thay have superman returns and the devil wears prada.
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Posted: Thu Jul 06, 2006 4:29 pm
Thats awsome Gentle I wish we had that hear. One of these day when we go to the movies without the kids I am going to say loudly " oh geeze somebody brought their teenagers to this movie, can't they get a babysitter, if that kid whines your paying for my ticket kids!" Hahahaha! twisted I used to feel snobby about it too, I agree with Luna, it really changes after you have kids. You are a human to you don't just morphe into mom mode and stop being you. You have to get out and sitting in a theater is always a nice break.
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Posted: Thu Jul 06, 2006 8:17 pm
Angiemademe Thats awsome Gentle I wish we had that hear. One of these day when we go to the movies without the kids I am going to say loudly " oh geeze somebody brought their teenagers to this movie, can't they get a babysitter, if that kid whines your paying for my ticket kids!" Hahahaha! twisted I used to feel snobby about it too, I agree with Luna, it really changes after you have kids. You are a human to you don't just morphe into mom mode and stop being you. You have to get out and sitting in a theater is always a nice break. you should enquire about it at your theater, if you show interest and possible interest for many parents they may take it on. Never hurts to check, as far as I can tell most cineplex odeons do it, but I dont know if thats only a Canadian based theater.
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Posted: Fri Jul 07, 2006 4:38 am
I don't know...I never really had fits or anything with others who brought babies and young children, but so many times, they really were distractions because they didn't always watch the movie. Out of consideration for others who might be the type to get upset, I'd never take Lauren until she was a little older. I could probably tolerate it more, being a mom now, but thinking of others, I know a lot wouldn't be able to. Besides, my baby's not the silent type. Oh no! I'd be the one up and down into the lobby!
There are many movies I want to see and the last one I did see in the theater was The Island (I was pregnant). But truthfully, that's an area where it's not been such a big deal to let go. There's always Netflix!
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Posted: Sun Jul 09, 2006 11:15 am
First off, I don't like to take my girls to movies because I pay for MY ticket and don't want to be in the lobby or getting up with Lis to go pee every 15 minutes, I, ME, want to watch the movie and not the kids.
But, People always think it's the under one kids who are going to disturb their movies, and seriously it's just not. We took Lissa to movies starting at like oh...three months I think. She'd sleep through the whole damned thing. Most babies will. And GENERALLY if a baby starts crying the parent ushers them out quickly to the lobby so it's not anything to get your panties in a snit about, that two microseconds of fussy baby.
Now toddlers and pre-schoolers who don't want to sit for the movie, etc. THOSE are the ones that may be disturbing your movie going experience. BUT just like Angie said if it's a G rated movie with animated characters you get no leeway from me. It's GEARED TOWARDS CHILDREN! they are expecting to MAKE THEIR MONEY from the CHILDREN. And if you throw a fit because my kid is asking questions or squirming about TS, go to the 10:00 pm showing of the damned thing and be done with it.
Third, I am also more pissed with adults who can't figure out to behave themselves in a theatre. Cell phones and talking, and crazy a** laughing during parts that aren't funny which signifies that you're lauging at something your friend said, which is clear because I HEARD THEM SAY IT because even though you're like four rows away from me and only an inch away from eachother you are both talking like you are each in an opposite corners of the theater. Taking kids that are old enough to know what they are watching is scary and violent (we took er...six month old Lissa with us when we saw Alien Vs. Predator, once again she just slept through it) but not old enough to know how to process it and deal. Kicking seats, throwing s**t, acting like unruly zoo monkies, when you are clearly of voting age. Those are the people I'll call the movie theater staff on. Not some mom with a kid.
I think people who get into snits about kids being in these places are thinking about the ONE TIME THAT KID CRIED AND THEIR PARENT DIDN'T TAKE THEM OUT OMG! because there are TONS of kids and babies at movies that don't make a rucus or a peep or so much as wake up for the duration of the movie that people are totally missing.
You choose what makes you annoyed.
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Posted: Tue Aug 15, 2006 6:32 pm
gentleflame I love my town, we have something called "stars and strollers" they put two movies a week aside just for parents with babies or young children who wouldnt nessisarily sit through and might want to move. This week thay have superman returns and the devil wears prada. There are a couple of theaters that have that by me but they restrict it to 10a.m on tuesday mornings.
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Posted: Sun Aug 27, 2006 9:49 pm
Nopenname I think people who get into snits about kids being in these places are thinking about the ONE TIME THAT KID CRIED AND THEIR PARENT DIDN'T TAKE THEM OUT OMG! because there are TONS of kids and babies at movies that don't make a rucus or a peep or so much as wake up for the duration of the movie that people are totally missing. Haven't been in here in forever so I didn't see this topic but I did want to comment: I must have the worst luck with parents with children at movies because this ALWAYS happens to me. No matter what type of movie or the time it's being shown. It's not the one time the kid cried and the parents didn't usher them out, it happens on a regular basis where I am. I don't get bothered by a small quick fuss, but minutes upon minutes of crying and whining and the parent just won't take their child out of the theater so people can actually hear it. So I think it's unfair to say it's just children in general that bother people, it's that exact situation outlined.
So yes, I may get into 'snits' about it, but I feel I have good reason to. I payed $8.50 to actually see a movie, not listen to someone else's child cry. I could have stayed home for free if I wanted to listen to that. ;]
I think the problem is discourteous parents who won't take fussy children out of the theater.
Now as for the actual question: no, we haven't taken Ethan out. Because unlike these magical babies that sleep through movies, he just doesn't nap and would be awake fussing the whole time. So until he can be quiet, he'll be kept home. Or when he's a little older, we'll take him to a daytime showing of an actual children's movie where he'll be in good company.
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Posted: Sat Oct 21, 2006 7:50 am
Dominic is 7 months old, and I havn't seen a movie at the theatre since he was born last March. It isn't really the end of the world for me, although I admit that sometimes I want to have some alone time out with hubby. At the same time, though, I always put Dominic's needs first. Once in a while my grandmother or aunt will watch him when Shawn and I have something that needs to be done, but I've never left him with a sitter to go do something fun. Shawn's birthday is next Saturday, however, and that is the first time that we WILL be going out to do something fun and leaving Dominic with a sitter, as I got my hubby and I a pair of hockey tickets to see our hometeam together (the game just so happens to be on his birthday and I wanted to take the opportunity)
I don't want to do that too often though, like I said, this is the first time since his birth, and I don't wanna feel like I'm dumping my kid on someone everytime I feel like having fun. Once in a while, okay.
I'm not sure when I'm going to start bringing Dominic to the theatre...I have this fear that the soundsystem will be too loud for his little ears. I don't want to damage him... sweatdrop
Not sure when he'll be ready...
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