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Lost My dad November 4th 2023

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PostPosted: Sun Mar 17, 2024 1:02 pm


He had a massive heart attack out of no where, A month before this he had a full check up and everything looked great even his heart so it was just a complete shock to all of us. Iv been trying to stay strong but sometimes I just break down, I thought maybe if I typed it out here maybe id be able to start moving forward.
There has been a lot going on and I feel stressed out a lot of the time but hopefully soon things will start feeling some what normal.
Thanks for listing (reading) I hope all of yall are doing well!
( I had posted this in AMG so thought id just repost here )

As of today things are a little better but I do still break down time to time, been trying to stay busy as not to think to much about it. Helped my mom and sister move back to our home town so now they live closer to me which is great and hopefully can visit them more often!
PostPosted: Mon Mar 25, 2024 5:59 am


Hi, I am glad you posted it here also.
This is terrible to hear how he had the cheeck up, everything was looking good/
And then had the heart attack.
It is so hard losing a parent. I am so sorry for the loss and hope it gets easier for you. We all have a hard time when we lose a parent.
I try to think how much my dad wanted me to always be happy. So when laughing or having a good time, I think of him knowing he would be happy I am happy.

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PostPosted: Mon Mar 25, 2024 8:23 am


MoonDustPower
He had a massive heart attack out of no where, A month before this he had a full check up and everything looked great even his heart so it was just a complete shock to all of us. Iv been trying to stay strong but sometimes I just break down, I thought maybe if I typed it out here maybe id be able to start moving forward.
There has been a lot going on and I feel stressed out a lot of the time but hopefully soon things will start feeling some what normal.
Thanks for listing (reading) I hope all of yall are doing well!
( I had posted this in AMG so thought id just repost here )

As of today things are a little better but I do still break down time to time, been trying to stay busy as not to think to much about it. Helped my mom and sister move back to our home town so now they live closer to me which is great and hopefully can visit them more often!


Dear MoonDustPower, First of all, I am so, so sorry about the loss of your dad! Even though you've been busy, you need to allow yourself to work through the grief or it will just sit there, waiting for you. It's not surprising or a sign of weakness that you still break down at times. It's only been a year & your dad's passing was a shock so give yourself time! Having mom & sister close by may help all of you work together through your loss. ((HUGS))
PostPosted: Mon Mar 25, 2024 2:31 pm


MoonDustPower
He had a massive heart attack out of no where, A month before this he had a full check up and everything looked great even his heart so it was just a complete shock to all of us. Iv been trying to stay strong but sometimes I just break down, I thought maybe if I typed it out here maybe id be able to start moving forward.
I'm sorry that you lost your dad. All of us handle grief and loss at our own pace so don't beat yourself up for still breaking down. Honestly, it's only been 4 months since your father passed, right? It would be stranger to me if you DIDN'T have moments of sadness since it happened relatively recently. Give yourself grace and be kind to yourself as those holidays, annivesaries, birthdays, and family traditions inevitably bring back the pain that you thought you'd gotten over.

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PostPosted: Mon Mar 25, 2024 2:36 pm


MoonDustPower
He had a massive heart attack out of no where, A month before this he had a full check up and everything looked great even his heart so it was just a complete shock to all of us. Iv been trying to stay strong but sometimes I just break down, I thought maybe if I typed it out here maybe id be able to start moving forward.
There has been a lot going on and I feel stressed out a lot of the time but hopefully soon things will start feeling some what normal.
Thanks for listing (reading) I hope all of yall are doing well!
( I had posted this in AMG so thought id just repost here )

As of today things are a little better but I do still break down time to time, been trying to stay busy as not to think to much about it. Helped my mom and sister move back to our home town so now they live closer to me which is great and hopefully can visit them more often!


I'm here with a great big hug 3nodding it's so hard to lose anyone we love, and sadly it's happening quite a bit, I'm sorry heart
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