You see, my mom HATES gays and bis. She always talk bad about them. How am I to come out to her?? She hates me as it is and if I'll tell her who knows what she'll do. She might even kick me out the house or try to take me to get help.
Posted: Sun Jun 11, 2006 10:32 am
Are you really sure that you want to tell her? It doesn't seem like such a good idea to me. Don't feel like you need to, or even like you should want to, just because that's sort of "typical". Sometimes it's better that they just not know.
goodJinxie
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Posted: Sat Jun 24, 2006 3:28 pm
*nods* I agree with goodJinxie. It may not be such a good idea to tell your mom, specilly right now when you depend on her for a lot of different needs and reasons. Why not wait until you are in college? Or at least until you have a job and a car, because then there isn't much she can really do.
Posted: Sun Jun 25, 2006 8:34 pm
Yeah, stay in the closet to your mother ninja
When you have a stable life of your own you can tell her and if she's not okay then cut it out of your life if she really makes you feel miserable about it neutral
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Posted: Wed Jul 26, 2006 4:54 pm
I feel for you. and i know how you feel. my dad is the biggest homophobe that i know. since he's 64 i'm just going to wait till he dies, that way i can just tell his corpse that i'm bi, and there'll be nothing that he can do about it