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PostPosted: Sat Apr 11, 2015 12:49 pm


My life has been so confusing for the past few years.
The things I thought I knew, turn out to be totally different.
When you're young, things that seem black and white aren't as they appear to be when you get older.

confused I know my wording is confusing, so I'm gonna
try my best to explain my own confusion.

Um...When I was younger, I always thought, a slap or a shove or even a punch was abuse. Plain and simple.
I mean, how could words hurt?

My mom got married shortly after the death of my brother
and I learned firsthand about emotional abuse.

The cops came to our old house so often,
they got visibly sick of seeing us.
It was always the same lead officer,
but sometimes he would bring rookies to learn how to deal with DV calls.
Our house pets hid in fear
and I slept with my tennis shoes on.

Yet, he only drew blood once neutral
Can my stepdad be considered abusive???
PostPosted: Wed Dec 30, 2015 2:40 pm


Cinderful
My life has been so confusing for the past few years.
The things I thought I knew, turn out to be totally different.
When you're young, things that seem black and white aren't as they appear to be when you get older.

confused I know my wording is confusing, so I'm gonna
try my best to explain my own confusion.

Um...When I was younger, I always thought, a slap or a shove or even a punch was abuse. Plain and simple.
I mean, how could words hurt?

My mom got married shortly after the death of my brother
and I learned firsthand about emotional abuse.

The cops came to our old house so often,
they got visibly sick of seeing us.
It was always the same lead officer,
but sometimes he would bring rookies to learn how to deal with DV calls.
Our house pets hid in fear
and I slept with my tennis shoes on.

Yet, he only drew blood once neutral
Can my stepdad be considered abusive???


Absolutely.
I was slapped and hit a bit when I was young, but I didnt experience as abusive because it was usually paired with a lecture about how what I did wasnt good for me or the world. It was never hard, and I was never bruised. But the difference is my EXPERIENCE of it. I didnt live in fear of being hit.
If youre experiencing something you consider abusive, youre probably being abused. It doesnt matter if your abuser knows or believes they are abusing or taking advantage of you. It doesnt matter if they think they are helping you or that what they are doing is the right thing to do.

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