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 Posted: Tue Jul 04, 2006 7:36 pm
ok well i got raped about a year ago and the guy got me sick so i found
someone and i told him and we are both crazy about eachother we both want
kids and in going to be 21 in a few hours and i have been thinking that i want
to have a kid very soon he does not care if he gets what i have so i think and i
hope he is the one so comments are welcome
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Posted: Wed Jul 05, 2006 3:01 pm
Uhm, why aren't you going to the doctor? Have you told your doctor this? Have you taken into consideration what this "sickness" could do to an unborn child? Guessing with your vague description, it's a venerial disease, and some of those require special care and even can have lifelong detrimental effects on an unborn baby.
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Posted: Wed Jul 05, 2006 4:12 pm
Yeah i know what it can do to an un born child it is just basiclly the birth i have to be worried about so i still want a kid soon
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Posted: Wed Jul 05, 2006 6:46 pm
Just curious, what exactly is the "sickness" that you have?
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Posted: Thu Jul 06, 2006 1:09 pm
Heres a thought. that illness you, you could die in 6 months, or two. you dont know. you sure you want to give it to him. find out what it is and get treated. its not worth his life or your own. and please for gods shake think about the baby. what if this illness cause birth defeacts. you still want to do that. O.o
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Posted: Thu Jul 06, 2006 3:40 pm
yeah i know i will ask the doctor about it for safety thanx
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Posted: Thu Jul 06, 2006 3:41 pm
sassyferu yeah i know i will ask the doctor about it for safety thanx yeah i have herpes it sucks
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Posted: Fri Jul 07, 2006 9:45 am
herpes being passed to the child is dangerous because they can get it on there eyes nose and mouth. The chances are pretty high if your having an outbreak. Having a child is still possible but the may opt for a planned cesearan to protect the child from the birth canal that could harm it. I would definatly wait to have a kid though do what you need to to calm that itch. I am itching myself but I am waiting another year to start trying again. You need to try and focus on your relationship with this guy because asa much as you seem to care for eachother and may always care for eachother babies change everything and though it may not jurt the relationship you wont have much time to devote to each other and the baby will be the center of attention, trust me I love my son and I loive my husband very much but my husband doesnt get all my attention like he used to our son does. I never regret getting pregnant as young as I did but somtimes I wish i could go back and savor the time I had alone with my then fiance. Goodluck with everything.
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Posted: Fri Jul 07, 2006 9:47 am
wotfan herpes being passed to the child is dangerous because they can get it on there eyes nose and mouth. The chances are pretty high if your having an outbreak. Having a child is still possible but the may opt for a planned cesearan to protect the child from the birth canal that could harm it. I would definatly wait to have a kid though do what you need to to calm that itch. I am itching myself but I am waiting another year to start trying again. You need to try and focus on your relationship with this guy because asa much as you seem to care for eachother and may always care for eachother babies change everything and though it may not jurt the relationship you wont have much time to devote to each other and the baby will be the center of attention, trust me I love my son and I loive my husband very much but my husband doesnt get all my attention like he used to our son does. I never regret getting pregnant as young as I did but somtimes I wish i could go back and savor the time I had alone with my then fiance. Goodluck with everything. it just occured to me what tyhe line "calm that itch" sounded like. In case it confused you I was refering to the motherhood itch and wanting to have a baby.
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Posted: Fri Jul 07, 2006 10:00 am
I can totally understand the motherhood itch like wotfan talked about, but I can't fathom why you'd be, frankly, so selfish that you'd risk getting your partner infected on purpose. It's a skewed sense of "love" and there are options out there even if you do have herpes. HOWEVER, it's something that requires money, time, planning, and a DOCTOR.
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Posted: Fri Jul 07, 2006 10:28 pm
Thanx u all i know i talked to a doctor and i read everything about it
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Posted: Sun Jul 09, 2006 9:14 am
Good. glade your thinking and acting accordingly about this. good luck.
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Posted: Sun Jul 09, 2006 4:09 pm
sassyferu Thanx u all i know i talked to a doctor and i read everything about it What did the doctor say?
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Posted: Tue Jul 11, 2006 2:47 pm
yeah i know i am going to take it slow though the doc just want me and my
bf to come in to talk to her before starting
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Posted: Wed Jul 12, 2006 6:40 am
sassyferu yeah i know i am going to take it slow though the doc just want me and my bf to come in to talk to her before starting Oh, your still hmmm. Will WIAT. there is a way to have the baby with out give your bf the std. DUH, im so stupid. Invetro. =^_^= You get to have a baby, your bf stays healthy and you can still make love to him long as he used a condum. Their you go, problem solved. =^_^=
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