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 Posted: Tue May 23, 2006 9:03 pm
I know this isn't rare but my friend is being abused by her boyfriend and i'm five seconds from riping out his heart, tying it into a rope and hanging him by it. Worst she stays with him even after I told her that he came on to me....she won't listen and I just want to stop being her freind because I don't want drama about this....but we have been friends sinc 8th grade...
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Posted: Tue May 23, 2006 11:05 pm
The only person who can help her is pretty much herself at this point. That doesn't mean you should just abandon her though, as long as she's your friend she'll always have a tie to outside of that relationship she has with that guy. be there for her, but i woudln't push her too hard. These things are not easy situations to contend with. :[
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Posted: Wed May 24, 2006 10:56 am
I agree. she has to get out of the situation herself. You can only try and be there for her. Thing is, if she decides to get of the relationship she has to make sure that he is aware that she is not his property. There has been many cases where men go after the woman after she has left the abusive relationship.
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Posted: Wed May 24, 2006 11:24 am
Everyone is right. The only one that can help her is herself....dosnt mean you cant keep insisting. Sometimes a friend in th at situation dosnt realize how damaging a relationship like that is and is only blinded by the fact that they love the person despite the abuse. If it truly is physical and you think that this man is a danger to her physical and mental well being then i would call the cops.
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Posted: Wed May 24, 2006 6:44 pm
She has called the cops on him. She has three kids by him and they live together although his name isn't on there rental lease. She won't leave him or get a restraining order.
I want to stay with her but not if it puts me indanger to have to deal with him and her coming over my house crying and bleeding. *sigh*
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Posted: Wed May 31, 2006 12:06 pm
Seduce her.
Oh, wait, no, everyone else is right. While the situation you and your friend are in must really, really suck, ultimately only she has the right to decide that kind of thing about her life.
All you can really do is keep telling her how much of an a*****e he is.
Or seduce her.
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Posted: Sun Jun 04, 2006 12:33 pm
Men that abuses women makes me sick and so dam angry! They deserve what's coming to them! scream I personally has never been hit by any man desides my father when i was a kid, but taking abuse from a man is no where near my allowance in this day and age because he will get it back one way or another mad yes, even in his dam sleep evil
Most often, the men that abuses women are the ones who will not pick a fight with a guy, yet still he's quick to pick one with his wife or g/f thinking that she's weak. Some men sometimes hits the wrong woman for no dam reason but a straight out bully, which earns them a ticket to their early grave....and in that case, he derserves it.
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Posted: Sun Jun 04, 2006 9:23 pm
I feel the same way. Luckly my friend has come to her sences and left him and is staying with a old college friend. Only I and her cousin know where she is. She is better but i'm still alittle worried that she might go back to him. Thinking she can help him.
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Posted: Mon Jun 05, 2006 5:13 am
Kamikita_Kurokawa I feel the same way. Luckly my friend has come to her sences and left him and is staying with a old college friend. Only I and her cousin know where she is. She is better but i'm still alittle worried that she might go back to him. Thinking she can help him. I'm glad she finally made that decision, but lets hope she never goes back to him. She deserves better, MUCH better.
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Posted: Mon Jun 05, 2006 5:22 am
Kamikita_Kurokawa I feel the same way. Luckly my friend has come to her sences and left him and is staying with a old college friend. Only I and her cousin know where she is. She is better but i'm still alittle worried that she might go back to him. Thinking she can help him. Just be sure to keep tabs on your friend and look for signs of her returning-for example, if she begins communicating with him again. Just keep reminding her why she left; she also needs to do the same for herself.
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Posted: Tue Jun 06, 2006 9:23 pm
Kamikita_Kurokawa I know this isn't rare but my friend is being abused by her boyfriend and i'm five seconds from riping out his heart, tying it into a rope and hanging him by it. Worst she stays with him even after I told her that he came on to me....she won't listen and I just want to stop being her freind because I don't want drama about this....but we have been friends sinc 8th grade... I know it's wrong but you should report her boyfriend.He could go to jail if you told and you'll be taking the love of your friend's life but it's for her own good.Think about it.She's getting hurt every minute you waste not telling on her boyfriend.Do you really care for her?If you do then report her boyfriend.It takes a lot of courage and I'm sorry you 're caught in the middle of this,but you gotta deal with it some how.Do you love your friend?Stay by her side,encourage her dreams and hopes and never let her down.One day.......might not b 2day or 2morrow,but one day she's gonna thank you for what you did.Stay faithful to her!!!!Hope I helped you.Be strong and listen to your heart!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! love and advise from: Tigger395 P.S. If you got any questions pm me so noone will see our conversation anymore.
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Posted: Wed Oct 18, 2006 5:34 am
The only thing that you can do is support her and help her end the relationship before it turns to rape. It's all down hill when abuse comes into a relationship. And do it quick.
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