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DefauIt


PostPosted: Sun Sep 04, 2016 8:22 am


I've been considering getting into one of these.
But I hesitate with it.
Normally I'd say no way, but this one... I actually want to try.



What are your guys opinion of long distance stuff?
Have you been in one?
PostPosted: Sun Sep 04, 2016 9:09 pm


I met my fiance on here about five to six years ago. We were in a long distance relationship for half a year before meeting in person. He lived in PA and I'm from TN. We were nine hours apart. It worked out for us, we're getting married in April. I think you should take a leap if you feel it's right for you. You never know where it might lead you to.


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DefauIt


PostPosted: Sun Sep 04, 2016 10:25 pm


Noodlerella
I met my fiance on here about five to six years ago. We were in a long distance relationship for half a year before meeting in person. He lived in PA and I'm from TN. We were nine hours apart. It worked out for us, we're getting married in April. I think you should take a leap if you feel it's right for you. You never know where it might lead you to.


That's really cute!!! I love hearing stories like that.
It seems you only hear the bad stuff.

Congratz on the wedding!!!
PostPosted: Sun Sep 04, 2016 10:30 pm


DefauIt
Noodlerella
I met my fiance on here about five to six years ago. We were in a long distance relationship for half a year before meeting in person. He lived in PA and I'm from TN. We were nine hours apart. It worked out for us, we're getting married in April. I think you should take a leap if you feel it's right for you. You never know where it might lead you to.


That's really cute!!! I love hearing stories like that.
It seems you only hear the bad stuff.

Congratz on the wedding!!!


Thanks ~
There are bad things that do happen just make sure you know the person pretty well before jumping in. It's a lot different when it becomes offline. People act a bit different, obviously. I'm sure you'll do well though in your relationship! We video chatted a lot so that helped out with things and texted everyday.


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DefauIt


PostPosted: Sun Sep 04, 2016 10:37 pm


We already text all day.... I send sickeningly cute notes too. I feel like a dork. >///////<
But an overly crazy happy kind of dorky.

Gah... Why have they not invented teleporters yet?!!?! gonk
PostPosted: Tue Sep 06, 2016 6:59 am


DefauIt
We already text all day.... I send sickeningly cute notes too. I feel like a dork. >///////<
But an overly crazy happy kind of dorky.

Gah... Why have they not invented teleporters yet?!!?! gonk
lmao we just had this discussion last night with friends!! why not?!!

and okay so i think i get like you when it comes to the notes and texting but just be aware the giddy does wear off and you need to be prepared for it

it is what we call the honeymoon phase and it happens 1.) when people are in this blissful happy state usually up to a year

2.) when you are expressing everything about yourself but as you run out of things to express yourself about it tends to die off a bit

2.) the real life factor hits hard sometimes

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PostPosted: Tue Sep 06, 2016 7:01 am


Noodlerella
I met my fiance on here about five to six years ago. We were in a long distance relationship for half a year before meeting in person. He lived in PA and I'm from TN. We were nine hours apart. It worked out for us, we're getting married in April. I think you should take a leap if you feel it's right for you. You never know where it might lead you to.
OOOOOH gonk if you gunna steal the ones from pa from us at least send some from TN back to replace! rofl rofl rofl

j/k i am from pa so it was just the perfect comment .. taking all our boys! rofl
PostPosted: Tue Sep 06, 2016 7:03 am


I had a long distance relationship .. well it doesn't seem like a long distance only 2.5-3 hrs but we only saw each other once a month or so

we were straight out of high school and he didn't drive the first half of the relationship.. it was okay at first but draining because he worked over nights - we didn't each other much at first when we did it was great but then after that i became more of an alarm clock .. that is when it went down hill and ended

you are older and hopefully would understand life better to deal with it .. i was young

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PostPosted: Tue Sep 06, 2016 9:08 am


