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seisha_the_beautiful

PostPosted: Sat Apr 01, 2006 11:52 am


I DON'T GET IT. straight people don't have to think twice about who they like, but when gay/lesbian/bi people like someone it's gross!! being gay is just another aspect of your personality, so why does it have to be that big of a deal???
PostPosted: Sat Apr 01, 2006 12:53 pm


I think it has to be hard because it is shunned by society.
All society cares about it pro-creation not love

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Father_Enrico_Morgani

PostPosted: Sat Apr 01, 2006 1:46 pm


if it wasnt hard everyone could do it...and then were would the love really be?
PostPosted: Sat Apr 01, 2006 10:43 pm


beause we're different
its a sin and blah blah blah

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AnnouncerGuy

PostPosted: Sun Apr 02, 2006 12:33 am


You know I wonder that same thing, but there isn't alot we can do about it. Except try and make the community more accepting of us.
PostPosted: Sun Apr 02, 2006 7:50 am


Beacuse we're not accepted by society as a whole. Oh sure, they can watch Queer Eye or Will and Grace, but God forbid someone they actually know be *gasp* not straight!

Don't worry about it, I dream that someday we'll be accepted and it won't be a big deal, and people can just say to us "I'm sorry, I'm straight" or something and that'll be it. No awkwardness, no disgusted looks...

Trust me, I've got my share of the disgusted looks... It's depressing. I currently like a homphobe. (Dude, that just sounded stupid. Why do I like a homophobe? Stupid me.)

telianahorse


xAsh-chanx

PostPosted: Sun Apr 02, 2006 10:48 am


telianahorse
Beacuse we're not accepted by society as a whole. Oh sure, they can watch Queer Eye or Will and Grace, but God forbid someone they actually know be *gasp* not straight!

Don't worry about it, I dream that someday we'll be accepted and it won't be a big deal, and people can just say to us "I'm sorry, I'm straight" or something and that'll be it. No awkwardness, no disgusted looks...

Trust me, I've got my share of the disgusted looks... It's depressing. I currently like a homphobe. (Dude, that just sounded stupid. Why do I like a homophobe? Stupid me.)


I agree completely, society is painfully flawed in that matter.
PostPosted: Sun Apr 02, 2006 11:46 am


well i think straight weill some of them atleast dotn really have a problum with homosexuals/bisexuals untll they are put in a situation whre they have to cope with it and peopel are rased to think sertan things

jbiszombieboi


kichan64

PostPosted: Sun Apr 02, 2006 1:47 pm


It is hard, but I believe that the world is coming around to it. Slowly yes, but the attitude and culture of people has made a great change over the years. homosexuals have been around just as long as straight people. Soon enough, people will see their own unjust ways. I'm not saying they have to like homosexuals or bisexuals, just respect them and keep their discrminating opinions to themselves and out of their judgement of others.
PostPosted: Sun Apr 02, 2006 11:11 pm


i know... being bi is so much easier than being straight in a lot of ways... 'cos i dont have to worry about whether i like a girl or a guy... but really hard in soooooooooooooo many other ways, when i told my friends i was bi, and kissed a girl on camp, they totally flipped... and wont have me over to their houses, and wont sit with in like half a foot of me.... it sucks... they are way to straight for their own good, i dread teling my catholic family... they'll probably burn me at the stake...

daine_the_wild_mage


FlyingRodent19

PostPosted: Mon Apr 03, 2006 9:54 am


Personally I never found anything to be truly hard about being Bi. Those that I told never really bothered to care too much. People don't mind as much as they used to. The world is basically becoming better for people to be diverse and not be afraid to tell others who and what they are. I dunno, thats my take on the whole thing.
PostPosted: Mon Apr 03, 2006 1:13 pm


It's hard because people are so unacceptable to people who are not like them. Making live a b***h for un-straights because, obviously, we are not like straights.

~scarred-and-diseased~


Suoh

PostPosted: Mon Apr 03, 2006 5:22 pm


Think of it this way, if it was easy then everybody would be doing it. But, it's not, so people take the easy way out. We should rejoice in our difficulties.
PostPosted: Mon Apr 03, 2006 8:08 pm


You just have to "roll with the punches", It could get better, it could get worse, better I hope. It's who you are so they is really nothing you nor anyone can do to change it. Love yourself! xD

~Nefex~


quicquid

PostPosted: Tue Apr 04, 2006 1:48 am


Well in the Dark Ages women was accused of being witches and was burned and black people have been through a lot too. I think homosexuals will turn out the same way. We'll be accepted someday. Sure there'll always be someone who hate us but some people hate black people too. It's a matter of how civilized you are.
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