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For those of you who aren't in the know, I dated a user on the site from October 2011-October 2013.

However, what I didn't know is that the 1.5+ years I was with them is that it would evolve into an emotional/verbal/physical abusive relationship. When we first met, they claimed they were a bisexual trans woman. I was in with this and was willing to help them out. Alas, they didn't want to do anything out in public and instead, tone it down or go as stealth as possible.

Then, things changed a year later and they retreated more into 'trap porn' as well as trying to do more masculine things, going as far as to ask me if I'd want to be with them if they decided to just be a man from here on out or at least stop presenting as female as often, given how they were identifying as genderqueer. On the inside, I was screaming to get out, but I held my tongue and just sucked it up, seeing as this was the first relationship that I was in, one that wasn't cheating on me, etc.

Alas, I had experienced them inserting their erm..."extra plumbing" up my a** and them claiming it was an accident. [I was paranoid for two weeks because they might have knocked me up, given how my period was late after that experience]

Unfortunately, things got worse[Even going as far as for them to call me "the best trap" and that dating trans boys were "the best thing ever" to telling me the previous year on how to vote along with telling me I had to find a job AND go to university] and I decided in 2013 to terminate the relationship.

They had gotten distant, less affectionate and even worse, more abusive. After breaking up with them, I became fragile in terms of psyche, etc. and wanted to quit this site.

Their last words were that nobody would love me and to say the truth, I wanted to kill myself after those words were said. I couldn't take it anymore, but yet I was free from an abusive relationship, but just barely.

Alas, they plagued my cell phone and my mom's cell phone with threatening calls/text messages. It shook me to the core, to the point of hyperventilation and being afraid to even go online or answer my cell phone, much less go on Facebook/Skype. [The latter, in which they forced me to get an account, btw]

Online, I found out more about their tapestry of lies. They ended up ditching the 'Catholic' label and going into Atheism. Their supposed support for the LGBT community turned into hateful remarks for it along with conservative viewpoints.

Then, upon hearing and seeing things, they claimed they were sorry and wanted to get back in touch with me so we could be friends again. Alas, I find out they're now claiming to be an LGBT ally once more, moved to Austin and are identifying as Asexual?

I'm sorry, but you hurt me beyond belief and even raped me in the shower without an apology. You're not getting in touch with me again. If so, I'll skin you alive like a honey badger and set you on fire. mad You're a complete liar, manipulator and scam artist.

I don't want to see you again in any shape or form.