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So I was wandering around in PAWG, and someone made a thread about who was the fattest feedee on the forum--- and I was one of the candidates. ._.'

I got a little peeved, to be honest. First, I don't mind being fat--- but I don't really like being the FATTEST... if anyone understands what I mean. I don't really like the term "fat" used towards me anyway, for some reason. When I was (well... I kind of still am) picked on by the other kids while growing up, they always called me "fat a**", "fatty", "fatso", whatever. So naturally, hearing the term "fat" used towards me feels like they're trying to be mean to me... I can't help but think like that.

Secondly, I'm not even a feedee! The thread creator did say that he wasn't sure if any of the candidates were feedees or not... but if you're going to title the thread "Who's the fattest/heaviest feedee on the forum?" and put my name in it--- then I would think it's safe to assume that they're basically saying I'm a feedee.

The reason I got kind of angry over the feedee thing is, as I stated, I'm not one in the first place... but (perhaps I'm just jumping to conclusions) I also feel like that since I'm a fat girl in a male-dominated fat admiring forum, that I'd either be expected/assumed to be a feedee. Well I'm not. neutral

awww well i'm sorry ^^;; well sometimes people just assume things and jump to concusions. Well I hope it gets all straightened out ^^ *hands her a cookie*

1. Most people (men and women) are trying to lose weight. It would be oxymoronic if you are a feedee and trying to lose weight, yes? I doubt the author knew that.
2. Yes, being called fat is annoying. But what about, "plump"or "soft"? He just doesn't have a good enough vocabulary to speak his mind.
3. He should delete the thread. How does he know anyone of us is the fattest?
4. The very fact you were nominated period must mean something. I never get nominated for anything. People think being at the bottom of the barrel lame, or being the extreme of somthing negative is a bad thing. I say, the very fact you are known for somthing is better than being known for nothing.
5. Forget what they think. It all matters about what YOU think.
Right, #4&5 suck long and hard. Sorry. But the other three I hope help.

I know. Am I not allowed to help someone?

I was wondering about that. I didn't think you were a feedee. sweatdrop I understand how the word fat can get to people. I'm glad he offered an apology. 3nodding

Is there a link to this PAWG? o_o; I would really like to see it....

Pawg sucks now. It's full of bastards who should be banned but aren't, and idiot jerks who cause threads to veer so far off topic with their jackassery that they get locked. stressed