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 Posted: Sat Jul 01, 2006 4:00 pm
Hey my fellow GGSAers.
I come before you today with a question.
Recently one of my friends died of a seizure. It was very sudden and it caught all of us off guard, really off guard. But that's not the point of this inquiry. The point is that for the past year there had been questions going around reguarding his sexuality, but they never got answered. Now all of my friends have brought all that muck up again and though I admit I am curious, I say that we should let that mystery rest in peace with our friend.
What's your opinion? If your perspective is towards the solving of the mystery, we can't just come out and ask his rumored "partner", how can I get my friends to be sensitive about it? Please help me!
Thanks guys!
- emo pirate Fadia ninja pirate
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Posted: Sat Jul 01, 2006 10:18 pm
Mm wow.. they are really rude. If I was in your possition I would be really disapointed in my friends. I mean they really should show him enough respect to let things go. There wouldn't be much to do with the knowledge if they found out anyways so what's the point? I would just remind them to be respectful and whatnot..
And Im really sorry to hear about your friend Fadia. I give my condolences to all of you and his family
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Posted: Thu Jul 06, 2006 1:27 pm
AkureiKnight Mm wow.. they are really rude. If I was in your possition I would be really disapointed in my friends. I mean they really should show him enough respect to let things go. There wouldn't be much to do with the knowledge if they found out anyways so what's the point? I would just remind them to be respectful and whatnot.. And Im really sorry to hear about your friend Fadia. I give my condolences to all of you and his family Amen.
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Posted: Thu Jul 06, 2006 3:58 pm
I'm sorry for your loss Fadia. I voted to find out because I just have a thirst for knowlage of any type, but I do agree with akurei's point.
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Posted: Sun Jul 09, 2006 12:06 am
This might sound so odd coming from me... but when someone is dying or dead... sexual orientation is the last thing that is of any importance. His memory should be honored, that's what's important. It's not like it was who he was. And I'm really sorry for your loss. A friend of mine died in a car accident last winter.
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Posted: Sun Jul 09, 2006 1:34 am
I'd let it rest. It's really no big deal. He's gone now so I don't think it really matters much. I'm sorry to hear that he died though. My condolences.
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Posted: Tue Jul 11, 2006 5:40 pm
Thank you guys for your sypathy and advice. The matter has thankfully been once again brought back to the bottem of everyones "I wonder" list. Hopefully it will stay there and we all can go on remembering him in peace. Thanks again!
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Posted: Mon Aug 21, 2006 7:03 pm
I wouldn't. Frankly, it's unimportant and not the thing you should be focusing on during this time. If it comes up, okay, but remember him for him not whether he was gay or whatever.
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Posted: Tue Aug 22, 2006 12:58 am
SarahArden I wouldn't. Frankly, it's unimportant and not the thing you should be focusing on during this time. If it comes up, okay, but remember him for him not whether he was gay or whatever. Thankfully the issue has been buried along with his remains... cry
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Posted: Mon Sep 18, 2006 11:00 pm
Well...I guess fate or something intervened on this one...curiosity was still being sparked around the friend group and I was trying to quiet it down and let the poor boy rest in peace. Then last Thursday I got up the courage to go to our school's GSA meetings (they're really heterophobic there...sometimes I feel really nervous) and they were talking about maybe having a memorial for my friend. We all went around the table, those of us who knew him telling stories, and when it came to the Sophmore who was leading the meeting he said that he had met Ian at the Senior Ball last year and they had been going out up until he died.
I'm really glad I found out because I was starting to get curious again myself though I wasn't about to voice it. It was just a nagging thing in the back of my mind that I couldn't shut up. I'm glad that I know now and it makes me that much sadder to know that I never knew, I wasn't there to support him, and that he left a devoted boyfriend behind.
If he was still alive, tomorrow would be his birthday--he would have been 17. I think I'm gonna try to get my friends to hold a moment of silence for him.
Thanks for listening to my ramblings guys, God(ess) bless....
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Posted: Tue Sep 19, 2006 8:55 pm
I commend you on keeping it in, Fadia-san. (huggles) But maybe it was good that was put to rest in such a way.
I hope he's resting well, where ever he is. (bows)
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Posted: Wed Sep 20, 2006 7:13 am
Hmm, I'd give it time before asking. If they really were partners, bringing it up will be quite painful for him.
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