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 Posted: Sun Mar 26, 2006 11:12 pm
Ffffuuuuuuuck.
Yeah, my room mate got hers on Thursday or Friday. I usually get it at around the same time, or earlier. It is now Sunday night.
I haven't had sex in months, but my BF has fingered me after touching himself (although he never ejaculated) and he has accidentally gotten his p***s dangerously close to me, (touched it near my v****a) but not penetrated even a bit.
I have heard that stress can mess things up though. And it's been finals week.. I missed two nights of sleep in a row last weekend, and missed a ton of sleep this weekend as well. I've been writing and drawing and sewing nonstop for school and other things, and getting dragged everywhere for days. But the thing is, things like this never effect me physically. I never get sick from stress, or even get cramps or headaches or stomach aches or anything almost EVER.
I know I should have been more careful. But I'm really hoping it's not what I think it is, because I just don't want to even think about a ******** little parasite clinging to my insides. I'm not freaking out just yet, but I think that's because I can barely comprehend the thought of it.
Anyway, I guess I just want opinions and guesses and stuff.
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Posted: Mon Mar 27, 2006 4:27 am
Give it another week, if yous till haven't got your period, takea pregnancy test just to be sure.
But sticking his p***s near the v****a (though very unlikely) still can be a way of getting pregnant. The fingering you after touching himself, I highly doubt could get your pregnant. But you never know.
But it does sound a lot like stress is your main cause, being safe is better than waiting a few months to find out you are pregnant and are unable to do anything about it.
Try to get some rest as well, because by the sounds of it, you're on the edge of a breakdown, and that's not going to help you any.
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Posted: Mon Mar 27, 2006 5:03 am
I agree with Kyra.
Give it some time, try to relax.
I give it a good chance that it's just because of the stress you've been through. If your period still doesn't come after a week (or two), do the pregnancy test. 3nodding
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Posted: Mon Mar 27, 2006 9:26 am
Yup, ONLY way to know if you are pregnant is to test for it. We can't say for certain if you are or aren't.
While the odds are in the favor no, it doesn't mean it's not entirely possible that with the given circumstance you couldn't have gotten pregnant. Stress does play a big factor. Just because you haven't had problems physically with stress, doesn't mean you never can or will.
As for the whole "parasite" thing, I'm going to disagree. I think if you are sexually active, you NEED to think about the whatifs. Regardless of whether you are pregnant now, you need to sit down with your partner and discuss what you two will decide if it were to happen and your options. It's not the best plan to not think about something that serious if you are having sex, even if you are the most responsible person when it comes to it, it's important to have that game plan.
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Posted: Mon Mar 27, 2006 1:33 pm
I do agree. You need to think about it NOW, instead of either being in denial or just not doing it. If you are pregnant, you are going to have to deal with it whether you like it or not.
Reasons your period can be late:
1) Pregnancy.
2) Birth control.
3) Change in diet/what you eat.
4) Stress.
5) Travel.
There's more, but those are the ones I can think of at the moment. It sounds like your period is probably late due to stress, but of course, we can't diagnose you or tell you anything concrete just based on what you've told us. Do your best to relax and calm down, and hopefully it will come soon. If not, you might want to consider seeing a doctor and/or taking a pregnancy test.
On a side note, while the chances are very slim that you could be pregnant from ejaculate/pre-c** on his hand, it's still possible. In the future if you're going to mess around, get him to wash his hands after he touches himself BEFORE he touches you or penetrates you with his fingers, etc. And if his p***s is "accidently getting close to your v****a", then perhaps he should start wearing a condom, or you two can look into birth control. Better to be safe than sorry, especially if you don't want a "******** little parasite clinging to your insides." If you're going to have sex, be responsible about it. Take care of yourself and your body, and be mature about it.
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Posted: Mon Mar 27, 2006 4:43 pm
Alright, thanks guys. I found some self-help sites and am thinking about my options. Oh, and finals are over, so the stress from that is gone. I think I'm gonna go on the pill after this, ack.
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Posted: Thu Apr 06, 2006 5:42 pm
HAHAHAHA, YESSSSSSS.
JUST before I was starting to really get worried and going to go do something about it, my period started. Brilliant. (It might have been a result of this: http://www.sisterzeus.com/Hsp1shlp.htm, but I think it was probably because there was never anything there in the first place.;;; ) THE PILL NOW.
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Posted: Thu May 25, 2006 8:55 pm
Try not to worry too much. Stress CAN cause you to be late. I wouldn't worry just yet. As for your boyfriends fingering you after playing with himself, I very much doubt you could be pregnant. As soon as sperm hit air, they die, so if he ejaculates outside of your v****a, chances of you getting pregnant that way are so slim it is almost impossible. Try to relax. I am sure it is just stress.
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Posted: Mon May 29, 2006 3:32 pm
coliver17 Try not to worry too much. Stress CAN cause you to be late. I wouldn't worry just yet. As for your boyfriends fingering you after playing with himself, I very much doubt you could be pregnant. As soon as sperm hit air, they die, so if he ejaculates outside of your v****a, chances of you getting pregnant that way are so slim it is almost impossible. Try to relax. I am sure it is just stress. Well.. I made this post months ago, but that little fact about sperm was quite useful, thank you. XD; I was not pregnant.
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