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PostPosted: Mon Jun 27, 2016 10:26 pm


How do I even start this off? Haha...

Ok. So I'm fine with being the single pringle that I am but lately I've just been feeling.. i dunno.. wishing I wasn't.
I mean.. I dunno.. I feel like I'm just missing out you know?
I want to get a significant other even for just a while but at the same time I know I can't and it's irritating if not depressing.

I have issues when it comes to liking others on a more intimate level.
I can't get into liking someone for a long time. Not that I don't like friends and people like that.
But when it comes to getting intimate like potential dating I just can't stay in love or whatever.
Simplest way to put it is - I get bored. I don't mean to either.
I feel so bad for those that honestly do seem to like me(even though it's only been one person.. haha..)
I feel so mean and I hate that I'm like this but I dunno how to fix it.

Not only that but I'm not all that self-confident at times and while it's not always apparent I know I'm not very attractive and I can't really do much about it.
Thus I attract like no one.. besides like my cat... and maybe like a dog or two... >.>

Though I want to date someone I don't want to go about doing so half assed.. I'm not that type of person...


Pretty much the point of this post is me wondering if I should give it a try and even if it comes down to the fact that I'd most likely be dating only for a short while.. or should I just wait..?
PostPosted: Thu Jul 07, 2016 8:44 pm


d r e a m i e cakes
How do I even start this off? Haha...

Ok. So I'm fine with being the single pringle that I am but lately I've just been feeling.. i dunno.. wishing I wasn't.
I mean.. I dunno.. I feel like I'm just missing out you know?
I want to get a significant other even for just a while but at the same time I know I can't and it's irritating if not depressing.

I have issues when it comes to liking others on a more intimate level.
I can't get into liking someone for a long time. Not that I don't like friends and people like that.
But when it comes to getting intimate like potential dating I just can't stay in love or whatever.
Simplest way to put it is - I get bored. I don't mean to either.
I feel so bad for those that honestly do seem to like me(even though it's only been one person.. haha..)
I feel so mean and I hate that I'm like this but I dunno how to fix it.

Not only that but I'm not all that self-confident at times and while it's not always apparent I know I'm not very attractive and I can't really do much about it.
Thus I attract like no one.. besides like my cat... and maybe like a dog or two... >.>

Though I want to date someone I don't want to go about doing so half assed.. I'm not that type of person...


Pretty much the point of this post is me wondering if I should give it a try and even if it comes down to the fact that I'd most likely be dating only for a short while.. or should I just wait..?


I think that your best bet would be simply dating rather than engaging with someone that would like a longer-termed relationship.

Madame Manic

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PostPosted: Thu Jul 07, 2016 8:52 pm


Madame Manic


M'kay.

I'll give it a try! Thanks Manic~
PostPosted: Thu Jul 07, 2016 8:56 pm


d r e a m i e cakes
Madame Manic


M'kay.

I'll give it a try! Thanks Manic~


Good luuuuck!

Madame Manic

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PostPosted: Fri Aug 12, 2016 3:49 pm


I think you should go ahead and date but be open and honest about your situation and emotional availability.
PostPosted: Fri Aug 19, 2016 8:28 am


I think people put too much of an emphasis on labels.
I "dated" someone for almost a year and we never ever called it that. We were friends. Romantic friends. We made each other dinner. Went on dates.Did things like hiking and going to the dog park. We were romantically involved. But at the end of the day, I was still single.
Neither one of us were wanting to be with other people at the time, but that door was always open if it needed to be.
I think it was a good situation for me back then because it was one of my first relationships and I knew I didn't want to settle down yet. I was in a mindset wher e I knew I didn't want this person to be my last.
While I enjoyed the time together, I knew I had other things to experience.
Now I am engaged and living with my partner. (a different person). I am completely aware that (hopefully) this is my last. And I am totally and utterly happy about.
I think other than labels put on relationships, it's all about the mindset you're in. And the mindset the other person is in.

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