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 Posted: Fri Mar 24, 2006 7:48 am
I'm not sure. I myself am 16, and I would consider myself as bisexual. But I'm not sure if it's just bi-curious. I might be 100% straight when I get older, but I honestly don't know. I've heard about a lot of peoples being bi-curious and even gay, but then they reached the adult stage and became straight. So is this only a little thing I'm going through, or is it possible for me to be bi? >_> I am in the puberty, and my sexual preferences might be swinging cause of that. surprised
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Posted: Sat Mar 25, 2006 6:49 am
Well i am bi and i am 14 so i would say yes you can be bi/gay and under 18. I guess it just depends on the person themself. Just figure out what you are at the moment and experiment and you may change later but go with it now and if you are or are not later well you will just have to figure that out.
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Posted: Sat Mar 25, 2006 7:38 am
yes you can be gay/bi at that age, but if you are not sure yet its ok also. Dont be quick to put a label on yourself, just be yourself 3nodding
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Posted: Sat Mar 25, 2006 10:33 am
Teri0 yes you can be gay/bi at that age, but if you are not sure yet its ok also. Dont be quick to put a label on yourself, just be yourself 3nodding *nods* When you're a teenager, you're expected to go through phases and try on different personas. You're still in the testing phase of your sexuality. Don't worry about it.
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Posted: Sat Mar 25, 2006 3:22 pm
It's very possible to be gay under the age of 18. I'm only 15 and I know very VERY well that I prefer men over women 3nodding It's not the age who defines who you are, but the time itself I guees. Like for example, the stories that you've heard about people becoming straight when they reach adulthood. They thought they were something, but over a period of time they realized thats not what they were. It's really simple. I dont know, sometimes I have difficulty explaining things. sweatdrop
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Posted: Sat Mar 25, 2006 4:16 pm
i have a cousin that i know is gay and (yall would be shocked about this) he's only 9 eek (it scared me too) but yes like everyone has said (i think of myself as bi but leaning more to men but i still have a attraction to women its just when u don't date for like a some odd amount of years u get lonely... (make those years about since i was 14 and i'm 19 now haven't had that one special kiss or lover but anyways io'm getting kinda of subject >.<") but yes its ur choice my man your choice and only yours wink
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Posted: Sat Mar 25, 2006 4:58 pm
Different people mature at different ages. I know some people who have known they were gay since they were little kids, because they were always attracted to men even if not sexually. I know others who didn't know until they were adults, maybe because they were led to believe it was wrong and they denied it even to themselves.
I don't remember when I first knew. I think I was around 12. But for me there was never a time when I was attracted to girls. So in short I would have to say it's possible, but there's really no need to label yourself. smile
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Posted: Sat Mar 25, 2006 8:02 pm
I had kissed about 7 girls and didn't even think of myself as Bisexual. I ahd an attraction to girls and I just didn't think about it. Some people notice these things but don't think about it for a long period of time. I was 19 when I finally admitted it to myself. Now every person I talk to online, within the first day or so I say I am bisexual.
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Posted: Sat Mar 25, 2006 9:28 pm
I'm bi, and i'm under 18.
And I know it's for real. Yes you can be under the age of 18.
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Posted: Sat Mar 25, 2006 11:04 pm
I believe that you can be Bi/Gay whatever when you are like 10!
So, yeah totally. I'm a psych major so try me
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Posted: Sun Mar 26, 2006 12:17 am
Thank you everyone for your responses. ^_^ I am 70% sure that I am bi, but still, I will wait and see what it developes to. Thanks again guys, it has really helped. smile
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Posted: Sun Mar 26, 2006 9:23 am
*Secretly hopes that someone she knows will overcome the ''phase''*
>.>
<.<
^-^;
To be honest, I don't know either... But I'm not to bothered.. What feels right feels right, what works, works, you know?
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~ Aderyn
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Posted: Sun Mar 26, 2006 9:47 am
xp I'm bi and basically knew when I was younger..... just didn't know what the attraction torwards girls was all about. I thought I just thought of them as friends...... then my bi friend made a move on me and we ended up kissing alot....... sweatdrop
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Posted: Sun Mar 26, 2006 11:53 am
Of course, I found out I was bi when I was 11. I'm 14 now, and though I now lean more towards women. I still stand by my decision.
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Posted: Tue Mar 28, 2006 1:19 pm
I'm 15.
Some days I think of myself as bisexual, other days bi curious, and every now and again straight (like, when I think how I feel about guys, and maybe it's just me understanding there is nothing wrong with other sexualities).
The strange thing with me is that I tend to crush and obsess over guys, picture myself in longtime relationships with them, etc... but I find girls just so much more attractive/hotter. I adore a combination of the two - bishounen/girly guys! I'm obsessed with gays, and think some lesbian couples are so hot it's unbeleivable, or so sweet I want to cry.
Meh, I say just go with the flow and what feels right. As someone once said, nearly everybody is bi to some degree. razz
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