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I can't say that I haven't been in a sex-based relationship because I've been in a few. I never intended for them to turn out that way, but that's just the way the cookie crumbled.

I would prefer to settle myself in a relationship based on emotional compainionship, but it's hard for me to find someone w/ that same interest. Don't get me wrong, sex is great and I'm not putting it down, but that seems all I'm good for now a days.

I've been in....two relationships that I can recall where I truly connected with someone. The first was back in eighth grade when everyone hated gay guys (suprisingly, the guys that use to hate me are some of my good friends now). There were only a few of us and it was my first introduction to a homosexual relationship....it was my first and only experience as playing more of the "uke" in the relationship. Sadly, the man I had been so deeply infatuated with moved on for someone older (he himself was a sophmore in highschool). The last one was one with someone who ended up moving half way across the country because of his father's job. I had established my role as a seme with him.

With all the hype about gay guys, there's not much romance left. I'm sure that when the homo fad dies down, gays might start settling back into good relationships instead of their wild swinging ones they're having now.

I'm with you. Love should come first. Hmmm...maybe that's why I refuse to date anyone right now....

I find that sad... -nodnod-

Well, I don't know about anyone else but I'd hate to live your life. To completely obliterate the concept of love seems almost suicidal.

Love takes time where as sex is instant gratification 3nodding but its hard to call really

I prefer love over sex, but i like both.
Get right to it (after some STD testing of course.) If either of us has any interest in continuing the relationship, then we can go from there.
I've been a sex based one that I attempted to turn into a full relationship. Bad Choice. I learned that my sex life and my love life need not coincide in some places.
Gay Romance, eh?

Damnation under the doubtful lord indivisable... I'm afraid I can't provide any justice here... I once had love down in words to the best of my abilities, but I'm at a loss right now. You see, my past boyfreind asked me what I thought of love, and I didn't think I came up with a sufficing answer, as I never seem to do so off hand verbally. So I truely gave it deep contemplation for a few days, and came up with my summary to rework my mistake a bit. Not that it really matters. But you know, if you have to take the time to actually consider it, this concept, you're not ready for real, almost sureal love until it hits you in the face hoter, and more painful than any mace on this planet. Love, and everything that comes with it, is so very worth it, and far more essential in life than sex. Sex alone would make us up to par with freelance little bunnies roaming the lands doing what they do best. Rather robotic-like, isn't it? Life without love is living in true numb purgatory. In my opinion, worse than hell, for, at least, in hell, you can at least acknowledge it - to an extent exsists. You are in the absence of it greatly, not without it. If you don't understand that, do yourself a bit more thinking. But this is in the extremes, really...And quite lamens to boot atop that, but it's the truth, I suppose, and it works through and throughly through well.

I guess that tells you my thoughts exactly. Love before sex. Sex, is quite nice; it's just not the same without that extra something, that gap filled. Other gap filled (for those in dirty thoughts) :3...

Oh darn, I rymed a few times. This is what happens when you listen to Placebo for more than an hour, kiddies...

3nodding Indeed