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 Posted: Mon Apr 24, 2006 9:27 pm
every friend that i find in the world, turns around and leaves me or begins to treat me differently. I have a friend who has mood swings because of the PILL and she keeps taking it out on me, how can i help her? , i just want her to be happy. i want her and me to get along, instead of me having to walk on eggshells and say the wrong thing to her, and her hate me.
And with friends i don't know what i'm doing wrong crying crying , i only have one true friend on here, he cares and tries to help me...but it won't work all the time. i really wish i knew what i do wrong, to make people hate me. crying i really wish i knew
please reply or send in pm because i check that more often.
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Posted: Tue Apr 25, 2006 2:17 pm
Maybe because I'm under the school of thought that just because you have PMS (and that is odd considering MOST of the time the Pill cuts down on PMS symptoms dramatically) doesn't give you an instant excuse to be an utter b***h, especially not all the time like your "friend" sounds like she's doing. I don't think it's the birth control pill that is making her that way.
Honestly, I'd sit down and just throw it on the table that you can't keep getting treated like that and she needs to take responsibility for being mean to you. Maybe she's just not realizing and I know we have our moments where we take people for granted. If she's not going to be a bigger person and realize she's being really mean to you all the time, she's not worth having as a friend.
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Posted: Tue Apr 25, 2006 4:21 pm
lunashock Maybe because I'm under the school of thought that just because you have PMS (and that is odd considering MOST of the time the Pill cuts down on PMS symptoms dramatically) doesn't give you an instant excuse to be an utter b***h, especially not all the time like your "friend" sounds like she's doing. I don't think it's the birth control pill that is making her that way. Honestly, I'd sit down and just throw it on the table that you can't keep getting treated like that and she needs to take responsibility for being mean to you. Maybe she's just not realizing and I know we have our moments where we take people for granted. If she's not going to be a bigger person and realize she's being really mean to you all the time, she's not worth having as a friend. she isnt a b***h though, she has a lot of stuff going on in her life, and i still want her as a friend, but i just dont like being hurt.
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Posted: Tue Apr 25, 2006 5:31 pm
That's understandable, we all go through our tough times, but like I said, you need to say something so she doesn't see that is is appropriate behavior. Just sit down and talk with her, if she's a true friend she'll understand just like you've been understanding to her situation.
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