Melena Rai
Noodlerella
I met my fiance on here about five to six years ago. We were in a long distance relationship for half a year before meeting in person. He lived in PA and I'm from TN. We were nine hours apart. It worked out for us, we're getting married in April. I think you should take a leap if you feel it's right for you. You never know where it might lead you to.
OOOOOH gonk if you gunna steal the ones from pa from us at least send some from TN back to replace! rofl rofl rofl

j/k i am from pa so it was just the perfect comment .. taking all our boys! rofl


You don't want any tn boys. Hicks be what they are, at least where I'm from.
PostPosted: Tue Sep 06, 2016 9:12 am


Oh also, that honeymoon phase is very true. Once you get finished up with that phase you'll meet the true person. I would have never yelled at my fiance or argued with him the first year we were together nor would he. After the first year we fought. lol We don't fight a lot now though. I think relationships have phases and if you can get through the rough ones you're good.


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PostPosted: Tue Sep 06, 2016 9:54 am


Noodlerella
Melena Rai
Noodlerella
I met my fiance on here about five to six years ago. We were in a long distance relationship for half a year before meeting in person. He lived in PA and I'm from TN. We were nine hours apart. It worked out for us, we're getting married in April. I think you should take a leap if you feel it's right for you. You never know where it might lead you to.
OOOOOH gonk if you gunna steal the ones from pa from us at least send some from TN back to replace! rofl rofl rofl

j/k i am from pa so it was just the perfect comment .. taking all our boys! rofl


You don't want any tn boys. Hicks be what they are, at least where I'm from.
lol well what area from pa did you steal him from? xd we can say the same for some around here

and then keep your TN boys but at least replenish the stock taken rofl
PostPosted: Tue Sep 06, 2016 9:59 am


Ugghhh... why havent they invented teleporters yet?!
this would make so many things that much easier.


im sure i am stuck in the honeymoon phase and I know it'll change eventually. although I hope it doesnt. XD lol
makes me wish i had a crystal ball to know if its worth it in the end.


DefauIt




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PostPosted: Tue Sep 06, 2016 7:35 pm


Melena Rai
Noodlerella
Melena Rai
Noodlerella
I met my fiance on here about five to six years ago. We were in a long distance relationship for half a year before meeting in person. He lived in PA and I'm from TN. We were nine hours apart. It worked out for us, we're getting married in April. I think you should take a leap if you feel it's right for you. You never know where it might lead you to.
OOOOOH gonk if you gunna steal the ones from pa from us at least send some from TN back to replace! rofl rofl rofl

j/k i am from pa so it was just the perfect comment .. taking all our boys! rofl


You don't want any tn boys. Hicks be what they are, at least where I'm from.
lol well what area from pa did you steal him from? xd we can say the same for some around here

and then keep your TN boys but at least replenish the stock taken rofl


Also he did the stealing. 3nodding I wasn't interested for a good 2 months. He put in that effort. lol
I have no siblings so I cannot offer anything I also don't want children. All I can offer is cupcakes.
PostPosted: Tue Sep 06, 2016 7:43 pm


DefauIt
Ugghhh... why havent they invented teleporters yet?!
this would make so many things that much easier.


im sure i am stuck in the honeymoon phase and I know it'll change eventually. although I hope it doesnt. XD lol
makes me wish i had a crystal ball to know if its worth it in the end.
ninja well i think just remember to take it slow .. it feels good until reality crashes back .. slow and steady wins the race .. how far is the distance?

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OokamixHime

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PostPosted: Wed Sep 07, 2016 12:46 pm


DefauIt
Ugghhh... why havent they invented teleporters yet?!
this would make so many things that much easier.


im sure i am stuck in the honeymoon phase and I know it'll change eventually. although I hope it doesnt. XD lol
makes me wish i had a crystal ball to know if its worth it in the end.

The teleporters would be heaven for me

But the crystal ball would take away the important lessons you could learn in the relationship, regardless of how it ends up there are always things to learn.

I'm fairly naive in all this sweatdrop I've been in an LD for four years now (first relationship too) and we have yet to physically meet but there have been lots of video calls.
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