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Posted: Sun Jun 25, 2006 11:12 am

My OLDER sister has just started screaming and getting in a huff AGAIN!
She went all crazy and annoyed because my parents asked her why she is still paying 25 euro a month for a gym she never goes to. Now she's stamping in her bedroom. She started a fight before dinner with my other sister because she put her hands over hers when she was washing her hands; she does these things because she had this boyfriend who is 19 and she is 16 (I know! She's 16 and acting like this!) and not only is he over 18, he writes graffiti all over Dublin, he cheated on her, there is a girl that claims he hit her and she got really drunk at a party when she was 15 because he had cheated on her but still she wanted to (there goes another bang) go out with him and when my sister didn't want her to end up having his baby when she was 16 and be constantly abused by him she persuaded my parents to stop letting her date him and my sister went SOOOO crazy that night when she came in, she screamed for like an hour, she threatened to kill herself twice (but she was over reacting), and she has . . . (. . .she just went out and when my mom asked where she was going she said 'I'm going out, preferanbly to kill myself' she's overreacting again)hated her ever since.

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Posted: Sun Jun 25, 2006 12:07 pm

Well Miss, I think the best thing for your sister at this point would be some extreme therapy. A doctor can analyze her situation and medicate her accordingly, and while it's not the best thing to say, it may be the best option here, and the safest one! If you're sister is threatening to kill herself, it may be wise to think of her health before her opinion, especially if she's acting this immature.

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Posted: Sun Jun 25, 2006 1:43 pm

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Well Miss, I think the best thing for your sister at this point would be some extreme therapy. A doctor can analyze her situation and medicate her accordingly, and while it's not the best thing to say, it may be the best option here, and the safest one! If you're sister is threatening to kill herself, it may be wise to think of her health before her opinion, especially if she's acting this immature.

if your sister is anything like me... THAT IS THE WORST THING YOU CAN DO! that will either put the rest of the family on some sort of vengence/murder/screw-you-over-when-you-need-her-most list that she would keep in her mind, or start her on a hobby known as spree killing when she gets out... burning_eyes

my suggestion is to tell her why these things happened to her, and if she won't listen to that, hide all knives and anything else that she uses as a weopon from her and take her keys to the house and the cars, if she then starts studying ways to kill people, then put her in an orfanage and switch your names so it will be harder for her to find you and pray to your god that you will stay safe...

this is what my family should have done instead of sending my to the mental asylum, where they have plexiglass windows and they take your shoelaces and drug you so much you get high OR die then send you back to your house... and yeah, that sounds like your sister is almost exactly like me personality wise... burning_eyes

Posted: Mon Jul 10, 2006 6:37 am

She could be embrassed that her boyfriend does that stuff to her but doesn't want o leave him cause He say nice stuff to her or when hes not beating her hes sweet.. But She has to look over all og that and be what she is not.. I woman.. Once you take teh Benifits you have to take teh responablity (sp)..

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Posted: Fri Jul 14, 2006 6:07 pm

of course you arent me, but if it was me

i would in fact slap her the hardest i can and tell her to act her age.

"you are SIXTEEN for godsakes! suck it in woman! little children are 25 compared to how you act. Dont you dare scream about suicide, cause thats a *curse word here* stupid reason to commit it over. PUT ON A HAPPY FACEAND GET OVER IT."

thats what i would say, but um... not sure that will help with your sister, but she's just trys to get away with the princess act.

princess act- she acts as if you guys need her too much, thus she threatens to kill herself and see if you can live with out her royalty gracing you in her presense. Screaming and throwing tantrums to get her way.

if your parents just acted like she was dead, she wont last.

she wont have a spot at supper/dinner set for her, or she wont get food either, of course she is "dead"...

she will be ignored, or get everyone to act like her to show her how she really is...hopefully.

excuse my typos, im on a laptop, i hate these things...

Posted: Wed Aug 02, 2006 10:47 am

My cousin did that. She needs to stop dating that guy, talk to his parents, Have his parets talk to your parents. So try that. Hope she doesn't hurt herself. Also have her see a doctor incase something is wrong with her

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