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Posted: Sat Nov 12, 2016 5:43 pm

So.... I'm old fashioned and I've only ever dated one person at a time. And by that I mean that time before your actually in some kind of committed relationship.
I know now days people date more people at the same time before picking the ones they want.... and that's got me curious:

Do you date multiple people at once or o you put all your energy into one at a time?
Any draw backs/benefits to your method?
How many is too many at once? rofl

Posted: Tue Nov 15, 2016 6:00 am

i believe in the same thing - putting your effort into one person but i am not dating anyone - so i flirt with everyone

but i had talked to someone who dated a few people at a time and he said it was because he is getting to know them.. figuring out his options before committing and dumping the others

i think it is all a matter of personal preference

if you aren't "titled" does that person have claim? i don't know

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Posted: Tue Nov 15, 2016 6:41 am

Melena Rai

i believe in the same thing - putting your effort into one person but i am not dating anyone - so i flirt with everyone

but i had talked to someone who dated a few people at a time and he said it was because he is getting to know them.. figuring out his options before committing and dumping the others

i think it is all a matter of personal preference

if you aren't "titled" does that person have claim? i don't know

I see nothing wrong with the get to know people reasoning.... but I'd just feel way too guilty to do it I think.
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