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ee kiki

PostPosted: Tue May 09, 2006 2:39 pm


I have this friend, and he's a boy. I never thought of him as a guy and I still don't. It wasn't until yesterday when I found out he liked me. He didn't tell me in person and I'm glad he didn't because things are weird enough as it is. Now I can't talk to him like I used to even if I don't feel the same way. Now we're partners for a French project. It's a fashion show and we were assigned the theme of a wedding. It feels so wierd!!!

I like this guy at school, or you can say 2 guys at school. I don't know how I could like them since I haven't even talked to them, but I think it's more than their looks. (Even though they are really cute to me! >_<) One of them dresses really cool (to me.) And the other guy plays tennis. That's basically all I know about them. Although I do know their close friends. When I pass one of them I always look(stare) at them and sometimes they look back, then I quickly look at the ground and turn around.

There's this guy, Donald who I used to like when I was 6 years old. He was 8. He was my cousin's best friend. I remember we were at a party and I chased him and tried to kiss him. Of course he ran away. Four years later, I had a talk with him about school and stuff and girls and boys.. I felt like I could tell him anything. When I was 11, my cousin/best friend told me she liked him. I decided to back off. When I was 12 (he was 14) he found out my cousin liked him. He told her he didn't like her like that. Then she said "What about Vicki?" He looked at me. I couldn't return his stare. He said he wouldn't want to ruin our friendship and that I was too young for him. That hurt me. After that I swore to myself that I couldn't feel that way about him anymore. My friends still say we make a cute couple, if only he felt that way. Then I saw him this weekend.(I'm now 14, he's 16) We didn't even speak. It was only when Bobby(annoying 18 year old) was lecturing my cousins(both 13) about how stupid they were for sneaking off to meet boys. Bobby praised me for not going with them. Then Donald asked me how old I was. I was like "14" then I remembered all the talks we used to have and how we kind of confided in eachother.
PostPosted: Tue May 09, 2006 3:42 pm



About the story in red: I understand your situation, but you need to act like you don't know that he likes you, and carry things on as normally as you possibly can to avoid things becoming more awkward between the two of you. It's the best advice i could give.

In the teal: I would say that unless you have one of them in your class, forget about them. xP I know what this situation's like, too. I know exactly how it is, actually. Unless you think you could get the courage to talk to one of them, i'd try my best to have a conversation with another person or keep yourself occupied when they walk by int he hall so you break your habit of staring. I'm sure they might find you odd, if indeed they do return your looks every once in a while. @_@;

In the fuschia: That's a painful situation to be in. But, truthfully, you are too young. Give yourself some time to mature and grow a little and i'm sure you'll grow on him and he'll realize that you can be more than friends. The only reason he finds you too young is because you probably haven't matured enough yet, and he is 2 years older, and you're both at a young age. If you can keep in contact for another year or so, things may turn around.

I derno if that's what you were looking for, but that's my opinion on everything. n_n;;


[spooky]


ee kiki

PostPosted: Tue May 09, 2006 4:12 pm


Thank you Spooky! Your words mean alot.
PostPosted: Tue May 09, 2006 4:38 pm


I agree with Spooky.

1] Changeing how you act is very bad. o.o'
2] Don't try. its cruel, but inless you talk to them, there no real chance. -_-'
3] Awww... I hate it when guys do that. Though with me, age doesn't really matter. I don't say our age is to young to be with a 16 year old... >.> Just stay his friend...

senzublast


[ licking me is illegal ]

PostPosted: Wed May 10, 2006 1:22 pm



I'm so glad i could help. <3

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