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I am not embarressed to post this here, as I know and love you all.

Last night me and my freind, my best freind, Schuyler were at a movie that were both in and the cast alwayus do these stupid dares. So we were dared by his girlfreind to make out, and we did. Schuyler has been my best freind for like 7 years now. But it wasn't a quick brush of lips or anything, it was a passionate head nuzzling hand squeezing kiss. Afterwards he stormed away and we talked about it and admitted that we had both enjoyed it, despite that we are both male. He's now considering and confused about his sexuality as am I. I, ironically think Bisexuality is bullshit however, I don't think you can be attracted to both sexes and I have similar views with asexuality; I do not believe that you cannot be attracted toneither gender as it goes against the structure of a human being.

Perhaps it is because me and Schuyler now each other so well that ever since we hit puberty (say 2 years ago,) there has been a certain level of homosexuality in our relationship simply becaue we know each other so bloody well. Eh, I don't know. It's a little confusing.

That,a nd my cousins are still here that's been making the house veeery full and hectic, and I'm going to stay with my relatives at the other side of the island and there internet isin't that great.

Love,

Trav.

Wev'e already talked about it.

Dun dun duuun!!! surprised
Here, you're going to need this. *gives you a pink triangle* :]

Kidding aside, It's probably a phase, or probably not. XP
Whatever the matter is, I hope it turns out okay for you. 3nodding

Wow, dude. That's intense. eek

I had a fair bit of uncertainty when I was around your age, it was all hormones. x_x

Sorry if this is a little blunt, but of course you enjoyed it.

Humans are physical beings, we enjoy being physically intimate with other people. To say that it should be different wether that's with a guy or a girl is slightly misleading; no matter who it's with, it's still physical intimacy, which is why even people who hate each other can still enjoy being like that.

Then there's the question of adrenaline. That was probably more than usual, if I'm guessing right. Why? Because you knew it was something you shouldn't really be doing. (Making out with someone who is in a relationship, who's your best friend, and who's a guy, which at least has been wrong for you.) Thieves say they get that rush, it's from doing something you know is wrong, the adrenaline is for "fight or flight", and also getting away with it.

Being such good friends, you're already emotionally intimate, so physical intimacy will mean that much more to both of you, because you know each other so well.

You're a teenager. You have TONS of extra hormones raging around right now. I heard a quote once that is quite amusing, can't remember where from. "I'm a teenage guy. I find linos sexy." I think it was in reply to wether he found a certain girl attractive or something.

So yeah, your teenage years are not the best time to be trying to work out what your sexuality is. Unfortunately, in this day and age, you seem to all be being pressured to do just that. Which isn't fair at all. I'd say, if you're happy being straight, stick with it. Most people are.

Hope this was helpful, and I really hope I havn't offended or confused anyone... sweatdrop

Oh, Roissy. Don't talk to me about lack of sleep. I've gotten like ten hours in the past four days. rofl

Yeah, I rarely have the urge to cuddle with people I can't stand. And I think I would probably be resisting my punching instincts to really enjoy it, so I'm with Roissy on the WTF there.

But I'm with Cindy on the teen years not being a good time to decide your sexuality.
Seriously, when you finish puberty all them hormones clear on out and suddenly your brain makes more sense, it's so ******** up.

So, really, Travo's options are to go with the bisexual flow, or just ignore it and continue with females. Although as a bisexual his chances for threesomes increase dramatically. surprised

Now, there's a potential downside to both.
If he goes with the flow, he runs the risk of having a period of his life that he deeply regrets later on when the hormones vamoose. He also runs the risk of committing to a lifestyle that isn't maintainable for him.
And if he ignores these feelings, then he runs the risk of denying a part of himself, and that's never good.

I have a friend who came out as bisexual to me in high school. Now that he's in his twenties, he isn't bisexual anymore.
I guess you just can't make life decisions as a teenager.

So I'm told I am. xp

3nodding Yep, I meant what Satah said. But what KSTU quoted is accurate enough too.