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 Posted: Tue Apr 18, 2006 1:17 pm
Ok...things have officially become weird at high school. This one girl, she was my best friend for a long while, and all of a sudden we're not friends. WTF? I didn't even do anything. One minute we're talking, next minute she hates me. As a plus, she's completely all over my boyfriend, and she's in one of my classes. stare Fun.
Ok, second problem: my "friends". I barely talk to any of them anymore, heck, now the majority of my friends are drugees. Some hate me, why I do not know, I was never given any explanation. Others are suicidal and extremely moody. Some, we just don't talk anymore. Some have moved. Everything is just...weird. I can't trust a soul now, I have no "good" friends. Most of them have used me in one way or another. My grades are slipping. How do I deal with all this? I drink a bit...I recently quit smoking, and I'm afraid I may resort to that, or even drugs. I don't know how to deal with any of this whatsoever. What can I possibly do?
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Posted: Tue Apr 18, 2006 4:09 pm
Well my dear I'm sorry to say but yea things change >.< drastakly
The only thing i can say is whait it out a bit... Things did change badly but sooner or later they will get better i know ^_^
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Posted: Wed Apr 19, 2006 12:52 pm
Unfortunately as said before, things change. Sometimes a bit more drastically than we are ready for at times. The best way for you to deal with this, is to perhaps work on becoming more involved in activities in which you may enjoy and work towards making new and more positive friends.
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Posted: Fri Apr 21, 2006 7:50 pm
I can only say one thing about this... move on. forget about the past. it'll be alot easyer(sp?) if you just look to the future..
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Posted: Sat Apr 22, 2006 3:52 pm
Things change. As much as we don't want to admit it, things are always changing, and there's nothing we can do about it. If things didn't change, we would all still be in diapers. If things didn't change, you wouldn't have quit smoking. =/
Try joining some clubs at your school that meet your interest, be it a sport, art, drama, anything your school has to offer that you think you will like. If your school has none, try something local in your town. Not only will doing something positive like this help take your mind off of things, it may help you make a friend or two as well.
You also said your grades are slipping.. are there any study groups in your school or in your town? That can help you to be social, as well as get your grades back up.
I hope things get better for you. ^^ Best of luck.
~~Sumurika~~
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Posted: Sun Apr 23, 2006 4:39 am
I think you should find new friends who aren't in your class and move to another class, I know it sounds really far fetched but it worked for me.
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Posted: Mon Apr 24, 2006 7:27 pm
everything changes in highschool
the people who you are best friends with in the begining, will probably be your enimies in the end. Then your enimies will become your bestfriends. lol
high school is just...weird that way.
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Posted: Tue Apr 25, 2006 7:16 pm
May I sing?
"The times, they are a-changinnnn'..."
This happens in high school. The first step is realizing it's just high school. You gain friends, you lose friends, you yourself become different, drama happens. But that is how the social system works in high school. People are just figuring themselves out. If someone doesn't want to be friends anymore, it's just because you don't currently fit into their personal plan anymore. I'm sure you have not wanted to be friends with someone anymore after awhile, so we can't just try and pretend that it's out of nowhere and not fair.
High school goes by fast and soon enough you'll be graduating and heading off to college. Just enjoy it while you can and try to avoid the drama. Just chill. wink
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Posted: Sat Apr 29, 2006 6:38 pm
Awe, highschool.
Thats just how it is when you reach highschool.
Everybody changes,
Some are lucky to keep the same friends.
Once you enter high school .. things change
your best friend becomes a b***h
your boyfriend becomes a p***k
homework goes in the trash
cell phones are being used in class
detention becomes suspension
soda becomes beer
gum becomes pot
bikes become cars
lollypops become cigarettes
lip gloss becomes makeup
french kisses become sex
yeah .. high school does change everybody!!!!!!!!
No clue who its by but its true.
Just make new friends, and try to stay away from some of the dumb thins people will try to get you to do.
If you don't want to do them, don't.
Enjoy your high school years,
Love all the drama.
And hope it ends soon so the drama filled days will dissappear.
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