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 Posted: Tue Apr 04, 2006 4:16 pm
Hi,I am 16 and my boyfriend is 19 and he says i dont act my age! and he gets mad at me if i act like 4 ...i hate acting like it and i want to be more mature when i am talking to him! Can anybody! I Mean anybody help me! i will do anything to stay with him...He wants a mature girl ..i was trying! i want to stay with him but i need help on acting my age! Any tips would be great!!
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Posted: Tue Apr 04, 2006 6:59 pm
Well, you're a 16 year old minor, and you're well... a kid still. Growing up, but still a kid. So technically, he's right. Your level of maturity is likely to be much lower than his, and it seems that that might be the case.
In which case, you can tell him to accept you for you are and to leave you alone about it, or suggest he find someone else to date.
I would personally suggest finding someone else who doesn't complain about your age or maturity. And frankly, if you "will do anything to stay with him", even if it means being someone you're not, it sounds like he's not worth it anyways.
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Posted: Tue Apr 04, 2006 10:37 pm
He's dating a younger girl, what the heck does he expect?
Frankly, I'm a little iffy on this. An older man dates you and then tries to change your personality... a lot of older men who date younger girls do it for power, because they feel they can control them.. That's something to consider. If you feel that he is pressuring you (to change, to have sex, anything like that), you might want to get out of the relationship before something bad happens.
You're 16. You're you. Don't change who you are, don't try to act like someone you aren't. If he can't take that, that's his problem. You should never have to change for someone like that.
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Posted: Wed Apr 05, 2006 9:04 am
Thank You! *bows* I Really needed help on this! And you guys gave me advice! Thank you So Much Kukushka & Nikolita heart I Will Tell him like me for me and dont change my personality,Yes i am young,but learning about maturity takes time and i am getting there..Love me for me! Thank you Again Guys<3
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Posted: Mon Apr 10, 2006 2:47 am
Well, if he dont like you for you then dump his arse!
Dont change for anyone!
Haha! I'm a bit late!
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Posted: Mon Apr 10, 2006 4:01 am
I'm a bit late to but I'll give advice anyway....
I don't know if it's his age or just him in general but don't change for him. Next time he says you're acting immature say "Stop acting like an old man". But in a fun way so not to get on his bad side. If he keeps it up then I don't think he's worth staying with. If he doesn't like who you are then some other boy would be delighted to like you.
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Posted: Tue Apr 11, 2006 6:30 pm
Thanks Guys For The Advice! Still Good even If Its Late blaugh 3nodding 4laugh
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Posted: Wed Apr 12, 2006 7:33 pm
Well, you might love him, and do anything to stay with him, but...and i'll be Frank with you here, ARE YOU KIDDING ME?!?! I mean, he has to accept you for the 16 year old that you ARE, you shouldn't change for ANYONE especially not a guy, and if you feel like you need to change youself to be with him than that relationship was doomed from the start.
Sorry Hun, but I suggest getting this relationship over-with and finding somone you can be yourself with.
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Posted: Fri May 26, 2006 7:16 am
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