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 Posted: Thu Jun 08, 2006 11:32 pm
I was just curious cos i have heard a few people say that it is a real turn on when there partner is really confident and know's what they are doing, but then there are those who want to be in control and so they opt for the more submissive type...
im after straight, gay or bi oppinions here, i would just really like to know the gerneral census on the idea..
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Posted: Fri Jun 09, 2006 3:32 am
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Posted: Fri Jun 09, 2006 6:16 am
Malekhi I was just curious cos i have heard a few people say that it is a real turn on when there partner is really confident and know's what they are doing, but then there are those who want to be in control and so they opt for the more submissive type... im after straight, gay or bi oppinions here, i would just really like to know the gerneral census on the idea.. I am curious: Do you ask for if we are ourself, or if we are looking for such a person? I guess you should pretty please clearify the question in the poll, if you want accurate results. smile For myself, I am a bit shy and wouldn't mind a lead, though it definitely shouldn't be one that turns to be abusive. What I really can't stand is people that are totally passive and just await what happens. I mean... it gives the impression as if they don't care at all what happens and with whom. rolleyes
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Posted: Fri Jun 09, 2006 8:43 am
Well, for me, I always want someone who can be a more confident and dominant person. However, I myself am both ways, though it mainly depends on my mood at the time. More frequently though, I think the best term for me is uke. sweatdrop
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Posted: Fri Jun 09, 2006 10:28 am
I usually need a more dominant person. I have my moods sometimes where i'm the dominant one, but it's not that often. I need to be taken controll of most of the times.
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Posted: Fri Jun 09, 2006 3:27 pm
i'm in the middle i guess lol
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Posted: Sat Jun 10, 2006 3:11 pm
Ehh..
Sometimes I can't do anything without being told to and sometimes I can't stand being under somebody's controll.
-shrugs-
It's weird.
>->
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Posted: Sat Jun 10, 2006 8:35 pm
*blushes*well im shy...and im a pet...i have a master and i do nothing unless he tells me!^_^
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Posted: Sat Jun 10, 2006 9:35 pm
i generally take the lead, mainly because most of my female partners are uber-submissive ( do anything you want TO me rolleyes ) and i like it... but i love when i start being dominant someone like "put me in my place" and become more dominant than me and im "forced" to be submissive
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Posted: Sat Jun 10, 2006 9:37 pm
Lalobee Malekhi I was just curious cos i have heard a few people say that it is a real turn on when there partner is really confident and know's what they are doing, but then there are those who want to be in control and so they opt for the more submissive type... im after straight, gay or bi oppinions here, i would just really like to know the gerneral census on the idea.. I am curious: Do you ask for if we are ourself, or if we are looking for such a person? I guess you should pretty please clearify the question in the poll, if you want accurate results. smile For myself, I am a bit shy and wouldn't mind a lead, though it definitely shouldn't be one that turns to be abusive. What I really can't stand is people that are totally passive and just await what happens. I mean... it gives the impression as if they don't care at all what happens and with whom. rolleyes exactly
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Posted: Wed Jun 14, 2006 1:36 pm
I I'm kinda confuesed.......but I get what your asking and I thing I'm lower on the food chain if you know what I mean
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Posted: Wed Jun 14, 2006 1:41 pm
im bi...im really shy redface
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Posted: Wed Jun 14, 2006 3:44 pm
Lilia_Pascalle im bi...im really shy redface enough said~ I'm bi, but I'm only shy around people I don't know. ^.^
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Posted: Thu Jun 15, 2006 7:45 am
i'm shy in all situations, especially with people i don't know.
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Posted: Thu Jun 15, 2006 7:48 am
im more dominat but i can give in and let some one else lead.
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