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Lotus is a group for females(trans-females, etc) and is oriented toward discussion, uplifting, and communication that many of us need! 

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DefauIt


PostPosted: Thu Jun 16, 2016 3:28 pm


I've been frustrated by this lately. I keep volunteering at school things and it seems the ruling PTA doesn't like me.
It's frustrating not being allowed to help... I get that I font look like a boring kind of mom, but come on!

Makes me want to dress all crazy just yo spite them >.>

So, how do people judge you girls?
PostPosted: Thu Jun 16, 2016 9:07 pm


Maybe they're just super awkward around new people? I'm not sure. Sorry you're going through that. );

I'm pretty chubby, which I don't find an issue. Maybe it's my insecurities or maybe it's not but I think the girls at work look down on me for it. They also repeatedly say that i'm just "too nice"--which at first was fine but now it's like it's a bad thing. I have to keep reminding them that it's called being profession and polite. I can still handle s**t at work. lol

sweet honey bees



DefauIt


PostPosted: Thu Jun 16, 2016 9:47 pm


sweet honey bees
Maybe they're just super awkward around new people? I'm not sure. Sorry you're going through that. );

I'm pretty chubby, which I don't find an issue. Maybe it's my insecurities or maybe it's not but I think the girls at work look down on me for it. They also repeatedly say that i'm just "too nice"--which at first was fine but now it's like it's a bad thing. I have to keep reminding them that it's called being profession and polite. I can still handle s**t at work. lol

Nah... They don't just do it to me but a lot of other parents.
So at least Im not alone.

I think I'm too nice too. I wish I could be meaner all the time.
-hugs-
PostPosted: Fri Jun 17, 2016 5:44 am


Um, I don't think people judge me biggrin But I do feel that way because of anxiety, boooo.
It's silly that people are turning away your help though! I'm sure you'd make a great contribution.

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PostPosted: Fri Jun 17, 2016 3:35 pm


DefauIt
sweet honey bees
Maybe they're just super awkward around new people? I'm not sure. Sorry you're going through that. );

I'm pretty chubby, which I don't find an issue. Maybe it's my insecurities or maybe it's not but I think the girls at work look down on me for it. They also repeatedly say that i'm just "too nice"--which at first was fine but now it's like it's a bad thing. I have to keep reminding them that it's called being profession and polite. I can still handle s**t at work. lol

Nah... They don't just do it to me but a lot of other parents.
So at least Im not alone.

I think I'm too nice too. I wish I could be meaner all the time.
-hugs-
Sounds like they've got a nice little clique going then rolleyes
PostPosted: Sat Jun 18, 2016 1:54 pm


I've been looked at strangely and ridiculed for my disability.
I tell anybody and everybody I'm disabled. Now, forget the whole bad people are in the world part.
I do this on purpose. It's to give them a choice.
A lot of people turn me down the second they hear this. I can guess at some reasons, but mostly I'm baffled.
It's a fabulous wedding tool though.

Also my honesty is brutal and ugly. Again, fabulous at weeding, but not great for keeping people I want.

I have no reason to hide or be ashamed of the way I am. I'm sorry you don't like it, but I do. Now, if you'll excuse me, I have yet to meet TRUE friends. -drops mic-

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PostPosted: Sun Jun 19, 2016 1:55 pm


I wear loose, baggy clothing and dress almost 100% gender neutral. If I hadn't recently grown out my hair I'd probably still be getting called by male pronouns when I go out. Other than that I just mostly get judged for being introverted and socially anxious quiet and weird.
PostPosted: Mon Jun 20, 2016 5:53 pm


I think I'm judged for being a bit of a keener

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