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 Posted: Tue May 02, 2006 1:10 pm
Well I'm at a confusing point in my life. The is this guy that i use to like, and I think I like him again, but I'm not sure if i'm over this other guy. They are both really great guys. But also the guy I think i might be having feelings for again , is the person one of my really good friends like. What should i do?
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Posted: Tue May 02, 2006 1:43 pm
tell your friend how you fell about the guy you and her both like and see how she takes it first and also pray about it thats my advice to you 3nodding
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Posted: Tue May 02, 2006 1:52 pm
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Posted: Tue May 02, 2006 3:41 pm
just be honest with your friends. and pray..praying is good.
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Posted: Fri May 19, 2006 6:21 pm
What's your purpose in liking either guy, on an individual basis or ahead of the other?
If your purpose is that you're actively pursuing a marriage partner and thus have to choose one over the other, I would suggest praying, and thinking hard about which will help your spiritual life more.
If your purpose is- you like the guy, but might very well like some other guy in the future much like seems to be happening now, then I would suggest you stop playing with hearts- both yours and those of the guys- until you're mature enough to actually do something that won't harm someone for naught but desires. All you'll do otherwise is train yourself to move from guy to guy as your 'feelings' lead... a sure pathway to divorce. And when you ARE ready to find a marriage partner, base it on prayer and focused thought, rather than following feelings much at all.
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Posted: Fri May 19, 2006 10:56 pm
think about why u liked this guy in the first place, and why you might be liking him again. if ur sure u like him, then compare how the two guys. XD i personally nvr liked comparing two guys to find out who was better. tell ur friend that u like him also, but don't hurt her feelings or get her mad. or at least try not to. talk it out with her. and good luck. hope things go well
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Posted: Sat May 20, 2006 6:04 pm
I understand comparison never really works in these situations. What I always do is, if I'm looking at long term, as in marrage partener. I think about who will treat me right and who I will have the best life with whenever we marry and move into a house together. I think about who will treat my children right and who I know I will be happy with. That is what I suggest you do. The friendship thing, be honest. The truth is always the best way to go in all situations.
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