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Posted: Tue Mar 28, 2006 2:58 pm
it really upsets me that i am not like everyone else
i really wish i had the desire for masturbation.
i wish i was more sexual i wish i wasn't a freak
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Posted: Tue Mar 28, 2006 3:19 pm
p.s: i float asexual forums and it seems that as i figure out if i am just unsexuall or asexual is a emotional and upsetting experience
and everyone else sees it as no big and doesnt care as much as i have ._.
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The MoUsY spell-checker Crew
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Posted: Wed Mar 29, 2006 1:39 am
Why does it upset you that you're not like everyone else? You can't be exactly the same as anyone else. (You can't be completely different either for that matter.)
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Posted: Wed Mar 29, 2006 2:14 am
I take it as you're not happy of being asexual? Society's pressuring you too much to want to have sex even though you don't have any sexual urges?
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Posted: Wed Mar 29, 2006 5:04 pm
Telamond I take it as you're not happy of being asexual? Society's pressuring you too much to want to have sex even though you don't have any sexual urges? I don't know if I am asexual. My sexuality is something I am really insecure about and I am always questioning. I sometimes start the day thinking myself in a label that not many have and end the day with thinking I am just not a sexual person but not to the point of asexuality.
I am just confused.
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Posted: Wed Mar 29, 2006 5:05 pm
The MoUsY spell-checker Why does it upset you that you're not like everyone else? You can't be exactly the same as anyone else. (You can't be completely different either for that matter.) Hmm. I like the part in parentesis. That is a saying that should be floated around more then the before. ^-^
I have a large fear of judgement because I have a large past of being jugded.
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Posted: Wed Mar 29, 2006 5:47 pm
If you're trying to figure out where you belong, relax and take your time to sort through your confusion. Nobody can force you to choose. Explore a bit. Ask us questions. You might find something interesting. You might get your burning questions answered. That's what we are here for.
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Posted: Wed Mar 29, 2006 6:51 pm
Would... Would you say you are apathetic in a seuxal experience or upset by a sexual experience?
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Posted: Thu Mar 30, 2006 9:30 pm
For me, it's disgusting. I would say that it leans toward the upset side of the scale, but I am not upset by it.
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Posted: Sat Apr 01, 2006 11:26 am
Yeah, I like that phrase, too. I mean, even non-comformists are all the same. There really isn't anything new under the sun.
It can be tough finding out "what you are." I say what is in quotes, lightly. Just wade through everything, to the point where you can truly see what is really inportant in your life, all other things aside. Make your decisions based upon that.
I'm more apathetic, but I do most certainly back away when someone touches me.
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Posted: Mon Apr 03, 2006 1:14 am
like fire hellfire Would... Would you say you are apathetic in a seuxal experience or upset by a sexual experience? I consider myself a likely combination of both. Nature and nurture each had a hand in what I am. So far, I've decided that my asexuality is a combination of naturally low sex drive and of ... being 'upset by a sexual experience'. That isn't what I used to think, and may not be what I think later. But that's my two cents, at least for now.
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Posted: Tue Apr 11, 2006 10:26 am
Hm. I think sex is pressured upon us all by society. If you feel the urge to have sex, you're either affected by the hormones in the beef(chicken too, nowadays) or society is getting to you. I wish people would just leave everyone alone about their personal life/business. It's not like sex gets you anything.
I've never had a sexual experience, at all. So, it can't be that that turned me away from sex. Unless I was molested as a child, which I'd never remember anyways. So, it's just that my sex drive is low and I don't let advertising get to me(or other manifestations of our peers).
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Posted: Tue Apr 18, 2006 9:39 pm
I am a vegan. blaugh
That answers a lot, I think.
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Posted: Wed Apr 19, 2006 9:14 am
Vegan, yeah that does. xd
Why they put such and emphasis on sex, I'll never know, because nothing good ever comes out of it until you're married. Then kids are probably the only upside. I mean, hey, I might get married (way into the future if ever) and have kids, but the sex part of it would just be something to do to get kids. It's not my fault there isn;'t a better eway (aside from artificial insemination, but that can easily result in triplets and the like).
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